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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nicklaus(m): 7:37pm On Apr 12, 2015
SeverusSnape:
OP, YOU'RE right. I agree with you.
And most of them won't get married to the said boyfriend, These set of girls are very sanctimonious too...They are the best set of church goers.
Rubbish!!!...
hahahahahahahaha cheesy cheesy very funny but true.

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Ezicool9(m): 7:37pm On Apr 12, 2015
i see some girls going so sad and bittered because they are victims of all the acts he mentioned,...... why not keep ur body holy and abstain from all this acts then God is still ready to accept you these also goes to the boys not only the girls........pls refer to the following bible verses for deeper understanding
1corithians6v8
1thessalonians 4v3
1corithians10v13
mathew5v28
1john 1v19
ephesians5v5
hebrews13v4
....oh it pains me when i see your growing youths going into these acts, and girls generally doing it wthout any guilt of sin in the mind......may God grant us the grace to seek after nothing but his kingdom {Hell is real please repent and believe in Jesus christ then you are save}.....peace

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Taleeysun(f): 7:38pm On Apr 12, 2015
swaggzo:


YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN BE POSTING SUCH A THING AT THIS STAGE OF YOUR LIFE.

POINT ME ONE OF YOUR FAM MEMBER OR SIBLING WHO'S A SAINT. . AND I POINT OUT 50 ANIMALS THAT ARE.


SOME LADIES COHABIT WITH THEIR GUY UNTIL THEY EVEN GET MARRIED.

ITS THEIR BUSINESS. NOBODY SHOULD BE BOTHERED WHERE ITS TAKING THEM TO AS LONG AS THEY ARE ADULTS AND ARE OLD ENOUGH TO DECIDE WHAT THEY WANT WITH THEIR LIVES!
. That many people are doing it dosent justify the act

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 12, 2015
takoi:


What right do you have to judge anybody? What's your business with any woman's bride price. My good guess is that you are gay and you will never ever have to pay anybody's bride price.

Another guilty mind.


Na your father go marry you
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Edusouls(m): 7:38pm On Apr 12, 2015
pretty050:
Why should the woman take all the blame. They are both living a sin. "Wall mongers and adulterous (fornicators in this case)God will judge "
of course is a mans world,before nko, are you equal to the man,well i dont blame una women deceived by modern world,education and feminism.una own worse, una eye go open by force, when it's too late, when most of u women have condenmed ur selfs to useless beings.
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by zeal22(m): 7:38pm On Apr 12, 2015
Chai this topic dey pain me cos I bursted my fiance wen I saw her school pix with singlets in the wall hanger. No dude should fall for such pigs! If u can blow a guy for 4 to 5 yrs y can u stay with him all ya lyf! Smh

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Jeffoo(m): 7:39pm On Apr 12, 2015
True talk!!!






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go change ooo b4 may 29

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by quivah(f): 7:39pm On Apr 12, 2015
misspicy:
Truth is dz OP will end up paying high bride price n marrying a lady dat co habitated for yrs with anoda guy in sch..deserve kor
I think that's exactly what's heating the op up.
the fact that he will be paying the BRIDE PRICE of a girl who's been fecked several times..cheesy ..


lool most guys deserve the 'used toys' they married.. cheesycheesy And will pay a high bride price irrespective of the no of f.uckers...cheesy

girls dey chop as many deaks as you want before marriage (after marriage outside mess is a no no).. and there are guys that are willing to pay/have paid that bride price.. even the op cheesy

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nicklaus(m): 7:39pm On Apr 12, 2015
Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children
STOP CUSSING
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by slap1(m): 7:39pm On Apr 12, 2015
swaggzo:



TELL HIM MORE.





WE NEED TO DUMP THIS MENTALITY OF. . OUR LADIES LOSING VALUE WHEN THEY SLEEP WITH DIFFERENT GUYS.

WE MAKING THE GUYS KINGS AND THE LADIES.. LIKE SLAVES.
Sleeping with a guy is different from living with him in school. It shows a dearth of morality in both the boy and the girl.

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Dexema(m): 7:40pm On Apr 12, 2015
cococandy:
Well one of you asked not long ago why girls feel like they are doing guys a favor by having sex with them.
We'll his your thread is one of the reasons for it.
If having sex with a man reduces a girl's value according to you, why would any same girl want to do it wih any of since in the end all you'll be seeing is a worthless girl who gave herself to you or someone else.

