Adesiji77:
A middle-aged-man identified as Collins Nduka, on Thursday, April 30, 2015 pleaded with an Ojo Customary Court in Lagos State to order his wife, Sefinat Nduka, to refund N1.4 million he spent in marrying her.

Nduka told the court that his wife, whom he married three years ago, was unfaithful and had decided to abandon her matrimonial home for more than a year.

“I would want a refund of the amount that I spent as marriage and dowry expenses because she has become unfaithful.

“My wife is not faithful to the marriage because she has other relationships apart from me and I no more love her. After all, she has not given birth to any child for me.

“The most painful thing is that she has parked all my belongings in my house to an unknown place in addition to her emptying my shop which I stocked with over N750,000,” he said.

The aggrieved man further narrated how their union of three years was threatened as his wife seemed to have obviously lost interest in the marriage.

“I invited my friends from outside the country to make the marriage an expensive one and after it, she wants to leave me for another man, I need my dowry so she can be free,” Nduka said.

He pleaded with the court to dissolve the marriage and order Sefinat to return his belongings which she allegedly parked away and money to him so that he could continue with his life.

Sefinat, who did not show up at the court had earlier indicated her interest in getting a divorce while maintaining that she she did not cart away her husband’s property as he had alleged.

President, Chief Joseph Ogunmola, advised Nduka that divorce might not be the best alternative and urged him to invite his wife in court before a concensus would be reached on the matter.

He said, “The court does not dissolve any marriage except in extreme cases, we need the consent of both parties before judgment so she must be invited.”

Ogunmola, therefore, adjourned the case to Tuesday, May 19, 2015 for further hearing.

http://www.thetrentonline.com/drama-man-orders-wife-refund-n1-4-million-spent-marrying-lagos/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

Ishilove, lalasticlala

foolish man. ur shop worth 750k or less and u married with 1.4m..................1.4m + shop is enough money to change your destiny.

Many Naija women not in a "state" worthy of dowry

palma:
Lol! Tales that touches! He berra wake up! Thats the fee for doing the koko with her na! The woman will also claim damages as he don enjoy something. The truth is the only thing the woman traditionally will be required to return is the dowry not the actual amount spent on the wedding. He was not forced to spend a fortune hence the woman might not even return the dowry as he can not return the woman to the previous state she was in before he married her. He's not getting a dime, a divorce yes but money? Nah!

prettythicksme:
lmao!!who does that??some men are just so funny.mehn that's impossible

yet it is ok for a married woman to abandon her matrimonial home and steal from her husband store carting away his goods?

Na Wetin people like u fit do

That man is a mugu h@so your busimess is worth mere #750,000 and you spend #1_4 million dey marry a probably secobd hand woman abi honey dey inside her workshop or do you expect something specisl therein, now no belle you don fall mugu

Decryptor:


Where are those wide-nosed tribe

You mean, like this man called Chinedu Nebo? I believe we know the ethnic group with a preponderance of wide noses; calls into question the accuracy of your assertions.

prettythicksme:
lmao!!who does that??some men are just so funny.mehn that's impossible

Some women are just irresponsibly stupid. How can a married woman have sexual affairs outside her matrimonial home. These are the same women that will jump from one prayer house to another looking for husbands. I DONT SUPPORT THE IDEAL OF GETTING BACK THE DOWRY,BUT I CANT COMPLETELY FAULT THE MAN. SOME WOMEN ACT AS IF THEY DONT HAVE BRAINS.

Marriage was not meant for everyone,if you cant have self-control then you are not ripe for marriage Because you have womanly features does not mean you are matured for marriage. You cant just create problems for others and feel good about it..

Also to the Men just because she is beauty and educated does not mean she is wife,some women can never make good wives.....

CR77:
The man go also return all the visa way he don sign for the woman body

She has been donating her visa freely to every dude with a dick so...

UnknownT:
Sefinat? I thought it is only Igbo girls that a groom can spend millions to marry?

