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12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by superneutral(op): 8:41am On Apr 29, 2015
Are you those guys who asked me why girls usually choose a
bad boy instead of opting for a nice and calm partner who
would treat her right? I've come up with reasonable reasons this
happens.. Lets roll..

12 Reasons Women Don't Date Nice Guys:

1. Nice guys are just too nice. They are busy being nice instead
of being real, and women don't trust that. Bad boys "keep it
real." Nice guys don't want to hurt a fly.

2. They often expect women to just know how they feel and
don't have the guts to say what they really think. Nice guys
complain girls use them but they're too scared to actually say
something and let her know where they stand and what they
expect.

3. Nice guys don't set boundaries or make any real demands. A
bad boy doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him.
Women can't respect a man they can control. Women are not
attracted to guys who they don't respect.

4. Most Nice Guys are Predictable. Girls are attracted to people
who are exciting and a bit unpredictable.

5. Nice guys don't usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do,
so they become a project. **Hehe.. Women think if they can
"create" the perfect man, he will never leave them.

6. Most shy guys have low self-esteem

7. Fear of commitment. If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she
knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get
close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will
eventually want a commitment, and that's really scary.

8. They're terrible in bed. They worked so hard to get laid only to
end up not knowing what to do. They don't have the experience
or confidence to make a woman feel sexually fulfilled and
satisfied.Women feel a nice guy won't be good in bed.

9. Bad guys are Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who is not
hot? They probably wouldn't be able to get away with the bad
stuffs they did if they didn't look so good.

10. Nice guys agree with everything. A guy who agrees with
everything, never has an opinion, and lets people treat them
anyhow they want isn't attractive. Someone with their own
distinct personality who isn't afraid of voicing his opinion is going
to attract more women than just pretending like he's cool with
everything.

11. Nice guys don't always know what to say and are sometimes
at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know
exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually
switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true
colors, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time
letting go.

12. Protection. Even the most independent and self-sufficient
woman wants to be with someone who, at the end of the day,
makes her feel safe to be with. Women want someone who can
protect them if they need it. A girl want to know if her boyfriend
is going to be there to help her out if some guy is talking shit to
her.

You Guys should note this: Just because a woman doesn't want
to date a nice guy, doesn't mean she only dates bad guys. A girl
wants someone who is willing to correct her when She goes
wrong and someone who is confident.
Guys, all I'm trying to say is that you should Love and care for
your girlfriend but don't to let her walk all over you.


http://www.foldvibes.com/2015/04/reasons-women-dont-date-nice-guys.html?m=1

Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by stephenqueen: 8:43am On Apr 29, 2015
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Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Emmyk(m): 8:47am On Apr 29, 2015
Motigbo
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by agarawu23(m): 8:47am On Apr 29, 2015
8. They're terrible in bed. They worked so hard to get laid only toend up not knowing what to do. They don't have the experienceor confidence to make a woman feel sexually fulfilled andsatisfied.Women feel a nice guy won't be good in bed.



u must be kiddinggrin so becos a guy is nice, DAT means he don't know how to handle lady on bed. FAT LIE

Some nice guys are more worst than than the bad guys. Some of these bad guys pretend to be a nice guy just to get their drm girl.

Ladies shld just pray for a good partner because bad/good guys is not written on the forehead.
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nobody:
Been bad or good, every'tin rotates abt hw big ur pocket is! Tho nt all but mostly dats d case. .
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Allureoftheseas(m): 8:50am On Apr 29, 2015
ladies from my kingdom are the best
don't have anything more to say .
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Basildvalour(m): 8:53am On Apr 29, 2015
I have been bad but was supernaturally touched to be good so, all antiques of a bad boy are well known to me BUT I still choose to be cool, calm and collected

The bad side is ready to sprout again whenever I get the indication it is what that lady wants.

And that is to say, every good boy has an atom of a bad boy in him
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by dechandel(f): 8:54am On Apr 29, 2015
I thought this "nice guy threads" vanished with 2014huh
Well i am married to a nice guy and he is the best kiss kiss
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nnemuka(f): 8:54am On Apr 29, 2015
Nice guys are good listeners... I love a man who has the time to listen to my nonsense and still shows interest in every thing I say.
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by demmy0325(m): 8:57am On Apr 29, 2015
Its the other way round 2... Boys dnt like good gals.. Dey like bad girls... Its al depends on wah U want.. Buh am sure no one wants to marry anytin bad...
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by SuperSuave(m): 8:58am On Apr 29, 2015
Op, all you said fell on my deaf ears..my attitude is who I am I cannot change it cos of anybody. When the right time comes, the right girl will follow come
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by agarawu23(m): 8:58am On Apr 29, 2015
dechandel:
I thought this "nice guy threads" vanished with 2014huh
Well i am married to a nice guy and he is the best kiss kiss
pictures of wedding or............
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 9:07am On Apr 29, 2015
Booked. Wake me when it's on fp
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by SuperSuave(m): 9:08am On Apr 29, 2015
demmy0325:
Its the other way round 2... Boys dnt like good gals.. Dey like bad girls... Its al depends on wah U want.. Buh am sure no one wants to marry anytin bad...
boys/guys like bad girls because both parties already know the relationship leads nowhere, just to enjoy and explore life at the youthful stage with sex and many other youthful things. No man who is looking for someone to settle down with will say he wants a bad' girl and vice versa. All this bad attitudes will take nobody nowhere.
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 9:08am On Apr 29, 2015
Nnemuka:
Nice guys are good listeners... I love a man who has the time to listen to my nonsense and still shows interest in every thing I say.
Only a maga mugu would do all these
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nnemuka(f): 9:20am On Apr 29, 2015
jacksparrow1207:
Only a maga mugu would do all these
Nope only a nice guy. Women love to talk and nice guys listen.

Girlfriend: how was your day dear
BF: fine! Yours?
GF: pulls a chair, draws closer to BF and begins to narrate what happened throughout the day grin. The next hour she isn't done.

You see women are gifted with words and only a nice guy will pay attention.
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by superneutral(op): 9:33am On Apr 29, 2015
Nnemuka:
Nope only a nice guy. Women love to talk and nice guys listen.

Girlfriend: how was your day dear
BF: fine! Yours?
GF: pulls a chair, draws closer to BF and begins to narrate what happened throughout the day grin. The next hour she isn't done.

You see women are gifted with words and only a nice guy will pay attention.
Kudos to u jharee. I feel u.. Nice guys also av good qualities which are even better than bad guy in real life.
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 10:21am On Apr 29, 2015
Nnemuka:
Nope only a nice guy. Women love to talk and nice guys listen.

Girlfriend: how was your day dear
BF: fine! Yours?
GF: pulls a chair, draws closer to BF and begins to narrate what happened throughout the day grin. The next hour she isn't done.

You see women are gifted with words and only a nice guy will pay attention.
Lol. I'm a good listener. But I hate talking much. Not my fault. I just don't talk a lot. I get exhausted easily
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by faith551(m): 11:24am On Apr 29, 2015
Am a nice guy, but I can do what every bad boy can do. So what's the big deal
Re: 12 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 11:30am On Apr 29, 2015
[size=15pt]Hey guys, no mind anybody that tell you women dont like nice guy ooo...If you change your nice attitude because you have been brainwashed that women dont like nice guys...OYO is ur case[/size]



Talking from experience
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