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We Are All Selfish by nnaemy2013(op): 1:46pm On May 13, 2015
You are very hungry and you are given a very hot cup of tea, boiling point hot. While you are fanning the tea someoneoffers you ice. What would you do? Of course you will accept the ice, cool down the tea and drink. If this is what you will do, why do you blame girls who abandon broke guys for rich ones?

If you own a 1998 Toyota Camry which you drive for 2 days and your mechanic drives it for 3 days and someone offers you a 2010 model of Toyota Camry, what would you do? Of course you will accept the car. If that's what you will do why do you blame guys who abandon their ladies for more beautiful ones?

Life is what u make of it. Our moral codes are what we set it to be. When you are in a relationship with anyone please work hard to develop yourself. Stop hoping on your partner instead think of what you will contribute to the relationship. Companies don't fight over liabilities but assets.

For a lady to appreciate you it means you offer her something she can't do without. It mustn't be money. Money doesn't make tea go cold but ice can do that. Money can make tea go cold but the tea would have gone cold by the time you go to market to buy a fridge and return. Do not believe that because you give your woman money she can't do without you. A man should offer more than financial security. How about emotional, spiritual security? These things matter too. No matter how much money you give a lady it will never satisfy her

For a man to appreciate you you must offer him something he can't do without. It mustn't be sex. If you believe sex is the ultimate please ask yourself why separations and heartbreak are more rampant now that sex sells more. There are many things a woman can offer a man other than sex. How about tender loving care? These things matter. No matter how much sex you give a man it will never satisfy him

Embark on a quest for personal development and you will see men and women gravittae towards you. Stop selling what doesn't last. Money and sex are wonderful things but their usefulness is according to ones perception. Be wise.

Everyone wants what is good. Nobody wants to suffer o. It takes you having value for someone to displease him/herself to please you or stick with you. If you have been jobless for 5 years do not expect your woman to hang around you. If she does she is an angel. If all you offer your man is good sex dont expect him to hang around when he meets a woman that offers tender loving care. We all have eyes for what is best for us. Make yourself an asset in your relationship please.
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 1:49pm On May 13, 2015
okay
Re: We Are All Selfish by NoMoreTrolling: 1:54pm On May 13, 2015
OP, so you mean I can get a loyal girl with my 1987 Volkswagen beatle huh

Victoriabee, are you seeing this? We don't need money or sex to be happy cheesy
Re: We Are All Selfish by Princecalm(m): 1:59pm On May 13, 2015
If the ice you collected contained poison, my brother you are gone. So you should be mindful of the guy you are going to meet, you might be jumping from fry pan to fire.
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Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 2:04pm On May 13, 2015
We are selfish to an extent, but you'd be surprised the extent to which some people are willing to go for a loved one.
Re: We Are All Selfish by nnaemy2013(op): 2:09pm On May 13, 2015
NoMoreTrolling:
OP, so you mean I can get a loyal girl with my 1987 Volkswagen beatle huh

Victoriabee, are you seeing this? We don't need money or sex to be happy cheesy
1987 beetle doesn't make you who or what you are. Does it? A flashy car will get you babes but its your personality that will keep them
Re: We Are All Selfish by nnaemy2013(op): 2:10pm On May 13, 2015
MzNelly:
We are selfish to an extent, but you'd be surprised the extent to which some people are willing to go for a loved one.
Hello there, how have you been? U left me on my own here. Hehehe
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 2:11pm On May 13, 2015
nnaemy2013:
Hello there, how have you been? U left me on my own here. Hehehe
I left you kwa? undecided

I dey grin grin

You? tongue
Re: We Are All Selfish by nnaemy2013(op): 2:14pm On May 13, 2015
MzNelly:
I left you kwa? undecided

I dey grin grin

You? tongue
grin
I have been good. Trying my hand here
Re: We Are All Selfish by richidinho(m): 2:23pm On May 13, 2015
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Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 2:24pm On May 13, 2015
No, we are all not selfish.


Though NEW IS ALWAYS BETTER but It's not every one that will drop something old for new thing.

Remember, there are better ladies compared to your wife, and there are better men compared to your husband.

Everyone is not greedy as you have painted it.
Re: We Are All Selfish by NoMoreTrolling: 2:35pm On May 13, 2015
nnaemy2013:
1987 beetle doesn't make you who or what you are. Does it? A flashy car will get you babes but its your personality that will keep them
hmmm... well I guess so, but it's hard to be perceived the way you want when you're broke
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 2:45pm On May 13, 2015
NoMoreTrolling:
OP, so you mean I can get a loyal girl with my 1987 Volkswagen beatle huh

Victoriabee, are you seeing this? We don't need money or sex to be happy cheesy
I'm not a gold-digger to start with...

angry
Re: We Are All Selfish by NoMoreTrolling: 2:55pm On May 13, 2015
VictoriaBee:
I'm not a gold-digger to start with...

angry
That's awesome, that means we can build a fortune together slowly.
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 2:59pm On May 13, 2015
VictoriaBee:
I'm not a gold-digger to start with...
angry
ysssalcssim
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:02pm On May 13, 2015
NoMoreTrolling:
That's awesome, that means we can build a fortune together slowly.
tongue
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:03pm On May 13, 2015
Borrussia:
ysssalcssim
Missclasssy?
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:04pm On May 13, 2015
VictoriaBee:
Missclasssy?
You seem so much like her.
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:05pm On May 13, 2015
Borrussia:
You seem so much like her.
Lol, in what ways?
Re: We Are All Selfish by jumper524(m): 3:06pm On May 13, 2015
O.p u dey yarn bars angry
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:07pm On May 13, 2015
VictoriaBee:
Lol, in what ways?
undecided Is that who you are?
Re: We Are All Selfish by funlord(m): 3:10pm On May 13, 2015
VictoriaBee:
Lol, in what ways?
feminist mgbeke! U don dey run? Ha ha ha ha!!!!!
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:15pm On May 13, 2015
Borrussia:
undecided Is that who you are?
See question. undecided
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:18pm On May 13, 2015
VictoriaBee:
See question. undecided
You know that males have the right to slap their female counterpart. Answer me sharply our you wanna receive an E-slap.
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:51pm On May 13, 2015
Borrussia:
You know that males have the right to slap their female counterpart. Answer me sharply our you wanna receive an E-slap.
Lol, no dude can dare to slap me.

I'm not missclasssy.
Re: We Are All Selfish by NoMoreTrolling: 3:57pm On May 13, 2015
Borrussia:
You seem so much like her.
Hmmm undecided

What if the new Vicky is just another one of Missclasssy's clones huh Scary!

All crush emotions toward the new Vicky or Victoriabee are hereby CRUSHED until further notice angry
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 3:57pm On May 13, 2015
VictoriaBee:
Lol, no dude can dare to slap me.

I'm not missclasssy.
grin grin grin
Re: We Are All Selfish by Nobody: 4:06pm On May 13, 2015
VictoriaBee:
Lol, no dude can dare to slap me.
I'm not missclasssy.
Sorry for the assumptions.
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