May God help all of you.
Sex dosent diminish a womans value buh dat dosent mean she should Bleep away her life like a slut,the main problem I have with cohabiting is the “wifely duties“,lack of privacy,and even the emotional attachment years after they breakup (which most eventually do). Plus here in Africa therz a lot tied to an unmarried female living totally with a man,(even outside university settings) not to talk of countless abortions dt might hav come along the way. I believe a woman is special and should have some level of self esteem + she should be able to go to reasonable lengths to keep it,for me as a Guy I have little regard for ladies who do such.
JMO

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by tonero230(m): 7:40pm On Apr 12, 2015
takoi:


What right do you have to judge anybody? What's your business with any woman's bride price. My good guess is that you are gay and you will never ever have to pay anybody's bride price.

Mumu
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by fabulousdora(f): 7:40pm On Apr 12, 2015
So true...I know somone that indulge in that act and claims she is learning how to live with her future husband when she finally settles down...I have tried arguing that with her, but finally the guy dumped her... I LMAO

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Moheat(m): 7:41pm On Apr 12, 2015
takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

Guilty conscious! so you self do that thing? No wonder you get thirdy.....
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Moheat(m): 7:42pm On Apr 12, 2015
takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

Guilty conscious! so you self do that thing? No wonder you get thirdy.....realities of life awaits all those who did such..
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by quivah(f): 7:43pm On Apr 12, 2015
on a more serious note; guys who live with girls before marriage deserves virgins, nothing less.. as you know, girls are the only one to take the 100% bashing and degrading as usual. cheesy

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by sulex947(m): 7:44pm On Apr 12, 2015
Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children
: grin you dont have to take it personal! Thats just his own opinion, except if you are or once a victim.
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by KevinDein: 7:45pm On Apr 12, 2015
setemi4ever:
[color=#770077][/color]God help guys ooooo


If u c dat one u will say she an angel
yes bro.
I've learnt to believe that every girl is a potential ho...that way I don't get to feel surprised or betrayed. society is all fuuycked up....
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by xtervaganza(m): 7:45pm On Apr 12, 2015
Kill yourself.


I can assure you the wife you'll marry has been b@nged to madness by some guy



There's more to life than thinking about your wife's past

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by streetzdreamz(m): 7:45pm On Apr 12, 2015
Sometimes back a guy opened a thread here bout ladies and their fish brains,the guy was obviously right,@rapmoney thumbs up man!! Ladies here been screaming bloody murder,and d guys guilty of such acts r doing dsame!heck!!I hate dis co-inhabiting gibberish of a thing all in d name of love,at the end of d four-6yrs relationship of steady bleeping their sorry ass gets dumped,or dey get pregnant,later they'l come up here ranting all guys are dsame,most of em have even lost count of d nomba of guys dey'v bleeped,and an unfortunate guy will later see a flower "howbeit withered" in a family,come wit his folks,prostrates,bring goods,pay d bride price and later walk down d aisle,tar!!pple see me as a strange guy for seeing most ladies as disgusting beings,they really are disgusting!!

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Edusouls(m): 7:46pm On Apr 12, 2015
swaggzo:



TELL HIM MORE.





WE NEED TO DUMP THIS MENTALITY OF. . OUR LADIES LOSING VALUE WHEN THEY SLEEP WITH DIFFERENT GUYS.

WE MAKING THE GUYS KINGS AND THE LADIES.. LIKE SLAVES.
bring ur sister let me bleep nahh and give u the video,then let me see how happy u will be with me...tell ur selfs the truth...
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by JayJustus(m): 7:46pm On Apr 12, 2015
lol..he said in America, Asia andEurope...girls don't live with guys during Uni...lol...well did you school outside to conclude...Ironically I study in Asia and the house I lived before was taken over by my friend and her boyfriend...so they live together and ofcos dem no go bang?? op you're high on the coco (baking soda)

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nicklaus(m): 7:47pm On Apr 12, 2015
swaggzo:
WELL SAID RAPMONEY, WELL SAID.


BUT LIFE IS ALWAYS BETTER WHEN WE MIND OUR OWN BUSINESS.

