pwerrymansion:
Start by appreciating and loving yourself more.... Try out new things or adventures you've been willing to do in a long while. Mingle more with Responsible and reasonable people who will not take advantage of your Vulnerability. You don't want to jump from frying pan to fire. Try on a new look, new makeover(for ladies). And don't give that EX the idea that he was your messiah!!!!!! MOVE on! There's light @ the other side goodluck!

MzzTega:
Your post said it.
God can,just give him your broken pieces.

sinizia:
The best way I mend my broken heart is to move the fúck on with my life. Bear the hurts, accept she's gone and move on with my life. The pains will still reside as I move on, but with time, I'll get used to it. Another way is to wipe off our romantic chats when we're lovey dovey, and also move our romantic pictures to my laptop, leaving one or two normal pictures of her in my phone. That way, I don't get to get to see her face all the time till I've healed up.

And no, revenge is never the best solution. The best revenge you can give to someone the broke your heart is to - smile, live in peace, eat good, look good, show 'em life exist without them and above all, succeed in whatever you are doing. No time to hate on 'em, they don't worth your stress, because hating brings so much negative energy and trust me, you don't need that.

sweetorgasm:
the best way to recover 4rm a broken heart trust me is to have a nice dinner and a strong sex, i mean real sweet sex from a guy or girl that has been begging u for a relationship, dat way afta d sex, u will 4get everytin abt who broke ur heart n quickly move on with ur new admirer.

sweetorgasm:
the best way to recover 4rm a broken heart trust me is to have a nice dinner and a strong sex, i mean real sweet sex from a guy or girl that has been begging u for a relationship, dat way afta d sex, u will 4get everytin abt who broke ur heart n quickly move on with ur new admirer.

leshluap:
success is the best revenge. when someone leaves you, for whatever reason, don't be discouraged, carry yourself and move on. be the best you can, don't get consumed with self pity. make yourself happy.

Lala247:


Lol its easier said than done

Even those that go to church everyday still go home to cry .

Arsenalholic:
can you give such an advise to a sister/brother or son/daughter of yours?

Lala247:
Hey peeps
Can you share best ways to mend, cure, heal a broken heart
Alot of people especially women find it hard to trust again .. How can we move past the hurt ?

Please share ways to mend, what did you do to get over your ex

And is revenge the best answer?some people can heal quicker than others share how you did it .

Lala247:


But people use the term move on

What is it to move on .. Explain pls there are ppl who dont know how to ..
Asin how do u do it
Its like i tell myself i have moved on but yet it is still hindering alot of things ..

MzzTega:

Post modified.
Only if you'll just believe someone better is coming. little things give way for BIG things.

Lala247:


Nice point ther sure some would read and take ur advice
Nice one..
Have u ever been heart broken? Seems like ur speaking from experience .

sinizia:

Typing..

pwerrymansion:
yes dear I have! And most people do encounter it at some point in their lives. It makes you tough though! And you get to learn from the experience so you don't let a reoccurence

Arsenalholic:
can you give such an advise to a sister/brother or son/daughter of yours?

sinizia:


This is the dumbest way to recover from a broken heart. Only kids will tow the path. This path of recovery is like going on a binge or getting high when you're hurt, frustrated, sad, lonely or heartbroken; you'll only get high for sometime, but when you recover your grey matter, reality kicks back in and you relapse into more sadness.

Your solution is for those that never truly cared about his or her partner. If you really did, then you can't type that shít up there.

sweetorgasm:
wait a minute, broken heart or not, "who doesnt have sex, or who doesnt fornicate? c listen bro life is too damm short to worry urself or trying 2 luk gud, smile or wharever just bcaus u wana show ur ex dat uve moved on. every guy or girl out there has an admirer, someone who is ready to take your girlfriend or boyfriend's place and love u unconditionally. "so wat i am saying is say yes to that admirer, go to dinner together, have fun together and have sex together and in between days u are in a new relationship already and d stupid guy or girl dat broke ur heart will be HISTORY.

Lala247:


But with me sha
I thinkthats what the problem is .. Like i cant trust guys .. I really cant its like i look for reason y i cant trust him ..
Lol cuz if i do t snap out of it nah single life forever be that n i know alot of chics go through this .

Lala247:


Its true sha

But girl its hard men
Its like u try to be strong n then u remember how he messed up ur life .. the worst part is when u see him with another girl acting like they r happy .. Hmmm.

sinizia:


That nigga is a kid, his type never get real love. They don't love. They only fúck and move on. His post is one of the dumbest I've seen in ages.

MzzTega:

Lol @ acting. OK! lemme share this piece with you.
My Cousin was dating this girl. They were well known in school cos they were always together. The guy did odd things for this babe. A time came and the lady was seeing another guy,the guy found out,she apologised and he forgave. It was rumoured the guy was cheating later,no concrete evidence tho. the babe called it off without listening to the guy. She moved on with another guy,and my bro was alone.

Fastword to A year later. My bro started dating another lady, with great relevance in her hood. the news got to his ex she was angry. Angry for? Me dunno. And the guy she ran to dumped her. My bro, is on and living like a big boy not ACTING to be happy but LIVING happy