saaedlee:
Straight to the point, my HoD retired and a new one was transferred from a south-south state to take his position earlier this month. The problem is new boss is a young girl of about 30 years and during our first meeting, we stared @ each other for almost 5 minutes straight without saying "hi" nor "hello"! During the first week we would steal glances when the other wasn't watching.
My first field assignment under her command went smoothly that she put in a commendation for me and offered to buy me a drink to celebrate it, during the course of our drink she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment. Ever since, we cannot stay a day without seeing each other, apart from office hours, we have also coded it that no one in the office knows bout it; tho the service doesn't prohibit it!

Should I call it off or should I continue?

cc: Babyosisi, Falconey, eroticangelica etc

girl buy u drink u don dey fall in love, if she come buy u food or cook for u wetin go come apun? all dese niggas dey fall in love with anytin dey c n meet with

Omo dont resign for now, try to evaluate d direction of d love, if leading to marriage den some weeks after wedding u can quit, try to make d relationship open not seek and hide kind of love displayed by secondary school chaps.

saaedlee:
Straight to the point, my HoD retired and a new one was transferred from a south-south state to take his position earlier this month. The problem is new boss is a young girl of about 30 years and during our first meeting, we stared @ each other for almost 5 minutes straight without saying "hi" nor "hello"! During the first week we would steal glances when the other wasn't watching.
My first field assignment under her command went smoothly that she put in a commendation for me and offered to buy me a drink to celebrate it, during the course of our drink she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment. Ever since, we cannot stay a day without seeing each other, apart from office hours, we have also coded it that no one in the office knows bout it; tho the service doesn't prohibit it!

Should I call it off or should I continue?

cc: Babyosisi, Falconey, eroticangelica etc

you're infatuated. Now that it's still early, cut it off. Don't heed to nairalanders and their silly advice. Only you can live to struggle with the consequences. She's 30 and primarily to her aim in any relationship she wants to go into is marriage. Except she makes it clear that she's interested in a fling. Either way, don't go near her except either of you gets transfered. Office romance is a big no. Are you even serious? Hmn I pity you..

ginawest:

@ Saaedlee, are you both single?

I av a simple question for you....yes you might say shes in love with you...are you really in love with her or you are just taking advantage of a free offer? Remember shes 30 and 80-90% of what would be in her head would likely be to settle down soon. Are you ready to take it to the next level with her soon cos you might find her in the driving seat soon. Cos If she asks for an upgrade in the affair and you refuse, you might as well start looking for another job cos you have just poured fire and brimstone on yourself and job. Just take things slow with her....thats my advice

Viciyus:


Trash,


She dey in her 30s, she no go do all those rubbish you write,


Na mostly women in their early 20s dey do all those things.


Now she know say time no dey her side, so she dey plant rat trap which go lead to marriage

TRASH,
Women will remain women.
An attractive successful woman in her 30s who has good traits and has never been married has a reason why.
Either the men she's been meeting are too weak or they lack ambition. She's is his boss,meaning she has power
she can get the attention of men easily. That's the point. This is 2015, women have choice, they don't like weak men
whether 18,20,30,40,50,60's etc etc. It applies to all of them. that's why some women boss their weak husbands around.

Be careful and prayerful.

saaedlee:
Straight to the point, my HoD retired and a new one was transferred from a south-south state to take his position earlier this month. The problem is new boss is a young girl of about 30 years and during our first meeting, we stared @ each other for almost 5 minutes straight without saying "hi" nor "hello"! During the first week we would steal glances when the other wasn't watching.
My first field assignment under her command went smoothly that she put in a commendation for me and offered to buy me a drink to celebrate it, during the course of our drink she told me everything about her self and I fell in-love with her from that moment. Ever since, we cannot stay a day without seeing each other, apart from office hours, we have also coded it that no one in the office knows bout it; tho the service doesn't prohibit it!

Should I call it off or should I continue?

cc: Babyosisi, Falconey, eroticangelica etc

call it off and get fired...continue and be the silent boss...enjoy man!

accuude:
She is 30... Bro she is in love... Remember she is just a girl, toast her

Toast
Toast what
Is she a bread?
Who toast girls this days?

