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saaedlee:
Straight to the point, my HoD retired and a new one was transferred from a south-south state to take his position earlier this month. The problem is new boss is a young girl of about 30 years and during our first meeting, we stared @ each other for almost 5 minutes straight without saying "hi" nor "hello"! During the first week we would steal glances when the other wasn't watching.
My first field assignment under her command went smoothly that she put in a commendation for me and offered to buy me a drink to celebrate it, during the course of our drink she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment. Ever since, we cannot stay a day without seeing each other, apart from office hours, we have also coded it that no one in the office knows bout it; tho the service doesn't prohibit it!

Should I call it off or should I continue?

cc: Babyosisi, Falconey, eroticangelica etc

for starters you don't have anything to call of since nothing has been officially 'Inaugurated'. The good book also tells me that 'Hell knows no fury like a woman spurned'. It's better to drift along. Destination? Only time will tell;if ur feelings are true,it will come to d fore,if not friend zone is safe

Sack her from your heart and focus on your job! Office romance never ends well. The choice is yours.

lestat:


Dumb ignorant b1tches everywhere... okay since you are bereft of simple analytical reasoning let me play out two scenarios for you...

1. you continue the relationship and she being a woman emotionally involved with you will eventually make wrong judgement calls due to her emotions... these will impact her job, things will not go well eventually... it would have been better if you were both in separate departments than dating your direct supervisor!!! Who does that? How stupìd are you

2. You guys have a quarrel and she or you calls it off. Do you think you guys can go back to working together as if nothing happened NO!!!!!this is a recipe for disaster!! Two women you never date at work 1. The bosses daughter or wife and 2. Your supervisor!!!

This are well established rules but you had to go break them because you think with your anus, and now you guys have had sex and your eyes are clear you are running scared because you have realised what a huge pile of dung you are in?

In conclusion?? You are the most useless f00l that ever lived and yes this will not go well for you, and yes you will loose your job, and yes you deserve to. Because instead of facing your job you saw a moment of weakness in your supervisor and you rushed to get laid!!!
You don't have to tell us you slept with her Because it's obvious!!! But now the novelty of her vagina has worn off you want out and you come here indirectly asking us how you can dump your own boss Bastard like you, you are just a typical user... I hope you get fired

I feel very cool with your points... Buh the ABUSE part of it mhen

If you are a woman, that's easy.. you know how to do your stuff.. but if you're a man, you have to psychologically get her attention by smilling, discussing more with her about things out of job issue, show off your smartness, give much compliments to her looks, e.t.c..

Congratulations










U are playin wit fire

You already put sex before every other thing, Mr. loverboy. You are pooing where you eat and you can't even smell the sh*t..
Lust will not earn you anything but moments of pleasure and if your dikkk acts faster than your brain, eventually, you will end up in deep poo.
Enjoy the free ride while it lasts, you don't need to ask us anything, you will lay your bed and lie on it all by yourself.

There are some ways that seemth right to a man but the end thereof is destruction.

You my good friend is not being professional. Must you be romantically involved with her? Is it the case that she was looking for a confidant and you misinterpreted her and cashed into her panties? Or is she just the MAYDAY MAYDAY pants on fire girl that's just out for the fun? In which case, you've got to go for a medical tests,play safe and don't invest your emotions on it.

Two case scenarios- She wakes up one day and realises you took advantage of her emotional state when she confided in you or when. She's had her fill and a better younger loaded independent Boss who can Boss her around comes along. At the end of the day, you only gain the sex with option of losing your job.

Now, that we've agreed that it is only sex you are benefiting- the question now is- is she really worth the risk? I mean, is it the case that there's something so special about the sex from her? Is it possible you can get sex with less risk? Or, is the sex reflecting in your salary? Why are you doing this? Did you even think things through? Ohhh I forgot it was love at first sight right? You are a man and should start thinking like one.

Or just maybe the devil has planed to set you up and you fell for it? I've seen sex destroy so many potentials that's why I seem concerned bro.