WE WILL MAKE MORE PROFIT IF WE DO, INSTEAD OF POKING AROUND, INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S MATTERS.
Jesus christ didn't mind his own business when he came to die for our sins. Will you say He did sth wrong. Let the truth be told for a change. After-all we all want change ISN'T

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 7:48pm On Apr 12, 2015
Bro I feel you I swear .. These girls hehe.. They will sleep with anything.. Ever asked your preset girlfriend how many boys he has slept with ? Have you ever asked her at what age she gave out her virginity ? Ever asked her how many times she sucked another man's penis ? Have you ever asked her to go for hiv test .. Ever asked her how many abortion she has done ? Boys will be claiming I love my Bae die.. Some idiots love their BAE pass their mum sef .. I pity many boys .. Some girls no get womb again.. They hVe wasted their glory... They re living corpes..
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Mcowubaba: 7:48pm On Apr 12, 2015
Moana:
I have never cohabitted because i love my personal space but honestly i dont know cohabiting gives people like the OP sleepless nights undecided firstly its her body, if she wants free regular sex its really her vagina getting it...not yours, your mother's or your sister's.

Everybody has the freedom to live their life in anyway they deem fit, provided that she doesnt harm anyone else in the process
Yeah everybody has freedom
But truly nd honestly I will not like to marry a girl that have bleeped more than 10 Different guys shocked sad
Nd has even cohabited with a guy for so long...NOO
Because 1. I have Never cohabited with any girl..
2. I have not slept with over 10 girls..
If I can control nd respect myself despite Men's natural high libido for SEX, than I expect my future wife to have even better Self control..
But the question is how will I knw dat my Future wife has nt bleeped up her intestines cheesy...
May God help us...

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Ironi: 7:49pm On Apr 12, 2015
Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

Truth is, chances are as we speak somebody is bleeping your future wife unless you marry a virgin. I know it can be painful to look at it that way and to know that some dude is shagging your future wife. Even more painful if he has a big dick, hehehehehe. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Before I married I held the same view just like you and vowed to marry a virgin because I couldn't bring myself to accept that my wife had been facked by other men.

But what are the chances that I was going to get a virgin to marry? Not very high.

Stopped worrying myself and also went out there and bleeped other people's future wife too. A few virgins were on the list.

With my wife I just don't even go there and don't try to pry into her past. Lucky to get a decent woman though.

You should get a virgin as a wife if it bothers you that much, but they don't come that way anymore after certain age so my advise is, start early and catch them young and unspoiled as wives otherwise forget it.

On the other hand if it would make you feel any better, go out there and bleep other people's future wives too as they are bleeping yours by now. grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Rapmoney(m): 7:50pm On Apr 12, 2015
Zohan:
Thanks Rapmoney... D thing tire me oo. If you ain't coming for any business other than Books, fvck it. cheesy cheesy
Thanks man!
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by swezenberg(m): 7:50pm On Apr 12, 2015
See the way those that are still in the act are against the the truth from the OP. This is why many marriages no longer work. How can you sleep with a man for 4-5 yrs and you won't see him making love to you in your dreams when you eventually get married to someone else.

In fact when some of them come across later they will still indulge in the unholy act.

The truth is that man has a bond with you already, spiritually, by blood, emotionally and in many areas. Only a deliverance can keep your future marriage because there will be lots of comparison going on in your brain.
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by deeLima86(m): 7:51pm On Apr 12, 2015
Blebleswag:

Abeg shift
Broda man I think your message is talking to this girl indirectly.
I see the guilt all over her. This girl did not only stay with her bf for four years plus her spill over year in the university making 5 years of unlawful and immoral union. What a shame!
Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Nobody: 7:51pm On Apr 12, 2015
Who's the dirty harlot between me and you? Someone like me who's waiting for marriage and has not gone near a man or someone like you who has babies out of wedlock and terminates them because in your own words, they're "unplanned assignments?".


shadowgwalker:
you see your life? cheesy clumsy who're!!you are talking to a guy in the first place.
dirtyharlot... you no get dignity sef.

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Re: Girls Who Cohabited In The University Do Not Deserve Bride Price!!! by Edusouls(m): 7:51pm On Apr 12, 2015
swaggzo:


DISGRACE TO WOMANHOOD?

IF YOU'VE EVER HAD A GIRL ALL YOUR LIFE, BEFORE MARRIAGE. .
YOU'RE A DISGRACE TO MANHOOD!! undecided
noo he is not,any woman that gets married on campus, through out the years and still come out,hoping and presenting himself to get married the 3rd time..is a big DISSAPOINTMENT AND DISGRACE TO WOMANHOOD WORLD WIDE...

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