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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Regenerated: 5:16am On May 22, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:Smiles, yes 6 years, the relationship started when they were in 100L. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by MymothersKeeper(f): 2:37pm On May 22, 2015 |
I will like to thank everyone that tended to my question. It was bothering me and I had no one to talk to. I did as you said, still heartbroken but glad I got my money back. He tried to chase those items up but he doesnt know where I am, he even got his parents to blow up my phone, although I was afraid but I stood my ground and dint even answer them. Then they backed off. I was able to take an apartment in another city and paid the required deposit which had been why I even managed such an abusive person in the first place. Looking forward to working and adding to my portfolio in my self employed business :-] The worst part of that relationship was that I always felt he's going to kill me one day due to his temper ..I've been looking for a way out! Thank God for me life now :d 7 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 2:38pm On May 22, 2015 |
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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by MymothersKeeper(f): 2:48pm On May 22, 2015 |
iwatch: Hmm.. you are surprised ? one time my ex and I quarrelled . He said get out of my house!!, he dint let me pick up a pant or shoes . I was dyeing my hair wearing a spag top and small short & no phone when he pushed me vigorously to get out. I twisted my neck in the process and I walked cold and bare footed for a mile! I will go into a new relationship with my eyes opened. 6 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 2:48pm On May 22, 2015 |
GoldenDr:That's why I can't marry a liability QED! 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by thorpido(m): 2:49pm On May 22, 2015 |
MymothersKeeper:Good for you.How did you get him to pay up? Don't rush into the next relationship,it's okay to be without a man for a while.Try and get to know the man first before diving deep. You'll overcome the heartbreak.All the best. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by fxbot: 3:00pm On May 22, 2015 |
digitsolution:Never be carried away by physical attributes of a woman because you don't see what the mind says. What if I tell you that someone on this thread is getting married soon to another guy to which I was never aware of until my friend called me to see. We had been dating for some months now but I never knew she had another guy elsewhere. In fact, based on my calculation, she has been with the guy long before she met me. I have been reading with silence and smiling. We still met a few weeks ago, yet she didn't mention it to me and I also feigned ignorance. That's life brother, that's fvcking life. Do I feel hurt? NAH! Boys have learned to be smart long ago. I only feel sorry for the dude she will end up with who thinks she is "innocent" and if he can't give her like I did or do, she will definitely cheat on him. It's very obvious in her person. Nuff said 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 3:04pm On May 22, 2015 |
gleatz:Oh well, will you consider marrying him if he can give you that companionship but broker than broken bottle? 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by feedthenation(m): 3:08pm On May 22, 2015 |
fxbot: Really, this is serious... |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 3:08pm On May 22, 2015 |
fxbot: Omo, girls r nt smiling o 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 3:15pm On May 22, 2015 |
Regenerated:SEE eh... he should let the girl go... In my book, I can't bring a child into this world to suffer. My late mother gave me the best and I can't give lesser to my child. What is 28k? Money wey I go blow in less than 7days, if I am being frugal ooo. On normal day, it can get burnt in one day! Omo 28k no reach to buy anything ooo. House rent, feeding, transport, then come think of Baby food. Tufiakwa! I will never try it! And I am very sure the same girl pushing him now does not have anything doing... meaning all burden will rest on him so tey him go old pass him grand papa. I am just being realistic o. 100K and above should be where u can start thinking of settling down. Imagine if you earn 100k and the girl u wanna marry earn 100k...the burden becomes lesser. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:23pm On May 22, 2015 |
iwatch:omo you dey provoke o! I would have love the ladies to answer him. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:26pm On May 22, 2015 |
Chinum:At all. My ex was dating myself and the guy she got married to at the same time and on many occasion I asked her who he was, she said, he is just a friend. 74.5% of Nigeian girls are quadriple dating, same for the men- infact the men are more and the desperate ones are say 23%- they do nt want to know if you have HiV , aid, epelptic, even if you are medically compatible, all they want is to get married irrespective of your religion, creed and beliefs. They are not even ready to plan with you, the number of kids, projects and investments to make... THEY JUST WANT TO GET MARRIED. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 3:33pm On May 22, 2015 |
GoldenDr: Epele o I guess it has to do with nt putting all ur eggs in one basket. Some guys r guilty of this as well. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by MymothersKeeper(f): 3:36pm On May 22, 2015 |
thorpido:Omo it's not easy oo, I will reqoute you later when I open a laptop & add a link to the page, you can read. Thanks! |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:36pm On May 22, 2015 |
iwatch:They can get married and delay child bearing 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:38pm On May 22, 2015 |
fxbot:o ga o. How is this done? |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 3:39pm On May 22, 2015 |
Yadoctora:hmmmm Okay oooo. Does that mean they wont be having sex? PLease enlighten me. How can they delay child bearing without/with sex? 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:45pm On May 22, 2015 |
Yadoctora:don't you think the family of the boy would start thinking otherwise and a little pressure from the mother-inlaw would make her want to succumb to pressure. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:49pm On May 22, 2015 |
GoldenDr:Is she not an adult? Once she and her husband are a team on this, she has nothing to fear. This is a decision they have to take before marriage. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 3:49pm On May 22, 2015 |
iwatch: Same way many teenagers in high school have been doing it without getting pregnant. Many couples have been doing it n actually have succeeded. As long as both couples know what they r doing tho. Cos it takes some guts not to listen to the "whr r my grandchildren" kind of talks. 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 3:51pm On May 22, 2015 |
iwatch:Contraception. The knowledge of contraception is limited among Nigerians. Let them speak with their doctor on the preferred choice of contraception. From natural, to Oral contraceptives, IUCD, implants. There's a variety to choose from. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 3:56pm On May 22, 2015 |
Chinum:lol |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 3:59pm On May 22, 2015 |
Yadoctora:I did biology in school and I haven't forgotten the top "RE-PRO-DUC-TION" That topic that makes boys and girls in class to start unclothing each other imaginary as they look at themselves I am aware of the contraception sha... just fooling around. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 4:00pm On May 22, 2015 |
GoldenDr:It is well |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 4:04pm On May 22, 2015 |
iwatch: Yeye |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by coogaluta(f): 4:09pm On May 22, 2015 |
@28K salary, where in Nigeria are they/intend to settle? Believe it or not, there are people in Naija that survive on that kinda money. If the wife also makes about 20K, they can start something, but they must be ready to eat rice without chicken sometimes 2 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 4:30pm On May 22, 2015 |
Chinum:na u I use am resemble na... |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 4:31pm On May 22, 2015 |
Chinum:come, na by force, I NO wan kiss ur lips |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by iwatch: 4:32pm On May 22, 2015 |
Evina, my precious iyawo, the best of the lot, I hail ooo. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Chinum: 4:36pm On May 22, 2015 |
iwatch: Singing, "I am a blessed child, I am a blessed child, Jesus made me a blessed child, I am a blessed child" |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by gleatz: 4:38pm On May 22, 2015 |
@motherskeeper Am proud of you gal. That's a laudable move you made there. Believe me other things woud fall in place, just keep being focus. Don't even bother venturing into any rship now, until you ve cleared ur head of the mess @ hand. I see you being a better, stronger & wiser babe! Kudos dearie. Remember that there are a thousand and one nice and great guys out there. Set ur priorities right NOW! More grace! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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