obitee69:
I'v been pondering what the right age is for a guy to get married. I'm 27 and my parents say I'm getting old lol. I stay alone in a small apartment(1 bedroom), drives a good car and i'm a bit stable financially but anytime I reason the bills that comes with marriage and the numerous responsibility, I go just tire. E.g. Moving out from my 1bed to a 3bed in my area will need I cough out 1.5M for rent. Chei. I can see why many men are not ready. . What ur take on this guys?

KingAdeOluomo1:
just tell him u are available period .

misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.
What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.

In my opinion, the right time for a man to get married is when he is stable in every or most areas of his life.
There are certain criteria that has to be met before any man dabbles into marriage.

Such criteria include:
Financial stability
Emotional stability
Being able to make good decisions and judgments
Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
Being able to be a father figure to your children. Both financially and other wise
Having the desire to get married.

When these criteria are met, then a man is ready for marriage.

CR9R:
lol you sound like an Executive Trainee. Lol just kidding

Adaezeagu:

Wen u re man enough
Marriage is for men not boys

Mutuwa:


Coping was by the almighty's intervetion.Not that I was in distress.we finished same year,same school with my finance/wife in 2008,and married on boxing day same year.By feb 09,she was amongst the first batch of nysc then i was still in law school.by nov same year i was in the 3rd batch.we had good places for our PPA so there was enough and fused with parental gifts (typical in the north).Things went quiet well for just the two of us..
Our first child was in 2010 after her youth service and as the almighty would have it she got a job when the baby was just a year old. After almost two years of working,i also got mine..up and till this time wer grateful to the almighty.we have a boy as a second child who would be one in a week to come by the grace of the almighty.

NobleG1:


Your parents are right, you're not getting any younger. It's always good idea to statt a family when you're young, so that you'll live to see your grandchildren.

According to your post, you're 27 years old and financially stable. So what stops you from starting a family now you're still young?

Marraige is not easy but it's fulfiling and enjoyable when you have a good wife. You can marry a woman who's also financially stable enough to contribute in the family.

Time has gone when husbands do every financial stuff in the family. Women's welfare in the soceity has greatly improved. Women are gradually becoming more educated than men.
Good education guarantees good job. So more than half of the women population are very litetate and many of them are working in big corporations or business owners and financially stable.

If you don't already have a financial stable girlfriend you could marry, getting a financially stable woman or a woman who has potential to be financially within a short time, is somewhat easy.

- Start from where you work. There may be some single women at your workplace who are either in the same level with you or above.

- If where you work is a big company, it may have branch locations. Such company may host once a year general meeting. During such big meetings, you'll meet many single women who occupy good positions in the company.

- Go to business seminars. There you'll meet women who're in good company positions or business owners.

- You may have a friend or relative who knows a good financially stable single woman you can check out.

- Go commando. Chase as many women as possible at places like a friend's or relative's or co-worker's ceremony or party and other places or joints where responsible people visit. While at it, make sure you find out the lady's profession.

I'm not saying you should sleep every woman you meet. If you meet a woman who doesn't possess the qualities you want, move on.

So my friend, it's time to go find your woman. She's somewhere, hoping to meet someone like you. Goodluck!

nice one. Thanks bro

obitee69:


Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

NobleG1:


Your parents are right, you're not getting any younger. It's always good idea to statt a family when you're young, so that you'll live to see your grandchildren.

According to your post, you're 27 years old and financially stable. So what stops you from starting a family now you're still young?

Marraige is not easy but it's fulfiling and enjoyable when you have a good wife. You can marry a woman who's also financially stable enough to contribute in the family.

Time has gone when husbands do every financial stuff in the family. Women's welfare in the soceity has greatly improved. Women are gradually becoming more educated than men.
Good education guarantees good job. So more than half of the women population are very litetate and many of them are working in big corporations or business owners and financially stable.

If you don't already have a financial stable girlfriend you could marry, getting a financially stable woman or a woman who has potential to be financially within a short time, is somewhat easy.

- Start from where you work. There may be some single women at your workplace who are either in the same level with you or above.

- If where you work is a big company, it may have branch locations. Such company may host once a year general meeting. During such big meetings, you'll meet many single women who occupy good positions in the company.

- Go to business seminars. There you'll meet women who're in good company positions or business owners.

- You may have a friend or relative who knows a good financially stable single woman you can check out.

- Go commando. Chase as many women as possible at places like a friend's or relative's or co-worker's ceremony or party and other places or joints where responsible people visit. While at it, make sure you find out the lady's profession.

I'm not saying you should sleep every woman you meet. If you meet a woman who doesn't possess the qualities you want, move on.

So my friend, it's time to go find your woman. She's somewhere, hoping to meet someone like you. Goodluck!

1stola:

Msteeewu!
Are you paying for 4 years?

Freemanan:
Depends...

If you are from a well to do home - 26
You had to struggle (male) - 32
Wanna marry as an average Christian brother/sister -27
People like me - Flow with the wind
Poor couples who wanna make a home by force - 29
Lucky Beautiful undergraduate (female) - 21
Undergraduate (male) - Nor think am.....
Players - 41
BROTHER Simeon who has been praying - 43
Sister Theresa who has been praying -44

Generally. - 26...


So folks, pitch your tent...

Impulse80:

Guy i swear you are a nut case!

Ayoolajumoke:


So, I can't wish him all the best I did not mention you oo.

KingAdeOluomo1:
up coming celebu just be sincere dats all

Ayoolajumoke:

I will let it slide.

KingAdeOluomo1:
don't tell me u r taking it personal


Lovely morning to u pretty up n coming celeb

Ayoolajumoke:


Lol, i been wan change am for you before

Okay,I'm not taking it personal...
Good morning to you too and have a nice day ahead.

Ayoolajumoke:


Lol, i been wan change am for you before

Okay,I'm not taking it personal...
Good morning to you too and have a nice day ahead.

KingAdeOluomo1:
chai wan change am for me Nairaland babes enh ....

una matter na season film chai wan change am for me Nairaland babes enh ....

una matter na season film

IamLEGEND1:
have someone chop off ur dìck, the matter wont weigh on ur mind anymore

obitee69:
Also its very difficult to find loyal good girls. Most cute classy girls prefer guys that maybe live on the island or drive range rovers. How many girls can start with a guy in a 1 bed?

Ayoolajumoke:

We are derailing this tread... Have a nice day.

Hammefeez:


I love this story!

How i wish mine (not necessary to be like yours ) but, to make people smile and sound good like yours.

nwadiuko1:
one of ma guys talk say wedding these days na BOOBY trap