Our ladies end up single or chased out by their husband due to too much media exposure -
It is disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on her mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up and focus on television to watch fake celebrity entertainment. Tell me, what else will dominate the mindset of such ladies aside how to live the fake lifestyles the see on social media and TV?

Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores -
Because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to American media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way, our ladies are loosing their place in their husband's heart. African family setting is unique and that is why previous African marriages last longer and envious to the whites.

With this attitude, how do you expect an African man to desire to marry you who claim to be a modern lady when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

You Don’t Bring Value Into The Life Of The Man You Marry or Are Dating -
Your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to.

Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope... be a good wife, respectful, stay away from your mother or friends evil counsels, and above all be his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support.

Your Mother and Friends Run Your Life -
How do you expect your husband or the man you are dating to trust you when you still allow your mum and clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy your love and which is not?

When will you wake up and face the fact that some of your so called best friends may not want you to marry the best man and that your own mother may just be destroying your life for her selfish reason?

Lack of Manners, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing -
Your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’ looks will win you men; both the good and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether a man would marry you and, most importantly, keep you in his house as a cherished wife.

Ladies, to achieve this, do away with being possessive, challenging your man, manipulating him for selfish purpose. A decent man will love you, once you prove yourself worthy as a responsible lady.

Do not allow yourself to become a victim while trying to be too smart. Be humble, reap a good reward!

but some ladies are married nw

Just teach the ladies and love them till they be like "that's enough"

this are the type of threads ladies should read not those 'dont marry a guy that dont have a billion naira

You made sense but generalizing isn't good.

Research has shown that more men file for divorce that women.

firstEVA:
Research has shown that more men file for divorce that women.

reason: during dating , the man does major of the chasing...keepin up..taking in a lot, baring, hoping to build understanding........to ensure the marriage, the lady often times pretend or at least gets in tune with the man's preferences or lifestyle...post marriage: she returns to her original self and the man goes: ''blood of jesus ....so that was really her then| , she didn't change| ....damn i cant take this....need to run for my life''.....

in conclusion; as a man, don't waste your time trying to change a lady. never overlook major shortcomings or balance them out with mere looks...its gonna boomerang...lol.

finditng:


reason: during dating , the man does major of the chasing...keepin up..taking in a lot, baring, hoping to build understanding........to ensure the marriage, the lady often times pretend or at least gets in tune with the man's preferences or lifestyle...post marriage: she returns to her original self and the man goes: ''blood of jesus ....so that was really her then| , she didn't change| ....damn i cant take this....need to run for my life''.....

in conclusion; as a man, don't waste your time trying to change a lady. never overlook major shortcomings or balance them out with mere looks...its gonna boomerang...lol.

lol Hahahahahaha nigga you got me laughing my azz off but what you typed is true. #Preach

firstEVA:
Research has shown that more men file for divorce that women.

how did you come up with the research? who did it? though I believe it's the situation in Nigeria because most of these young ladies of nowadays just ain't shii as far as marriage is concerned.

finditng:


reason: during dating , the man does major of the chasing...keepin up..taking in a lot, baring, hoping to build understanding........to ensure the marriage, the lady often times pretend or at least gets in tune with the man's preferences or lifestyle...post marriage: she returns to her original self and the man goes: ''blood of jesus ....so that was really her then| , she didn't change| ....damn i cant take this....need to run for my life''.....

in conclusion; as a man, don't waste your time trying to change a lady. never overlook major shortcomings or balance them out with mere looks...its gonna boomerang...lol.

sometimes, but more like after some years of eating ogbono soup, he gets fed up completely and desires something very different. I happen to be in the field where I meet a lot of these people, you need to hear the very flimsy reason some give for wanting to end a marriage, it's crazy.

firstEVA:
sometimes, but more like after some years of eating ogbono soup, he gets fed up completely and desires something very different. I happen to be in the field where I meet a lot of these people, you need to hear the very flimsy reason some give for wanting to end a marriage, it's crazy.

Then it was never love....you never tire out on someone you really love....they somehow grow to be your ideal in most ways....particularly #s*x......you just wouldn't want someone else... Truth is most marriages aren't built on truth and love these days..

I knw a girl getting set to wed a guy now....and she doesn't love him...he's also not super rich and has flaws she knows will be hard for her to cope with....guess wht she said ..."hmmmm.....I'll focus on the love and let it grow"...like its some maths....mehn women are just shockers....the things they dare,.....I hail....

I am certain divorce ratios are gonna sky-rocket within the next decade or single parenting/baby mama trend takes the high...in fact I can logical state that:

Divorce will be inversely proportional to single parenting within the next decade... and true marriages will be an infinitesimal proportion with negligible positive increase....in fact it will just all tend to zero

finditng:


Then it was never love....you never tire out on someone you really love....the somehow grow to be your ideal in most ways....particularly #s*x......you just wouldn't want someone else... Truth is most marriages aren't built on truth and love this days..

I knw a girl getting set to wed a guy now....and she doesn't love him...he's also not super rich and has flaws she knows will be hard for her......guess wht she said ..."hmmmm.....I'll focus on the love and let it grow"...like its some maths....mehn women are just shockers....the things the dare,.....I hail....

I am certain divorce ratios are gonna sky-rocketwithin the next decade or single parenting/baby mama trend takes the high...in fact I can logical state that:

Divorce will be inversely proportional to single parenting within the next decade...

I concur