When marriage is now a source of income to some parents now

A man with 8 daughters is sure of N10m in dowries..

palma:
Lol! Tales that touches! He berra wake up! Thats the fee for doing the koko with her na! The woman will also claim damages as he don enjoy something. The truth is the only thing the woman traditionally will be required to return is the dowry not the actual amount spent on the wedding. He was not forced to spend a fortune hence the woman might not even return the dowry as he can not return the woman to the previous state she was in before he married her. He's not getting a dime, a divorce yes but money? Nah!

I dont think her koko will be that expensive when she has been using her koko as NON PROFITS ORGANIZATION to masses of hungry looking dicks.

where is the dowry receipt issued by the girls family...na dat one we must see first in order to claim refunds... abi no be so dem they do am again??

CR77:
The man go also return all the visa way he don sign for the woman body

See mentality... you think sleeping with men is some sort of favour?

Nigeria needs a long way to go.

Woman na bad investment, imagine 1.4M for dowry, toyota camry money. Na so her toto sweet reach

CR77:
The man go also return all the visa way he don sign for the woman body

I enjoy u U enjoy me', equation balanced so refund my cash. Or is her vulva 4sale

palma:
Lol! Tales that touches! He berra wake up! Thats the fee for doing the koko with her na! The woman will also claim damages as he don enjoy something. The truth is the only thing the woman traditionally will be required to return is the dowry not the actual amount spent on the wedding. He was not forced to spend a fortune hence the woman might not even return the dowry as he can not return the woman to the previous state she was in before he married her. He's not getting a dime, a divorce yes but money? Nah!

You sound as if the wowan was doing the man a favour by having sex with him. You better display promising traits otherwise I'll cancel our wedding.

Fit2Rule:

You sound as if the wowan was doing the man a favour by having sex with him. You better display promising traits otherwise I'll cancel our wedding.

Lol bro am married with two kids.

anigold:


I dont think her koko will be that expensive when she has been using her koko as NON PROFITS ORGANIZATION to masses of hungry looking dicks.

The man said right? If the court believed the story of infidelity, they would have dissolved the marriage, especially as the woman didn't appear.

I don't really know when men will learn... one year... two years... three years.... no preggie and you didn't realise that she's just a package prepared by her parents for extortion! You aren't her first husband bro and you won't be the last. Her parents have sealed her womb so that she can't get stuck in any man's house. Marry her, pay heavily, after fee years she begins to misbehave. You send her packing... she celebrates with her family and gets ready for another business engagement...

palma:

Lol bro am married with two kids.

Oh great! Thank God you won't be refunding your dowry

October1960:
Many Naija women not in a "state" worthy of dowry

Directing that statement to me or the woman? Because if its me i am already in a state worthy of dowry, if its the woman i don't think the court believed his tales yet, the poster should post the updated version since the case was adjourned.

Thats what you get when you marry a yoruba gurl.
They dont keep their asses down and make a marriage work. She till wants to sample all the tunde,salami and lekan in the hood. Sefinat ko,sekinat ni

CR77:
The man go also return all the visa way he don sign for the woman body

Visa what of the sperm she's been collecting since? The shelter....the food...water....omo no just think am....na y some of you women get disfigured be this!

Fit2Rule:

Oh great! Thank God you won't be refunding your dowry

I am a yoruba, the dowry was already refunded on the day of the wedding because according to tradition if they take the dowry then i have been sold. What they accepted was the bridal requirements not the actual money called owo ori iyawo (dowry).

Oyo......

vivalavida:
Thats what you get when you marry a yoruba gurl.
They dont keep their asses down and make a marriage work. She till wants to sample all the tunde,salami and lekan in the hood. Sefinat ko,sekinat ni

Really i dont like quoting people unless statement is directed at me. What has tribe got to do with divorce? Or do you just like creating tribal arguments? So no igbo or hausa divorces? So its only a yoruba woman that cheats? Really? I am quite disappointed with your statement as you were suppose to be matured and learned, this statement does not show that.

Moreover because she bears sefinat does not not necessarily means shes yoruba.

Justfollowit:


You need to change that mentality and start to think like an individual. It takes two willing participants to have sex. Women enjoy sex just like men. They both enjoyed it tjetdore she is not entitled to receive a dime for having sex with him.

