i posted this here in order to get a reasonable suggestions from the experienced adults.

i met this lady few months back during one of my business trips. It was like love at first sight expecially from me, and she love me too. Though she visited me the same weekend but refused to have sex with me when i attempted to. I love her to the extent that i'm now thinking of replacing my fiancee(who have been giving me a serious headache lately) and put her.

She has been giving this silly excuse i thought it was a joke or mere mind game played by the women in order not to be see as cheap ladies. she said she always has a serious stomach pain whenever she had sex,and that was the reason she abstained from sex since she started experiencing it. Since me too has changed my mind from "chop and clean mouth" and make her my princess, i decided to be patient with her till she has no option but to give in.

Just yeaterday, she lost control when we were romancing, and that was how everything started. It was a terrible experience i wont forget for the rest of my life. Thank God i was able to brings her back to life after she almost gave up the gost due to the stomach pain.

My question is, is this normal or spiritual? i'm afraid of her now, infact she has been crying since yesterday even on phone because i'd demanded she tell me the truth or i put an end to our relationship.

Where exactly is d pain?i think she shud see a doc ASAP.It cud be a PID.she may hav had a trauma too.if u love her help her

Though it is good that she abstain, but the condition is a health related issue. That must a cram due to the stressing of some muscles.

Tell her to visit a Doc immediately.

It could be medical, it can also be spiritual. If the pains is mild I would say it could be medical but if it's severe, most likely spiritual cos I don't understand why anyone will be having severe pains after sex

Kingtom you're WANTED here

why must you guys attribute everything to the supernatural.I tire

Lol d op is afraid!if it wz spiritual just to destroy ur career! Den i say NO! D only ones dat destroy 1's career re thse that flirt! U see friends of 5 banging jst 1 girl in rounds! Dis ur girl need a medical attention! Maybe she dsnt get wet enough while fvcking!

Dsage1:
i posted this here in order to get a reasonable suggestions from the experienced adults.

i met this lady few months back during one of my business trips. It was like love at first sight expecially from me, and she love me too. Though she visited me the same weekend but refused to have sex with me when i attempted to. I love her to the extent that i'm now thinking of replacing my fiancee(who have been giving me a serious headache lately) and put her.

She has been giving this silly excuse i thought it was a joke or mere mind game played by the women in order not to be see as cheap ladies. she said she always has a serious stomach pain whenever she had sex,and that was the reason she abstained from sex since she started experiencing it. Since me too has changed my mind from "chop and clean mouth" and make her my princess, i decided to be patient with her till she has no option but to give in.

Just yeaterday, she lost control when we were romancing, and that was how everything started. It was a terrible experience i wont forget for the rest of my life. Thank God i was able to brings her back to life after she almost gave up the gost due to the stomach pain.

My question is, is this normal or spiritual? i'm afraid of her now, infact she has been crying since yesterday even on phone because i'd demanded she tell me the truth or i put an end to our relationship.

Wow.... shocking. Mention it to your pastor... . But seriously you guys need to see a doctor.

iamodenigbo1:
why must you guys attribute everything to the supernatural.I tire

Say ur own n stop dat trash.it its nt dat Wats it den?

Visit a doc ASAP.

Are the pains before, during or after sex?

estheremma:
Where exactly is d pain?i think she shud see a doc ASAP.It cud be a PID.she may hav had a trauma too.if u love her help her

Thank @all. i pray non of you experience what i experienced yesterday. i was profusely sweating, thinking about being jail,newspapers and the social websites when she was completely unconscious.

What kind of health issue was that for God sake. Well, i will take her to the hospital myself.

KingTom:
Are the pains before, during or after sex?

She started the drama during and she was immediately became unconscious. I still not believe it's an health issue until i confirm by taking her to the hospital myself.

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It could be endometriosis or some other health conditions.

The thing wey make you know say na headache your fiancee they give you lately naim go make you know say you no dey feel headache again. Yeye dey smell.

Lord have mercy

Spiritual

Pls tell her to go see a doctor.

Godownchild:
@ op, that is a symptom of pelvic inflammatory disease thhat usually affects women when caught with the disease.
It causes severe pain during sex that is usually very unbearable for the woman that most times won't be able to go thru the sex and can make a woman hate sex if not treated.

