obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. . What ur take on this guys?

Freemanan:


Can I have an amen sister.....

misssclassy:


No I am not. Why did you ask?

Rosemary216:
good luck wit dat. Dnt forget to send me d invitation card, will love to attend!

obitee69:


Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

Kizmarty:


sure thing,you may be my bride...never can tell

Rosemary216:
lolxxxx. wat are we really talkn abt here? Do u nid to hv milions of naira b4 u can sponsor ur weddin? Cant u cut ur coat accrdin 2 ur size? Wen my bro did his weddin; i never believed wen he told me wat he spent yet d weddin was d best i had attended. U jst nid a good weddin planner, little help, amazin advice nd u are set. Sum ppl also get help frm d Brides family.

misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then are man is ready for marriage.

Bolincosugar:







Amen

Lexusgs430:


If you wait till you have enough before you get married, you would never get married.
When both of you feel financial capable, take the plunge.
I married @ 25 living in a 2 bedroom rented apartment, 15 years later and 3 kids, we now own a 4 bedroom house, financial comfortable, a couple of cars later, and the hustle continues!!!!!

Freemanan:
Depends...

If you are from a well to do home - 26
You had to struggle (male) - 32
Wanna marry as an average Christian brother/sister -27
People like me - Flow with the wind
Poor couples who wanna make a home by force - 29
Lucky Beautiful undergraduate (female) - 21
Undergraduate (male) - Nor think am.....
Players - 41
BROTHER Simeon who has been praying - 43
Sister Theresa who has been praying -44

Generally. - 26...


So folks, pitch your tent...

Lucasbalo:
You are absolutely right on target. I got married few months after getting my MBA at the age of 23 and my wife just got her Bachelors degree in Nursing. I thought I was making a decent living to take care of the family. Twenty plus years of wedded bliss. My mum was against it initially because she thought I was young . The best thing to happen to me is my wife and the lovely kids. Your guts will tell you when you are ready. No age is specific for marriage.

obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. . What ur take on this guys?

obitee69:
I feel 28 is d perfect age that's next year. But I haven't found the ONE. I know many ladies but almost all have major commas or are taken. This Is the first time am making front page!! I'm soo happy!!

Lexusgs430:



Lol. Likewise both Mum's. My mum wanted me to marry her church, her mum wanted her to marry from her church.
We forged ahead regardless, and my wife is the best woman, best wife, best friend, best sister in law, perfect homemaker etc etc etc, anyone man would want or desire.

orimahspence:
I got married at 22, my wife was 20 then, have my first daughter at 23 and the second at 26, now 27. Marriage don't come come wothout its challenge, but No regret

Rosemary216:
yeah... Gud tin u said 'never can tell'..