Stay away cos if anything go wrong den prepare to dust ur CV again

lestat:


Dumb ignorant b1tches everywhere... okay since you are bereft of simple analytical reasoning let me play out two scenarios for you...

1. you continue the relationship and she being a woman emotionally involved with you will eventually make wrong judgement calls due to her emotions... these will impact her job, things will not go well eventually... it would have been better if you were both in separate departments than dating your direct supervisor!!! Who does that? How stupìd are you??

2. You guys have a quarrel and she or you calls it off. Do you think you guys can go back to working together as if nothing happened NO!!!!!this is a recipe for disaster!! Two women you never date at work 1. The bosses daughter or wife and 2. Your supervisor!!!

This are well established rules but you had to go break them because you think with your anus, and now you guys have had sex and your eyes are clear you are running scared because you have realised what a huge pile of dung you are in?

In conclusion?? You are the most useless f00l that ever lived and yes this will not go well for you, and yes you will loose your job, and yes you deserve to. Because instead of facing your job you saw a moment of weakness in your supervisor and you rushed to get laid!!!
You don't have to tell us you slept with her Because it's obvious!!! But now the novelty of her vagina has worn off you want out and you come here indirectly asking us how you can dump your own boss?? Bastard like you, you are just a typical user... I hope you get fired

Gosh! Did this guy just say something?

It depends on what your motive is,no harm if you have a clear intention of making the relationship life long.Cases abound where boss get married to their subordinate.

Prodeegee:
Sack yourself!

u're CRAzy TO ASK SUCH QUESTION!!!

In that case, one person has to resign for the other person..
U sure can't work in the same office, some organisations don't permit it.

[b]she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment

The above ref: you are yet to gist us wt exactly did u guys discuss; fill-us-in-on-dt.
secondly, be sure you are logical in this beginning, dont be emotional: brains ova feelings. Some boss-babes are very witful such that they will try you to know ur vulnerable strength. In d end, she could accuse u of falling for every lady that shows you green light like you are nt just choosy!
At this point, it is good to play some mind games on her. just becareful cos in the end, it might involves 2 tins.

Hmmm this matter na bobo juice

saaedlee:
Straight to the point, my HoD retired and a new one was transferred from a south-south state to take his position earlier this month. The problem is new boss is a young girl of about 30 years and during our first meeting, we stared @ each other for almost 5 minutes straight without saying "hi" nor "hello"! During the first week we would steal glances when the other wasn't watching.
My first field assignment under her command went smoothly that she put in a commendation for me and offered to buy me a drink to celebrate it, during the course of our drink she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment. Ever since, we cannot stay a day without seeing each other, apart from office hours, we have also coded it that no one in the office knows bout it; tho the service doesn't prohibit it!

Should I call it off or should I continue?

cc: Babyosisi, Falconey, eroticangelica etc

Why call it off Are you married or is she married

If Not. you shouldn't be bothered. Let the relationship continue and see where it takes you both.



But judging from your write up, I dey smell love in Tokyo... Lol

You both were staring at each for 5 minutes without saying anything? Were you both acting Indian film?

broda follow haa like fleas nd mices...since ur hrt s wit haa,damm wateva consquences ppl may project.dats wat maks u a man!!!

HAPPY CHILDREN DAY TO THE OP

You said you need help,like you do

Keep your cool and play along. She will dictate the scene and also end it without no one getting hurt. Do not take charge of how things pans out, let her lead the way but try to find her weakness and provide strength. Develop yourself academically always improve your skill to deliver more on assignment so you can last in the relationship. Life itself is a risk either way you are taking a risk

Are both of you unmarried? Nothing wrong. Just be sure. Look before you leap! Be careful. Don't get carried away by this 'love at first sight'.

