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What will you do if your wife tells you after marriage that a long time ago, her sister's husband slept with her and then she got pregnant and she aborted it because of shame and that she is not ready to have a baby?
I think it is very necessary to ask your spouse personal questions about her life before going into marriage. Every marriage must be built on truth and honesty.

well try to do that

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issues of having babies etc would/should have been discussed before marriage....if she said yes before and now come up with this cokc and bull story then i would have to reconsider the union (especially if children was important to me).

as for the story, oh well, marrying a 9ja gal, you would have a big chance that she was either almost ra.ped OR ra.ped sometime in her life.

That's something you can't change. It happen even before you knew her. Give her sometimes and most importantly pray with her.

Mekybliss:
That's something you can't change. It happen even before you knew her. Give her sometimes and most importantly pray with her.

No. I disagree with you.

I think most Nigerian girls are full of drama.

Mekybliss:
That's something you can't change. It happen even before you knew her. Give her sometimes and most importantly pray with her.

Hmmnn

DeeTus:
No. I disagree with you.

I think most Nigerian girls are full of drama.

if she is full of drama she wouldn't marry you in the first place. She is still trying to forgive herself. Just give her time

oghale23:
What will you do if your wife tells you after marriage that a long time ago, her sister's husband slept with her and then she got pregnant and she aborted it because of shame and that she is not ready to have a baby?
I think it is very necessary to ask your spouse personal questions about her life before going into marriage. Every marriage must be built on truth and honesty.

Stvpid thread.

why she no talk am since

publicenemy:
Stvpid thread.

Thank you, God Bless you!

That's her past and not who she is anymore. I will forgive and forget.

imoleay0:
That's her past and not who she is anymore.
I will forgive and forget.

Yes I concur, because if God have forgiven her, then her husband must do the same and move on and love her the more

oghale23:
Yes I concur, because if God have forgiven her, then her husband must do the same and move on and love her the more

Exactly!

Dis 1 na madness o, hw she no go born? Ah send am go Bleep her sister husband? Ts either u born or I make it known to ur sister n ur family..

oghale23:
Thank you, God Bless you!

Amen...God bless you too.

publicenemy:
Amen...God bless you too.

Amen.