What previous state? Was she a virgin? And if she were, how is that a big deal?

So because i decided to air my opinion you said am not thinking like an individual? Lady get off that high horse, did you ever return the money given to you by your ex when you break up? Will you return everything he has given you or spent on you? Lets be realistic for once! The total he actually spent on the wedding as a whole is what is 1.4m not the actual dowry, the actual dowry might be 25k sef. Its nice to blame when you didn't hear the other side, the man is thoroughly lying because how can a man with 750k biz fund a wedding of 1.4m! Thats double his bizness!

Did she ask him to marry him by force? He wanted to legalise sleeping with her and also wanted to receive benefits from it like kids and all so he married her. If its not a big deal for him he wont marry her. Divorce happens most times the woman is the one that demands for funds because of kids, men will rarely unless fraud or property destruction.

And please when next you are quoting someone refrain from insults you can type without letting the fingers run faster than the brain, because this is the internet does not mean you should be uncouth, i didnt insult anyone except for the person that wants to start e-tribal war.

Oga as she dey return the money..you go Refuck the Bleep wey u dn Bleep.

prettythicksme:
lmao!!who does that??some men are just so funny.mehn that's impossible

Women don't find it funny when they are collecting dowry? Thatz a shameful act from her nd u should condemn it no post this... Infact I fear u'l hav ds attitude too... my eye r on u..

The woman must have really hurt him, i really despise divorce but in cases like this its inevitable.

palma:


So because i decided to air my opinion you said am not thinking like an individual? Lady get off that high horse, did you ever return the money given to you by your ex when you break up? Will you return everything he has given you or spent on you? Lets be realistic for once! The total he actually spent on the wedding as a whole is what is 1.4m not the actual dowry, the actual dowry might be 25k sef. Its nice to blame when you didn't hear the other side, the man is thoroughly lying because how can a man with 750k biz fund a wedding of 1.4m! Thats double his bizness!

Did she ask him to marry him by force? He wanted to legalise sleeping with her and also wanted to receive benefits from it like kids and all so he married her. If its not a big deal for him he wont marry her. Divorce happens most times the woman is the one that demands for funds because of kids, men will rarely unless fraud or property destruction.

And please when next you are quoting someone refrain from insults you can type without letting the fingers run faster than the brain, because this is the internet does not mean you should be uncouth, i didnt insult anyone except for the person that wants to start e-tribal war.

SMH

Your thought process is fuc.ked up and too bad you can never more than this, you are a loss to womanhood.

FYI, when I go out with a guy. I foot my own bills while he foot his and the times he pays, I make Goddamn sure I return the favor.

We know tribes that collect such amount... bro the lord is ur muscle... collect all ur money from her... nd if she wants money for u bleeping her, calculate all d tym u don Bleep her (both TDB and ST) and pay. her 5k each... Thatz your bill for fucking oloso in disguise....
BUT I PRAY BY THE POWER OF GOD IN ME, ANY OLOSO DISGUISING AS A WIFE, LORD KILL THEM BEFORE I MEET EM...AMEN!!!

Justfollowit:


SMH

Your thought process is fuc.ked up and too bad you can never more than this, you are a loss to womanhood.

FYI, when I go out with a guy. I foot my own bills while he foot his and the times he pays, I make Goddamn sure I return the favor.

Babe i don't care what your thoughts are, i am already more than this. Do you know why? I don't sit behind a computer or phone to insult people i don't know, life is too short to dwell on negativity. I am well brought up and trained, i don't bandy words with people who see ill in people just because their opinions clash. The way you type and the words you wrote depict the type of person you are. Like i said earlier don't because this is internet and be a cyber bully, it doesn't show you are disciplined.

palma:


Babe i don't care what your thoughts are, i am already more than this. Do you know why? I don't sit behind a computer or phone to insult people i don't know, life is too short to dwell on negativity. I am well brought up and trained, i don't bandy words with people who see ill in people just because their opinions clash. The way you type and the words you wrote depict the type of person you are. Like i said earlier don't because this is internet and be a cyber bully, it doesn't show you are disciplined.

Thanks darling