RottenTomato:
U lack commonsense! U must be a very stu.pid person! The Op is far better and wiser than u! Fool!!!

RottenTomato:
Shut up! Mugu!

Rapmoney:
You are just senseless!!! Where did u leave ur brain? In a pit toilet?

Rapmoney:
You are just senseless!!! Where did u leave ur brain? In a pit toilet?

jahjehova:
I can see you are cohabiting. If not, e no go pain you as e dey do so. I repeat RapMoney's question; are they gaining value

Blebleswag:

U moniker says it all anyway

martyns303:



Thanks for your comment, about my expenses on her, I have no regrets whatsoever. We have both made sacrifices for each other. I have found that, either way people will talk, if I were not doing the things am doing, the story would have been. " look at a girl that was there for him, and today he doesn't care about her".

About her starting a business, we have talked about it, she wanted to buy shoes and be selling to her course mates and other people, which will be easier for her kind of person, as she is very very lively and really likeable. She have a friend who goes to a neighboring country to buy stuffs like that and wants to go with her. The problem is my GF is not that kind of strong person to bear active stresses, she appears to be agile on the outside but at the end of the day she falls really sick and I have to baby sit her or she goes home to her mom.

She really wants to do this business to help, am just concerned for her.

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

kobonaire:
why are you talking about morality when the OP of this senseless thread is instead focussing on "bride price"??

I agree with @wallFlower here

aflyingbird:
I don't agree with cohabitation of any sort and have never done it nor will I ever do it. But to say a person loses their value because of it, really? If that's the extent if your education then I pity you. Some idi000ts here, even the females, are agreeing with the op. Too much ignorance and mediocre education is ruining Nigeria!

Blebleswag:
Same they wil do to ur sisters, cos she's bn jumpin 4rm peter2james, fryingpan2pot etc.
Or if u dnt hav sisters, then to ur girl child/children

garriboy:
Guilt is making many girls here blast the op but really let's look at it. If u cohabit wit one guy and break up and cohabit wit d next guy and d next and d next, would u still feel u have worth (I'm not talking about bride price mind u)? Seriously wat r we saying. Now some girls would say in dis case they will choose dose dey would and won't cohabit wit and it will beg another question; how do u decide whom u can cohabit with, since d last one u were so sure of, u ended up breaking up with. And before u blast the op again answer urself honestly to the question; will u like to mention to ur present bf that at some point u cohabited with some person(s)? I mean honestly answer urself. Make we talk true na

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

wallflower:


And now you're jumping to conclusions, so every girl that lives with her boyfriend has had an abortion? and I'll also point out the fact that unwanted pregnancy isn't exclusive to "cohabiters".
And on the the matter of family, it still falls under the category of your personal interpretation of morality.

ideykwum:
He doesn't have to use the word "morality"! From his writing, you can deduce why he thinks their brideprice shouldn't be paid! That raises moral questions!

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

quivah:

why not remove the wood in your eye before rushing to remove the wool in someone else's eye? .. you are here judging as if you are any better(if not worse) than those who cohabit.. were you not the 'holy sister' who wanted to abort her pregnancy even when having a 1yr old kid out of wedlock?! yeah its you!

@op you've said the truth but you sound pained, you would have passed a better message if you were neutral and treated both parties.. I'm beginning to wonder if you are here to intentionally bash those girls that do it while relieving the dudes!..
the worse part of cohabitation is 'performing widely duties' gosh!! God forbids! . however if you really wanna pass a message, why not touch all possible areas? there are guys and girls who feck on daily basis as if their lives depend on it(even tho they are not cohabiting).. the only thing I grab in your message is: cohabitation is wrong.. while sex(so far the girl and guy are nor staying together) is no big deal..

also I'd like to point out that there are exceptional cases to cohabitation.. there are some cases with genuine reasons(like financial meltdown etc) , also even if this is hard to believe, but there are cases of cohabitation without the involvement of s.ex.. fact!

and mind you, those girls whose bride price needed not to be paid will keep getting married every Saturday to men, i mean good men). that's the bitter truth!! men are still the ones on the loosing side.. its better you start condemning both parties... no double standards! na una go still carry the damaged goods to meet una mama

Gracyel:


My dear...its such a pity. And even if d lady loses value, then same should go for the guy!!!, plus whats dis bullshit about brideprice?? Who says pple collect brideprice anymore. My yoruba brothers and sisters can testify to it. Whatever money is paid to d bride's family is returned immediately after d ceremony......Now lemme wait for one slowpoke to misquote me!

slimwhite:
Jezzzzzzz.....kobonaira abeg easy ooo.....no kill person with your mouth...... cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Nwachiizu:


I think this will help more if you will post her full names. You can even go further by revealing her image here

takoi:
There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

ideykwum:
I see your logic and it makes sense, however, do you know how many men are emotionally scarred by such relationships that have gone sour? I tell people that we are lucky in Nigeria because our religious institutions bridge the gap for physiological issues and psychiatry ( I wasn't surprised when I read somewhere that 45% of Nigerians have psychiatric problems). In my opinion, Nigerian marriages are failing more these days, not because of village juju, but because many scarred people are coming together without targeted counselling!

It's okay to assist people, but when there is an emotional and romantic undertone to it, it needs to be approached with extreme caution! My advice on this is: Never venture!!