Both of you are mature Hence, i don't see anything wrong with it. After all we can't dictate who we fall in love
with neither can we dictate where but nature does. We find love in the strangest of places so if both of you
are sure of it, then ride on but set your priorities right and it should not affect your job.

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@op u knw wat is right. U kon dey ask us for advice here like say u go stop if we advise u to stop d affair. Beside, y u no tell us before u chuk head? U chuk head finish u kom dey ask for our advice.

guy, nothing do you oooo. I presume you guys are age mates and are both single? so far you can keep it out of the workplace, enjoy yourself. But have a contingency plan in case things go to shit.

Office romance...People could fall in love at different situations, if this is worth it, so be it, not a big deal bro, have seen couple who started from the office and it metamorphosed into marriage but u guys should know when the r/ship is serious, one of the two can leave the office but if u both can handle the feeling, then its cool

fombadi:



TRASH,
Women will remain women.
An attractive successful woman in her 30s who has good traits and has never been married has a reason why.
Either the men she's been meeting are too weak or they lack ambition. She's is his boss,meaning she has power
she can get the attention of men easily. That's the point. This is 2015, women have choice, they don't like weak men
whether 18,20,30,40,50,60's etc etc. It applies to all of them. that's why some women boss their weak husbands around.

Once a woman reach 30s, that attractiveness must suring decline, for sure you will know she is in her 30s cos she wont use appearance or beauty to attract the guy but rather use a deceiving method which dem do nowadays (character, attitude)
And thats is she is doing now, as a guy, Once you matured older you find both character and attitude very attractive, but the foolish naija women when dem don reach 30s na that time them dey get sense and realize say appearance no go too work again.

I hate office Lomance

Enjoy ooooo

op, what about kenny? your BEST friend's EX.

Am here to read comments

Karleb:
I once fell in love with my boss, so it's nothing new. Just be careful and try not to break her heart.

Pls tell me d final part... you marry am?

IamLEGEND1:
U listening bro?



U wait until u trademark ur brand unto dat äss, den u tell her itz inappropriate to go on with your office affair

O mu mi ranti ija baba mi pelu ijakumo, o da bi t'eni a de mo'le. Eni a de mo'le nko, ede lo de lor. Emi lomo ade jeje ogun oo erebente

Dnt even try decode dis story for d gods

and where is d OP?..answer the questions people are asking you here..is either or both of you married because I might be wrong but you seem to kinda trying to deal with your conscience after you have already been in too deep..with the fun comes challenges..it's a decision.

The danger is that once your Boss gets tired of you, then you'll just be ready to get Fired

It could be a wonderful thing for you to date her. It could also lead to your career death in that company.

You should only be in a relationship with her if you are fully in love. Be wise. Know the difference between love and lust. Make sure you see your future with her. It's best to know her totally well before making your move. See how she treats the other staff because the best way to know someone is by observing how he treats others beside you.

But totally refrain if you're not in love. Don't play games with her unless she's only interested in games. Cos if you dump her, or if your passion eventually fades, she'd be bruised and take it out on your career. She'd do frustrate you that you'd wish you never looked at her.

Be wise.

All thins worketh for ur good.
Pls note the following:
* when d luv get to d peak, d right person to leave or resign is you
* If u call it off u might be intimidate n fustrate to leave d job
* if u continue, a time may come when she wil not be interested in any more.
GUESS WHAT? [color=#006600][/color]
JUST WIN HER HEART and SHE WILL LIVE HER LIFE FOR YOU

oromankirisi:
Replies like this, just makes my day!..hahahaahha

I don try b DAT

are both of you single? if not it is dangerous.

You had better cut it off or it will cut you off.Take Joseph for and example.

jamex93:
for where ppl dey find job
u dey take your own play

God go help u out

Indeed God will make a way were there seems to be no way

sunnyeinstein:


Pls tell me d final part... you marry am?

You too like tori.

Actually, she was way older than I, as in she was a graduate when we met and I was still writing JAMB! So there was no way that could ever happen.

Is she married? If nt y nt?




















Marry her.

mimicious:
Indeed God will make a way were there seems to be no way

amen o