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favoured234:
I am a lady..... But again I am indifferent about it

presh247:
gbam!

NinoBrown888:
someone who can give you a full dose of it tha you wouldn't think of screwing someone else.

presh247:
hmmm

favoured234:
If one like marry virgin or harlot, whats most important is how happy and content you are in marriage..

favoured234:
If one like marry virgin or harlot, whats most important is how happy and content you are in marriage..

presh247:
yes oh...it saves you the stress of looking outside to get really satisfied

presh247:
men are wired for sex and it is one of those things we look out for during marriage...someone that can meet our sexual needs

NinoBrown888:
A wifey that adds sex to a three course meal for her husby.
lol

presh247:
hahaha...yes oh, how many ladies would willingly do that?

favoured234:
That she is a virgin does not translate to being boring when she eventually gets exposed but then I don't think all experienced people are good too.

NinoBrown888:
gudluck with that bro, lol.

presh247:
my bluetooth is on...still searching for the right one#winks

presh247:
it takes years of discipline to be a virgin...I have female friends that are virgins who will tell you bluntly that they hate sex...how can such cope in marriage? it is better to have that experience beforehand just to kill that phobia for sex....genophobia

amokeme:
stick to the topic

favoured234:
On the other hand I have a friend in her late 20s that's a virgin, she desperately wants to have sex and I know that she will be open to learn a lot if she eventually marries as a virgin... the phobia can be killed in marriage

Adaeze003:
I think the reasons I've read so far supporting and opposing are just vague and shallow...

The virginfinders will say "I don't want second hand" well, you shouldn't refer to another human as though they're things for your pleasure and what about you that have lost count of the number? What are you?
In one sentence, a girl is more than her Vag.

The "I want experience" people will say "all she'll bring is her virginity" well, what century are you living in? Who thinks that these days? Or maybe "I don't want to teach her", "I don't want to cheat on her", "she'll add sex to the three course meal" uhm... you realize that marriage is a life long thingy(tho who knows?) and your perfect sex can get boring? How many times will you reinvent before looking outside?

A cheat is gon cheat... virgin wife or not.

Now, no1 is gon flog you for whatever choice you make so why fight to defend them all the time? Have we not debated enough?

The main thing in my opinion is to marry someone you love and are willing to stay with. It's about the person as a whole and not just genitals.

Nuff said I guess...

amokeme:
Just marry a good wife.. That's all!

Daddi:
when I that reasonable ladies are no more, words from people like you offers hope. Have been admiring your intelligent posts. Your siggy is the bomb

Daddi:
when I that reasonable ladies are no more, words from people like you offers hope. Have been admiring your intelligent posts. Your siggy is the bomb

ITbomb:
What if by the time you have finished making yourself financially independent especially if you are a virgin , your years of attracting able bodied husbands have gone?

amokeme:
Lol.. You are not serious..

presh247:
I don't buy that...been a virgin takes a lot of discipline and to break that mindset in marriage is usually very difficult

jashar:
I'll keep saying it. All those pros that are good in bed were once virgins.

A virgin can become great in bed, just be patient to teach her shhhessshhhhh....

You're even better off with her cuz you can encode her with your own personal programming.

To answer ya question @ OP, chastity can never go out of style.

tejumade14:
Y do pple think lyk dis I ws being forced to comment on dis thread becos of d silly comments pple made.ironically sum of u re encouraging premarital sex. Dere re a lot of virgins out dere dat re good mannered nd have good character.