Pls for the love of mike, tell your lady to see a doctor, who wud prescribe drugs for her

Ask her if she has ever seen a doc pertaining this issue

It used to be "Pete" and now "Mike"

Who da hell are these guys?

Op,

It is health related from what you narrated.

I also read where you wrote that you will take her to the hospital yourself. Please do.

Dsage1:


She started the drama during and she was immediately became unconscious. I still not believe it's an health issue until i confirm by taking her to the hospital myself.

Please take her to the hospital, you just never know it may be a health issue

i suspect STI or fibroid.. she shud see a doctor.. alternatively do a scan and possibly visit a good lab.

Which truth will you want her to tell you again when you have witnessed it yourself? I guess she has a real medical problem and If you indeed love her find a way to help her overcome it that way she will make you her idol. I believe it is a problem that has medical solution. Start by searching google then take her to the hospital, it might just be a therapy she needs.

Lemme take a sit first to read before commenting...

Dsage1:
i posted this here in order to get a reasonable suggestions from the experienced adults.

i met this lady few months back during one of my business trips. It was like love at first sight expecially from me, and she love me too. Though she visited me the same weekend but refused to have sex with me when i attempted to. I love her to the extent that i'm now thinking of replacing my fiancee(who have been giving me a serious headache lately) and put her.

She has been giving this silly excuse i thought it was a joke or mere mind game played by the women in order not to be see as cheap ladies. she said she always has a serious stomach pain whenever she had sex,and that was the reason she abstained from sex since she started experiencing it. Since me too has changed my mind from "chop and clean mouth" and make her my princess, i decided to be patient with her till she has no option but to give in.

Just yeaterday, she lost control when we were romancing, and that was how everything started. It was a terrible experience i wont forget for the rest of my life. Thank God i was able to brings her back to life after she almost gave up the gost due to the stomach pain.

My question is, is this normal or spiritual? i'm afraid of her now, infact she has been crying since yesterday even on phone because i'd demanded she tell me the truth or i put an end to our relationship.

That could be caused by a severe pelvic inflammatory or other sort of infection...I ain't see anything spiritual with that...



Advice: if you really, and truly love her, don't threaten or tell her you'll off the relationship, she loves you as you can see,,,she opened up to you about her condition on your first attempt, you can't say that she's playing hard to get cus your assumption of such which she might have found is what have led to this, she wanted to prove it to you and now you have first hand experience and a witness to it... help her by taking her to good hospital for thorough checkup and X-ray scanning.... I believe she can be medically be cured...



Goodluck.

Absolute BULLSHYTE!!!!!

missKiffy:
It could be medical, it can also be spiritual. If the pains is mild I would say it could be medical but if it's severe, most likely spiritual cos I don't understand why anyone will be having severe pains after sex

That's lie, severe PID can lead even to a case far worsen than that sef...

missKiffy:
It could be medical, it can also be spiritual. If the pains is mild I would say it could be medical but if it's severe, most likely spiritual cos I don't understand why anyone will be having severe pains after sex

it can be as a result of an untreated infection,it can even lead to less fertility if not treated soon, I advice the Op to take the lady to good hospital for an immediate diagnosis to ascertain her problem, it can be cured in 3 to six months time with an appropriate medications...

Cuneddy:

Say ur own n stop dat trash.it its nt dat Wats it den?

medically, it's an infection, not one of the so called courses from tha gods -they are not to be blame for this...

RapLawd:




medically, it's an infection, not one of the so called courses from tha gods -they are not to be blame for this...

Ayt,nw u talk

Two things:

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Or

Vaginismus.

Ignorance is no longer bliss but a disease. Something she would have cured since.


Take her to see a doctor.

Once heard of a lady who had this problem. Turns out her mother put a coil in her to prevent pregnancy when she was a teenager and it got lost in there and everyone forgot about it. An ultrasound scan revealed the blighter. A simple surgery and she was free.


See a doc.

5minsmadness:
Once heard of a lady who had this problem. Turns out her mother put a coil in her to prevent pregnancy when she was a teenager and it got lost in there and everyone forgot about it. An ultrasound scan revealed the blighter. A simple surgery and she was free.


See a doc.

Now why will a mother do that?