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My ex left me for a player and she fully knows this guy is not serious and she left her 3 yrs relationship for the guy now she's back begging me, I do love her but the thought of another guy seeing her unclothedness can't leave my head what can I do to forget?

Easy to forgive but hard to forget!

If u can't stand her past I ask you to forget her.

shaizegotswag:
My ex left me for a player and she fully knows this guy is not serious and she left her 3 yrs relationship for the guy now she's back begging me, I do love her but the thought of another guy seeing her unclothedness can't leave my head what can I do to forget?

temitemi1:
If u can't stand her past I ask you to forget her.

is there anyway I can stand? I do love her so much and I believe she's only human not perfect

It is hard to forget esp issues that deals with the heart.

TrishaP:
It is hard to forget esp issues that deals with the heart.

yes very hard and I don't understand how girls fall for players, knowing fully well he has nothing to offer than sex and still keep on cos of sweet mouth

Why has she returned to u? Was she dumped by the player? Why did she leave u in the first place? Did u push her away in anyway? If she returned cos she's been dumped, don't take her back.

Then u need to let her past be her past! Was she a virgin wn u met her

shaizegotswag:
is there anyway I can stand? I do love her so much and I believe she's only human not perfect

temitemi1:
Then u need to let her past be her past! Was she a virgin wn u met her

yes she was a virgin and the guy took it

To forgive is devine but to forget is another wahala. She left u for a player? With a record like that, i dont think she's the steady type for a steady relationship for now. Forgive her but move on with ya life.

shaizegotswag:
is there anyway I can stand? I do love her so much and I believe she's only human not perfect

Dude she has to love you "so much" as well for it to work. Clearly you're the only one loving "so much" . And you may be hurt again in future.

Jackeeh:
Why has she returned to u? Was she dumped by the player? Why did she leave u in the first place? Did u push her away in anyway? If she returned cos she's been dumped, don't take her back.

the guy just stopped calling her and I mistakenly slap her sometime ago but I later begged her but she didn't answer me cos of the guy ans she told me the guy impregnated someone like that sha

Jackeeh:
Dude she has to love you "so much" as well for it to work. Clearly you're the only one loving "so much" . And you may be hurt again in future.

bro I love with my brain now ooo, u don't know wot I went thru when she left and now she tells me that each time I call her she gets scared maybe am gonna tell her to stop calling me

major466:
To forgive is devine but to forget is another wahala. She left u for a player? With a record like that, i dont think she's the steady type for a steady relationship for now. Forgive her but move on with ya life.

hmmmnnn now she's promising she's not going always calling or texting me, wot do u tink?

shaizegotswag:
My ex left me for a player and she fully knows this guy is not serious and she left her 3 yrs relationship for the guy now she's back begging me, I do love her but the thought of another guy seeing her unclothedness can't leave my head what can I do to forget?

in every reaction, there is an equal opposition action...forqivinq and forqettinq is wah define yhu as a stronq or weak person...#ProdiqalLover :-/ :-/ :-/

whizzzz:
in every reaction, there is an equal opposition action...forqivinq and forqettinq is wah define yhu as a stronq or weak person...#ProdiqalLover :-/ :-/ :-/

thanks bro for your time and real word

I drink Orijin and smoke Sk

shaizegotswag:
yes she was a virgin and the guy took it

What? Forget about her and move on, time will heal you somehow. trust me, you will not die. later on, you will find another girl that you will also fall in love with and the love would be fully returned.

shaizegotswag:
hmmmnnn now she's promising she's not going always calling or texting me, wot do u tink?

Its what they do when they realise they are single again. First find out what went down with her relationship with the player. If she's the one that dumped him, then maybe u should take her back. If not, well its up to u to decide.

major466:
Its what they do when they realise they are single again. First find out what went down with her relationship with the player. If she's the one that dumped him, then maybe u should take her back. If not, well its up to u to decide.

ok bro I will do just that

She was a virgin the guy took it!


That alone won't make you forget even if you forgive her.

Missmossy:
She was a virgin the guy took it!


That alone won't make you forget even if you forgive her.

yes my sister very painful

Missmossy:
She was a virgin the guy took it!


That alone won't make you forget even if you forgive her.

I am presently facing the exact thing, its just that I was the one who "disvirgined" her...but I was a jerk she left but I want to get her back

shaizegotswag:
yes very hard and I don't understand how girls fall for players, knowing fully well he has nothing to offer than sex and still keep on cos of sweet mouth

Can't really explain that. Everyone is moved by something so it depends very much on the person's self control.
Sorry about the heartbreak.

[quote author=Missmossy post=33022286][/quote]to open thread for u jez dey hungry me.

Btw, r u a virgin? yes or no. If u cn answer me directly without beating abt d bush, i will marry u.

shaizegotswag:
yes she was a virgin and the guy took it

lemme tell you the truth, she not a virgin at all. She lied to you about her virginity status n now she knws she can't hid it anymore so she just used d guy to make u believe she lost it. Hope u get me can't type that much

shaizegotswag:
thanks bro for your time and real word

yhu welcme

Jackeeh:
Why has she returned to u? Was she dumped by the player? Why did she leave u in the first place? Did u push her away in anyway? If she returned cos she's been dumped, don't take her back.

so you actually think there are reasons out there to possibly take this ungrateful lady back?

temitemi1:
Then u need to let her past be her past! Was she a virgin wn u met her

do you thing being a virgin (or not) actually makes a difference here?

@ shaizegotswag
time is what you need.... as difficult as it may seem today, you will someday forget about this ungrateful lady passing through your life, and you will find a lady ten times better than her that will cherish everything about you, that will love you and stand by you unconditionally.

(no offense) your ex knew what she was getting herself into, you were NOT enough for her, you were not man enough to offer her virginity to you, she wanted more and went and get it. you will always remain "small" for this lady. but guess what? if the other playa had not treated her like garbage and dumped her, she would still be with him. so it was not HER CHOICE to come back to you, he got rid of her sorry self and now she came back to you. such women are dangerous because she is only using you for comfort until she can bounce back and find another "better" man than you.

if that is the kind of lady/relationship you are looking for in your life, then good luck.

It's wise to forgive but stupid to forget.

MRBrownJ:
so you actually think there are reasons out there to possibly take this ungrateful lady back?



do you thing being a virgin (or not) actually makes a difference here?

@ shaizegotswag
time is what you need.... as difficult as it may seem today, you will someday forget about this ungrateful lady passing through your life, and you will find a lady ten times better than her that will cherish everything about you, that will love you and stand by you unconditionally.

(no offense) your ex knew what she was getting herself into, you were NOT enough for her, you were not man enough to offer her virginity to you, she wanted more and went and get it. you will always remain "small" for this lady. but guess what? if the other playa had not treated her like garbage and dumped her, she would still be with him. so it was not HER CHOICE to come back to you, he got rid of her sorry self and now she came back to you. such women are dangerous because she is only using you for comfort until she can bounce back and find another "better" man than you.

if that is the kind of lady/relationship you are looking for in your life, then good luck.

wow! Bro you're very very right

Gflat:
I am presently facing the exact thing, its just that I was the one who "disvirgined" her...but I was a jerk she left but I want to get her back

so how far about getting her back?

bro the truth is there has never been #forgive and forget.............buh try ur best to see wat u can do, just knw dis there is sometin she see in u that the guy does not posses....so seeing her back she surely hav missed u...............buh pls always be calm to watever she says and act slow make her look like she means nofin to u, and pls keep her at bay most times...........wetin 6weeks she would always cry and ask for ur forgiveness every 3mins of the rest of her life if u guys eventually would head for marriage, come back and tank me later.