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I believe the most important thing in a relationship should be happiness.Getting married doesn't guarantee happiness. Engaging in boyfriend & girlfriend relationship and having kids may be the genuine source of happiness.
what do you think about this?

Aru!!!

Feranchek:
Aru!!!

OK..I will be back

What's relationship? What's marriage?

Every true relationship should lead to marriage. Relationships are not cars that u testdrive to find a perfect one, no. Neither is it like food, you don't compare them to get the best and most favourite.

The perverted view of love today has turned relationships into a caricature where anyone (even a child of 10years) go into and most do just for fun.

IMO don't go into a relationship with someone you don't love nor see u two staying together as man and wife.

Not all

Twaci:
Every true relationship should lead to marriage. Relationships are not cars that u testdrive to find a perfect one, no. Neither is it like food, you don't compare them to get the best and most favourite.

The perverted view of love today has turn relationships into a caricature where anyone (even a child of 10years) go into and most do just for fun.

IMO don't go into a relationship with someone you don't love nor see u two staying together as man and wife.

I love dis answer

doris4u:
I love dis answer

Thanks

Twaci:
IMO don't go into a relationship with someone you don't love nor see u two staying together as man and wife.

Nice point!

I agree on the love him/her first before going into a relationship.

However, I think not every true relationship would lead to marriage in the end. A relationship is a compatibility test not every romance survives. Sometimes good relationships fail for every right reason, and irrespective of the love/sacrifice/loyalty both parties share, they still might be very much incompatible, hence a breakup for good.

That's the idea of relationships, no one knows the end from the beginning. Allow the relationship progress naturally, and if doesn't, that does not mean it was a false relationship.

Hila12:
Nice point!

I agree on the love him/her first before going into a relationship.

However, I think not every true relationship would lead to marriage in the end. A relationship is a compatibility test not every romance survives. Sometimes good relationships fail for every right reason, and irrespective of the love/sacrifice/loyalty both parties share, they still might be very much incompatible. Hence a breakup for good.

That's the idea of relationships, no one knows the end from the beginning. Allow the relationship progress naturally, and if doesn't, that does not mean it was a false relationship.

chop knuckle, you said it all

what's the essence of going into a marriage that will end up in a divorce?

Hila12:
Nice point!

I agree on the love him/her first before going into a relationship.

However, I think not every true relationship would lead to marriage in the end. A relationship is a compatibility test not every romance survives. Sometimes good relationships fail for every right reason, and irrespective of the love/sacrifice/loyalty both parties share, they still might be very much incompatible, hence a breakup for good.

That's the idea of relationships, no one knows the end from the beginning. Allow the relationship progress naturally, and if doesn't, that does not mean it was a false relationship.

All true!

Is marriage necessary?

marriage is not necessary.........

Its Hard for people to tolerate each other

if u know u cnt handle it, don't do it

Some people are bad husbands but great boy friend.

So, I don't think the primary aim of any relationship is marriage.
I think it is happiness.

And since marriage is not necessary, enjoy ur relationship until u are really sure u can take another step

no, sometimes u just need the experience
for me relationship is just a gateway for u to kn if that person is compatible or not
its like the Demo of marriage

T mustnt bt is beta u get marid nd produce d kids happily..