swaggzo:


YOU SHOULDN'T EVEN BE POSTING SUCH A THING AT THIS STAGE OF YOUR LIFE.

POINT ME ONE OF YOUR FAM MEMBER OR SIBLING WHO'S A SAINT. . AND I POINT OUT 50 ANIMALS THAT ARE.


SOME LADIES COHABIT WITH THEIR GUY UNTIL THEY EVEN GET MARRIED.

ITS THEIR BUSINESS. NOBODY SHOULD BE BOTHERED WHERE ITS TAKING THEM TO AS LONG AS THEY ARE ADULTS AND ARE OLD ENOUGH TO DECIDE WHAT THEY WANT WITH THEIR LIVES!

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

Moana:
I have never cohabitted because i love my personal space but honestly i dont know cohabiting gives people like the OP sleepless nights firstly its her body, if she wants free regular sex its really her vagina getting it...not yours, your mother's or your sister's.

Everybody has the freedom to live their life in anyway they deem fit, provided that she doesnt harm anyone else in the process

Misterdhee1:

U r Enormously wrong. The problem in this world is that many of us see bad things as normalcy. We see others as being others, when truly the lifestyle of others one way or the other av a direct impact on everyone of us.. No one is holy though, but what is wrong will ever remain wrong. Let's us not try nd make them look monumentous!!

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

50calibre:
Well as much as I would have loved to disagree with the OP, I think he's got some valid points that can't just be ignored.

Since Nigerian women are traded like livestock, it is only fair that a woman is delivered to you in pristine condition.

I'm not too familiar with the co-habitation thing, I didn't experience it, neither does it sound like something I could have agreed to. I think in most cases, co-habitation is a mutual arrangement between two parties (boy & girl) each bringing something to the table. I can understand the struggles of a student in a country like Nigeria where most are forced to fend for themselves in different ways.

Sadly, after years of wear & tear, one can't expect an astute businessman like me to shell out a fortune on some high mileage puss*y.

lipstick2:



I don't think any schooling have a case of co-habitation like u have in ekpoma,at a point it became a trend that starts from ur jambite/jambito day till graduation.
The girl just moves into the boys house ,na so,wife duty starts
They bath togeda
Eat
Party
Night reading
Lectures togeda etc.
We had a case of this dude and his babe,them love so tay,them come dey win best couple everywhere.
The boy can beat the girl but babe no send,we go dey psyche the girl to leave,she no wan go,guy beat am broke her teeth,she still dey.
In the guys 400 level anoda babe show for area,na so guy leave this former babe begin follow this new one,even when pple go tell say ur guy is cheating,she no believe,until guy graduate a year after we hear say im marry the new girl.
The Chic faint na.
Such relationship dey end for school gate.Worse b saychics no dey learn.They even cohabit inside private hostels like 1004 etc.

No nid for bride price true true.If u can leave those number of years being serviced for free,u can as well follow any man u fancy home without a kobo paid on u.
This is definitely not a western orientation. People shd call a spade a spade,its not proper,just like having 'Baby mama'is not proper.

ideykwum:
So, because it's her body, we should turn our backs on societal ills and say nothing? Fine, let's let drug addicts do their thing, afterall it's their body!!!

fareedah86:
So what happens to the guy? The mistake most guys make is they believe or rather think because they are men,they won't suffer the consequences of their actions. You lie. God cannot be mocked. Why do u think men are losing their place in the home as the head nowadays? God dsnt leave one and judge the other. They would both suffer the consequences. I have a life example.
Note: grace is available and anyone no matter how deep you have gotten into sin, God's love is always there. Sme prostitutes had the best society weddings and sme virgins wernt even celebrated. It's all abt grace. If we dnt fall,there wld be no need for mercy and grace from God.
Dnt judge,life exceeds all that and bfre God blesses one he dsnt look @ all those things. Sure your sis and all d unmarried females who passed through higher institution are virgins? Understand what life is before u sitdown to post some things.

Trottle:
If the parent of either party as an average Nigerian found their child engaging in such what would be their reply? this should give you the answer. You schooled in some "non mediocre" place does not make you Albert Einstein automatically. Stop the "famzing".

50calibre:
Sadly, after years of wear & tear, one can't expect an astute businessman like me to shell out a fortune on some high mileage puss*y.

fareedah86:


Wonder what you would have done if you were god...

chuna1985:



Hey u stup.id fo.ol

just call ur mum n sisters on phone n tell dem dis

Blebleswag:

Abeg shift

wallflower:


Your analogy is redundant, Hard drugs can influence a person to cause harm to others whereas an unmarried couple living together hurts no one and it isn't a "societal ill"

ideykwum:
That you are doing it doesn't make it right! No matter the excuse!! Why should you be paying for accommodation for a lady you aren't married to? Is that what your upbringing taught you? I'd flog my younger bro (yes, I'm older than you!) if I hear he did such!! You are not responsible for her until you marry her, and despite your high hopes, the odds of marrying that girl are pretty slim! You can quote me on that!!! It's all water down the drain! You can assist a woman, contribute occasionally, but never accept total financial obligation except you are married, she is a relative or your ward! Grow some sense!

ideykwum:
What makes you think that when you co-habit, you hurt no one? For starters, if you have a family that has average morals, you hurt them! And the likelihood of hurting each other is high, talk more of the unborn babies that are sacrificed on the altar of lust!!

rumomonga:


You must be thinking it comes with a meter I guess #Learner

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

martyns303:


On a proper day, u can't come anything close to where I am, less of talking to me. But then this a public forum so u can whatever you want.

kobonaire:
why are you talking about morality when the OP of this senseless thread is instead focussing on "bride price"??

I agree with @wallFlower here

engrkenny:


Good understanding, but you should expunge the part about his sisters, he only shared his viewpoint and he shouldn't be judged for it.

ideykwum:
What makes you think that when you co-habit, you hurt no one? For starters, if you have a family that has average morals, you hurt them! And the likelihood of hurting each other is high, talk more of the unborn babies that are sacrificed on the altar of lust!!

ziqqz:
The wickedness of women!
I agree with op jhoor
I just broke up with one pretty one...my guys used to call her mami water cos she is too beautiful, and whoever marries her will feel like he has won a trophy for life!
But with the way she used to suck the hell outta my cock like a machine, right before I slammed her left right top bottom and center, I must confess that I'll feel very sorry for the guy who'll marry her.
If I attend the wedding, I'll be feeling like a baddiguy and laughing at the guy in my mind

Nicklaus:
don't listen to him. The bacteria in that tomato head of his had eaten deep so hez now full of $hiT !