Well women are very mysterious,the more you start wanting her the less she would start wanting you.
Bro just take it slowly. Treat her right but it's too soon to show her that you care/love her this much,
if you do she would subconsciously find you boring. Women like challenge but that doesn't mean you
should start playing mind games. In a nutshell, I advise that AS OF NOW HIDE YOUR LOVE FOR HER
WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT,But treat her right and be a gentleman man. Also, don't start acting like you
want a serious relationship even though you want something serious, let her be the one to instigating the
seriousness.
Whatever you were doing till you started feeling this so called love was working,so keep doing it
love will kill your games so for now try to suppress or hide it from her...
You said you love her, so continue as long as she is respecting you and she's interested in you,and don't be cheap to her.
I SAID ALL THESE WITH THE MINDSET THAT YOU ARE SINGLE AND SHE IS SINGLE TOO.

TrishaP:
Mixing pleasure with work is dangerous.

Very dangerous especially when the going gets tough, speaking out of experience....Thread carefully young man, she might just be taking advantage of your stuupidity.

saaedlee:
Straight to the point, my HoD retired and a new one was transferred from a south-south state to take his position earlier this month. The problem is new boss is a young girl of about 30 years and during our first meeting, we stared @ each other for almost 5 minutes straight without saying "hi" nor "hello"! During the first week we would steal glances when the other wasn't watching.
My first field assignment under her command went smoothly that she put in a commendation for me and offered to buy me a drink to celebrate it, during the course of our drink she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment. Ever since, we cannot stay a day without seeing each other, apart from office hours, we have also coded it that no one in the office knows bout it; tho the service doesn't prohibit it!

Should I call it off or should I continue?

cc: Babyosisi, Falconey, eroticangelica etc

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I've got a question for you before you situationally cajole yourself into a cage you'll regret you ever start to make with your own doing.

ARE YOU MARRIED OR SINGLE

Lets start from there cos that's what will be part of your fate determinant[/size]

saaedlee:
Straight to the point, my HoD retired and a new one was transferred from a south-south state to take his position earlier this month. The problem is new boss is a young girl of about 30 years and during our first meeting, we stared @ each other for almost 5 minutes straight without saying "hi" nor "hello"! During the first week we would steal glances when the other wasn't watching.
My first field assignment under her command went smoothly that she put in a commendation for me and offered to buy me a drink to celebrate it, during the course of our drink she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment. Ever since, we cannot stay a day without seeing each other, apart from office hours, we have also coded it that no one in the office knows bout it; tho the service doesn't prohibit it!

Should I call it off or should I continue?

cc: Babyosisi, Falconey, eroticangelica etc

God, why good thins dey happen to foolish people, but the bad thing, you go give the good people?

The day she gets tired, you lose everything: you lose her; you lose your job.

treading on troubled waters.
break her heart and she will break your job.
the stakes are high against you bro.

saaedlee:
We don't communicate like "romeo aand juliet while in d office, buh bck in her hotel room or my apartment we are lovers!

So una don START already playing romeo & juliet" off work- na which kain advice you come dey look for here na

fombadi:
Well women are very mysterious,the more you start wanting her the less she would start wanting you.
Bro just take it slowly. Treat her right but it's too soon to show her that you care/love her this much,
if you do she would subconsciously find you boring. Women like challenge but that doesn't mean you
should start playing mind games. In a nutshell, I advise that AS OF NOW HIDE YOUR LOVE FOR HER
WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT,But treat her right and be a gentleman man. Also, don't start acting like you
want a serious relationship even though you want something serious, let her be the one to instigating the
seriousness.
Whatever you were doing till you started feeling this so called love was working,so keep doing it
love will kill your games so for now try to suppress or hide it from her...
You said you love her, so continue as long as she is respecting you and she's interested in you,and don't be cheap to her.

Trash,


She dey in her 30s, she no go do all those rubbish you write,


Na mostly women in their early 20s dey do all those things.


Now she know say time no dey her side, so she dey plant rat trap which go lead to marriage

feran14:
you both like each other... how hard is it?.... and u said ur service doesn't prohibit it-if it means what I think it is... just try it to see where it goes

u gv him d right advice.gv it a trial, it may be ur destiny.

@ 30,who wouldn't be desperate to hook up with a guy? A gal for that matter, how old are u? Will u be willing to have ur wife as ur boss? Those re things to ponder on. @ d mean time, fuuvck d hell outa dat godamn puvssy.