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jerryfunky:
bro the truth is there has never been #forgive and forget.............buh try ur best to see wat u can do, just knw dis there is sometin she see in u that the guy does not posses....so seeing her back she surely hav missed u...............buh pls always be calm to watever she says and act slow make her look like she means nofin to u, and pls keep her at bay most times...........wetin 6weeks she would always cry and ask for ur forgiveness every 3mins of the rest of her life if u guys eventually would head for marriage, come back and tank me later.

yes bro I give her frequent head like if she calls me and we talk normal I might txt later on and she will start begging again so sometimes she's scared to pick my calls cos she doesn't want to hear me say she should stop calling me , I'll never give in easily nd now she's ready to do my wish

Guy pele.

I know you're emotional right now and may not be able to think clearly but if you take her back, you've just laid a precedence and it will happen again and again..

There is nothing like "forgive and forget".

True forgiveness means being able to remember being hurt but having no pain & desire to want to revenge and willing to get along with the offender.

segedoo:
Guy pele.

I know you're emotional right now and may not be able to think clearly but if you take her back, you've just laid a precedence and it will happen again and again..

There is nothing like "forgive and forget".

True forgiveness means being able to remember being hurt but having no pain & desire to want to revenge and willing to get along with the offender.

baba thanks I just tire

shaizegotswag:
My ex left me for a player and she fully knows this guy is not serious and she left her 3 yrs relationship for the guy now she's back begging me, I do love her but the thought of another guy seeing her unclothedness can't leave my head what can I do to forget?

Time. That's all you need. No magic eraser, but that of time.

Sorry!

Xiadnat:
Time. That's all you need. No magic eraser, but that of time.

Sorry!

Are you saying I should take her back or I should just forget about her?

shaizegotswag:
Are you saying I should take her back or I should just forget about her?

Move on.....If it's meant to be, it will at some point.

I guess the circumstances of the events of her leaving and why do play a role.

I don't know the whole story including her side.

So It's hard to tell you what to do in this scenario.

Xiadnat:
Move on.....If it's meant to be, it will at some point.

I guess the circumstances of the events of her leaving and why do play a role.

I don't know the whole story including her side.

So It's hard to tell you what to do in this scenario.

move on with or without her?

shaizegotswag:
baba thanks I just tire

Chief, you'll be fine.
Believe me, I speak from experience. In fact, it'll get to a point when you'll wonder what you saw in her.

Make female friends of different peronalities too at this time - just platonic friends.

shaizegotswag:
so how far about getting her back?

I tried calling her and talking things out...she said she really likes me but I might not change from who I use to be (she is kind of worried about that..but I have changed).
I think we will just keep it on light communication for now