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Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Medley(m): 11:24pm On May 14, 2015 |
because they married to give birth,be life partners, stay together and die at each others lap, and not to experience an adventure of marvellous sex hours. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Dronedude(m): 11:24pm On May 14, 2015 |
It's true. NEXT 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by SirLewis(m): 11:24pm On May 14, 2015 |
Movies and fairytale stories have blinded people to the reality of marriage. People expect it to be a bed of roses when it's not. It's as hard as a floor and our grandparents had to sleep on it, literally speaking. Nothing like "this isn't working out" or "you're not here for me", once they were in it, it was for life. Our generation is just too lazy, technological advancement has made everything easy to the extent that people expect their marriage to be same. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by showafrica(m): 11:25pm On May 14, 2015 |
UnknownT: This is the answer but unfurtunately, you have no likes. Almost every woman lost confidence on her self and depends on other peoples opinion but the devil is always their to offer his opinion and thats is social network.. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 11:25pm On May 14, 2015 |
phenom666, what's the meaning of your name? Can I help you? |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by bankai2015(f): 11:29pm On May 14, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: Na telemundo cos am ohh Lalasticlala, seun. Pls ban telemundo. Na telemundo dey make our marriage fall 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by pansophist(m): 11:30pm On May 14, 2015 |
sukkot: You don craze finish. Men nko? no be una wey de fear commitment? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Osama10(m): 11:30pm On May 14, 2015 |
Women of Olden days had deep respect & were submissive to their husbands. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Magician1503(m): 11:30pm On May 14, 2015 |
The modern man has chosen to deviate from the laws of nature... Marriage is now viewed as an activity not a lifestyle... Self satisfaction at the detriment of the other party... Sexual 'overzealousness'... Materialism and so on... Welcome to the modern world... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by ronald4lif(m): 11:30pm On May 14, 2015 |
Misplaced values, education and over sabi attitude, women empowerment, and greed. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by tucky200(m): 11:31pm On May 14, 2015 |
Bitches aint loyal no more Women empowerment don destroy everytin jare B4 u knw woman go dey pay groomprice 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by tpiadotcom: 11:32pm On May 14, 2015 |
Osama10: what attitudes did the husbands of those days have that are also different from nowadays? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 11:32pm On May 14, 2015 |
it because of materialism... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by tucky200(m): 11:34pm On May 14, 2015 |
bankai2015:Duyu watch naruto sweetie ?? |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by bankai2015(f): 11:39pm On May 14, 2015 |
tucky200:My dear, Both ohh. Bleach and naruto plus any fine Anime 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by noskeybaba: 11:41pm On May 14, 2015 |
In the olden days, when something is broken, we fix it. Nowadays, when something is broken, we throw it away, and buy a new one. That's your answer. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by gbongbo6070(m): 11:41pm On May 14, 2015 |
This days babe done tear eye well well dey lack & after d folowings
1. scheme
2. money
3. displain |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by chi4ik4(m): 11:43pm On May 14, 2015 |
because many girls goes for money not love. they will tell u will they eat love? but our parents married for love not money simple. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by rudebouy: 11:44pm On May 14, 2015 |
For me, the question is not abt why they lasted longer. My question is were both parties happier than today's couples? How long a marriage lasted is no proof of a successful marriage, when you cannot ascertain dat both parties were truly happy with the union. How many under-aged/teenage girls married in d north file for divorce afta 5 or 10 yrs? Will u say day are happy becos dia marriages last long? Its like staying in a job u hate while searching for a beta job becos u cant risk staying idle if u quit and u dont know how long it will take u to get anoda job. So if ur still in dat job, does dat mean ur enjoying it? 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Dranatomy: 11:45pm On May 14, 2015 |
Gender equality is the problem my brother.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Bifwoli: 11:45pm On May 14, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: Because biatches of today have become more materialistic,money hungry,dehumanised and less affectionate than ladies of old who held traditional values dearly.Back then it was faith,family and fairplay but now its all about fortune and fame. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by zadok60: 11:46pm On May 14, 2015 |
old clocks lasts longer than the modern ones..
old phones lasts longer than your galaxy s4..
old sandals,bags,lasts longer than modern ones..
old cars are stronger than the modern ones..
so,never complain when you see any modern marriage crumbling.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by xp17(m): 11:46pm On May 14, 2015 |
tobtap:no sir, it's was basically a one sided stuff. The man always gets his way out even when he's a shitt-bag 10 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by bamidele029: 11:48pm On May 14, 2015 |
rudebouy: Thank you there were a lot if unhappy marriages then however most couldn't leave. No 1. Women were not financially empowered so even if the man was beating her everyday she had no choice but to stay. 2 any one who divorced was turned into an outcast so if the man was unhappy he would simply marry more wives and the woman would bear her own unhappiness by turning her attention to her kids. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 11:48pm On May 14, 2015 |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by ITbomb(m): 11:48pm On May 14, 2015 |
Because those days the woman knew her place in the family, now they want equality 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by bogolobango(m): 11:51pm On May 14, 2015 |
Everybody eyes don open now with all these social networks FB whats app bbm tango badoo marriage can never last 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Lexusgs430: 11:54pm On May 14, 2015 |
The wives suffered in silence. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 14, 2015 |
Doesn't necessarily mean older marriages were better, just that divorce was more frowned upon then so people had no choice but to stay in bad marriages. Now, the option of divorce/separation is readily available so people can leave any time. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 14, 2015 |
RickRichards:lol..you are right in a funny way though.. 1 Like |
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