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pwerrymansion:
my dear you need to counsel yourself that all guys are not the same. I know its hard with the trust issue bt take another leap of faith with someone else. Bt make sure its with the right person. Tell whoever u will go out with next these fears ok? Life itself is a risk. Don't hold on too long with those fears else you will miss your Knight in shinning armour which often times disguise themselves as frogs..."Lol.

Lala247:
Ok so basically i shouldnt watch their happiness
But focus on getting mine?

MzzTega:
Lol @ acting. OK! lemme share this piece with you.
My Cousin was dating this girl. They were well known in school cos they were always together. The guy did odd things for this babe. A time came and the lady was seeing another guy,the guy found out,she apologised and he forgave. It was rumoured the guy was cheating later,no concrete evidence tho. the babe called it off without listening to the guy. She moved on with another guy,and my bro was alone.

Fastword to A year later. My bro started dating another lady, with great relevance in her hood. the news got to his ex she was angry. Angry for? Me dunno. And the guy she ran to dumped her. My bro, is on and living like a big boy not ACTING to be happy but LIVING happy

Arsenalholic:
Some girls are actually very confused beings. They no not what they want from life.

She was angry? She no vex reach, she for go slap your bro and the gf when they were walking past one day. Nonsense!

Arsenalholic:
You didn't answer my kweshion, Mr. I am trying to drive at something, don't jump the gun.

Lala247:
Lol

MzzTega:
Lol. And he really loved her oo.

Who love don help.

pwerrymansion:
Start by appreciating and loving yourself more.... Try out new things or adventures you've been willing to do in a long while. Mingle more with Responsible and reasonable people who will not take advantage of your Vulnerability. You don't want to jump from frying pan to fire. Try on a new look, new makeover(for ladies). And don't give that EX the idea that he was your messiah!!!!!! MOVE on! There's light @ the other side goodluck!

MzzTega:
Lol. And he really loved her oo.

MzzTega:
Yeah! It's all about you!

Slimzjoe:
You'll do all this cos of a breakup??
Lala have you now seen that Ladies don't get over break ups Easily

Jux compare the answers guys have given and the ones Ladies hav

sinizia:
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Moving on is nothing but picking up the pieces of your broken heart and trying to forget the hurts, the unfulfilled promises, the emotional trauma, the future dreams you had with your partner that got shattered and obliterated, and reshaping your life again.

People have different ways of moving on. You just have to master which way works for you. Some move on by engaging in their work and taking it more seriously. Some move on by change of scenery. People like Taylor Swift and Adele, move on by pouring out their hearts through their musics.

If you wanna move on, you have to stop dwelling in the past. You have to stop the pity party and self-pity. You've to start loving yourself again, stop living in the past. Start doing the things that made you happy before and during the time you were dating him or her. Engage in something that keeps you busy and most importantly, do away with things that reminds you of him or her.

Let me describe a story of how I moved on with my first major heartbreak. Actually, I was the one that broke up with her when I couldn't tolerate it no more. And after several months, I couldn't get her off my mind. I was young and naïve then. She's my first GF, so letting go was hard. All that change when I found out I kept all our messages when things were good between us. I kept all our lovely pics together and whenever I scroll through my phone, the painful feeling swept across my heart. What did I do? I deleted all the message we shared. Moved our pics together to a separate folder in my laptop. It's like a soft formatting of my memory of her. Two months after that act, I moved on. 4 months after that act, I saw her pics and didn't feel a thing. she didn't matter any more to me. That's how I flushed her out of my mind.

ronald4lif:
Who love don help.

ME!
Jesus has been loving me from the beginning despite all my faults. Aint he just the sweetest guy around?

FLAWLES:
I din even know how i did mine :/ ;

sweetorgasm:
yes i will

Lala247:
Ok so basically i shouldnt watch their happiness
But focus on getting mine?

Arsenalholic:
Too bad for her. It's her loss. 'cos the guy has moved on to bigger and better things now, and she'd be wallowing in self-pity and regret at the darkest corner of her room.

It still boils down to what I earlier said: ''many do not know what exactly they want from/in life''.

pwerrymansion:
keep deceiving yourself that guys are exceptional cases.

MzzTega:
ME!
Jesus has been loving me from the beginning despite all my faults. Aint he just the sweetest guy around?

I'm not talking about God love. But the love existing in an amorous relationship. Who e don help pay bills.

sinizia:
Yep. An EX should be EXcommunicated. Don't dwell on the past. Go back to things that makes you happy. Holding on that he might come back is the greatest form of low self-esteem. Love yourself, grow yourself, face your studies and pursue your career/business. Be happy. Hang out with your BFFs. Don't stalk him or monitor him, you'll end up getting hurt. When you do all these, hopefully the right guy will come by and your ex will see you one day grow from strength to strength. This is the best form of revenge.

ronald4lif:
This sweetorgasm dude though.

Lala247:
Thanks girl just need these motivational convos ..
Good to know people get what its like

Slimzjoe:
Na ur Village brother

ronald4lif:
I'm not talking about God love. But the love existing in an amorous relationship. Who e don help pay bills.

I know who




ME

Lala247:
So basically wipe out all existence of your ex

Lala247:
But mine finds say to contact me sha .. Just when i think i can move on completely . Bang his there again

Last convo we had was him describing his new bae like shes the world.. Like why do that tho .. Soo frustrating

sinizia:
Hahahaha.

You haven't moved on hun. If you've moved on, nothing your ex will do will move you. My last ex is my friend on BBM. As a matter of fact, I attended her birthday hosted for her by her new BF and didn't feel slighted or hurt. Why? Because I've moved the fúck on. We're tight till now, no hard feelings. I do see her BF sometimes and we greet and go our separate ways. Learn to move on. Your ex has moved on, stop holding on to past love. It doesn't exist anymore.

Lala247: