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Orijin101:
[size=15pt]even for the unmarried couples? [/size]

missclasssy:
Yes it is.

But everyone has principles, whether religious or moral. Hence the decision to restrain from it.
But the fact still remains that it sustains relationship, whether married couples or single couples.
Especially when it's good sex

Orijin101:
[size=15pt] bro, but we youths of nowadays no longer have "sex" for love sake or to show feelings, we only have sex for pleasure.
what can be done or what should be the best possible alternative to abstain from it while in relationship? [/size]

Vikky014:
it all depends on both parties to agree mutually and set boundaries for each other. another criteria is not demanding from a man you are nt going to hv sex with outside marriage. my dad told me dt any time a guy spends on you wtout any marriage proposal or engagement he will always want d lady to pay in kind(bed d girl)so dat if eventually he leaves d gurl or d gurl leaves him, he wunt have any regret.

so ladies stop the begging if your parents can take care of you i dnt think you need dt guys money. but if a man gives u something freely rject it at first. if he insists you take it accept it with good hrt knowing fully well that you didnt ask him to give you

nice contribution dear

Orijin101:
[size=15pt] nice contribution dear [/size]

Orijin101:
Nowadays, to find a "No Sex" relationship is even scarcer than the blue moon, and from my own experience, i have come to realize that a no sex relationship never last long.
This now keep pondering if sex is the main importance in relationships or relationship is just a prerequisite for sexual act to take place, i just don't get it.

Now, my question is, Does romance in relationship need to be sexual so as to make the relationship effective and what are the alternative things that can be done in a relationship to make it effective?

your opinions are highly welcomed

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ishilove
farano
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Orijin101:
[size=15pt] ok missclasssy. . .
So, which of the principles do you follow?
can you open your legs for your bf eventhough you know that the love we guys have for ladies nowadays is equivalent to lust? [/size]

ronald4lif:
People have sex for different reasons. Some for love, some for pleasure and others to relieve stress and for some it's the combination of all. In a relationship one should be able to know why the other person is interested in sex and if that's the only aim they're in the relationship for. Anyone who can't decipher this should have themselves to blame should anything happens.

Sex is meant to be pleasurable and if both party agree to stay in a sex and no-love relationship then so be it. It is my believe that whenever a girl decide to be in a sex and no-love relationship then she probably is in for the benefits.

Therefore, there's a contract agreement which involves two people who fxcks each other and for one his primary aim is the sex while the other is the benefits, which most time is in monetary value.

tankz for the contribution bro

Omotayor123:
Shame Datz d trend nowadays BUT it doesn't sustain anything. Sex before marriage is very wrong And it doesn't lead a relationship to marriage.

missclasssy:
I don't just sleep with just anybody, but if I am in a relationship with someone and we both love each other, definitely we can have sex together.

hmm. . . missclasssy have spoken
tankz so much for the contribution

Orijin101:
[size=15pt] hmm. . . missclasssy have spoken
tankz so much for the contribution [/size]

Orijin101:
[size=15pt]I totally disagree with that dear, coz I've seen many cases whereby couples that have been lashing before marriage later became husbands and wives. [/size]

Godvilla:
[color=olive]SEX WILL NEVER SUSTAIN ANY PRE-MARITAL RELATIONSHIP

YOU DON'T KNOW BETTER THAN YOUR CREATOR[/color]

Omotayor123:
Yeah u right. BUT what I mean is it can't be used as a basis for Everlasting relationship. It doesn't Guarantee marriage.

So, if both of us should enter relationship now, you won't allow me to hmm hmmm hmmmm ?

Orijin101:
[size=15pt]even for the unmarried couples? [/size]

Orijin101:
[size=15pt]So, if both of us should enter relationship now, you won't allow me to hmm hmmm hmmmm ? [/size]

xynerise:
YES!!......I mean yes. You define your relationship and choose the content of it. If sex is one of what you think will spice it up, then hold it firm. Sex is deceptive but motivating..... kind of

Omotayor123:
For Where








#IrepteamV.

no be for my side sha

Godvilla:
[color=olive]NO TO PREMARITAL SEX[/color]

missclasssy:
That's not a good basis to judge wrong or right.
The fact that a religious book says something, that doesn't mean that it's the "right thing"

Orijin101:
[size=15pt] no be for my side sha [/size]

Orijin101:
[size=15pt] hmmmm. . . bros, if all ladies believe in that bolded phrase up there, then i think the future of our ladies is in danger coz some guys out there will only use it as a privilege to turn our ladies into sex machines. . . [/size]

missclasssy:
That's not a good basis to judge wrong or right.
The fact that a religious book says something, that doesn't mean that it's the "right thing"

Chiam55:
I would have to say there are far more important things in sustaining a relationship than sex. Intimacy is what sustains a relationship. To be able to support each other emotionally and be there for each other through everything is what's important to me.

Sex is just another way to connect with your lover but there are far more important things than sex in a relationship e.g. quality time together, encouragement, understanding, communication, support, protection etc.