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M by Deepur(op):
!!!!!!
Re: M by izyrach(f): 8:44am On Jun 15, 2015
...**i believe it's wrong...u knw it is aswell.. So,,same way u got into it,,get out of it..
Re: M by Nobody: 8:48am On Jun 15, 2015
No.

He doesn't want he and she doesn't want him. If he was really your friend he wouldn't stop your happiness because he's had a thing with her in the past.

Talk to him about it..
Re: M by gabinogem(m): 8:49am On Jun 15, 2015
That's betrayal... U must learn to respect urself & those u call ur friends... There are many ladies for u to choose out there, not ur friend's ex.
Re: M by Pheals(f): 8:59am On Jun 15, 2015
Op fall in love wella till u fall down

na ajekun fit u
dump refuse u dey pick
Re: M by GeneralQuamdeen: 9:09am On Jun 15, 2015
It is not wrong of you to be in love with your friend's ex... But the society will make it wrong for you.. You will be labelled unfaithful by him and other significance.. So let the feeling burn inside of you.. It is better to be safe than to be sorry
Re: M by elantraceey(f): 9:56am On Jun 15, 2015
Pheals:
Op fall in love wella till u fall down

na ajekun fit u
dump refuse u dey pick
This is the dumbest post I've read all day sorry to say .

Does being someone's ex make you a dump refuse or you've never been dumped? undecided undecided






Op talk to your friend first and know his reaction but hope you didn't have a hand in their break up and for how long have they being separated?
Re: M by cooljoe(m): 10:10am On Jun 15, 2015
YourMain:
No.

He doesn't want he and she doesn't want him. If he was really your friend he wouldn't stop your happiness because he's had a thing with her in the past.

Talk to him about it..
but ts an unwritten law sort of not to date ur friends ex-galfriend, nd ur ex-galfriendz friends
Re: M by kinibigdeal(m): 10:11am On Jun 15, 2015
izyrach:
...**i believe it's wrong...u knw it is aswell.. So,,same way u got into it,,get out of it..

Re: M by kinibigdeal(m): 10:12am On Jun 15, 2015
elantraceey:
This is the dumbest post I've read all day sorry to say .

Does being someone's ex make you a dump refuse or you've never been dumped? undecided undecided






Op talk to your friend first and know his reaction but hope you didn't have a hand in their break up and for how long have they being separated?
What an hashtag# grin
Re: M by kinibigdeal(m): 10:14am On Jun 15, 2015
You want to start a war you cannot finish abi? they are no longer together doesnt mean technically they are not together. No matter the differences, feeling will never seize
Re: M by Nobody: 10:24am On Jun 15, 2015
cooljoe:
but ts an unwritten law sort of not to date ur friends ex-galfriend, nd ur ex-galfriendz friends
Yeah but it's a stupid and unfair law. What if you actually love this girl like. If he was your friend he wouldn't deny you of love
Re: M by ihatebuhari(f): 10:37am On Jun 15, 2015
Hmmmm
Re: M by sexylogan(m): 10:38am On Jun 15, 2015
Something about dating your friend's ex just feels wrong undecided
Re: M by sexylogan(m): 10:40am On Jun 15, 2015
YourMain:
Yeah but it's a stupid and unfair law. What if you actually love this girl like. If he was your friend he wouldn't deny you of love
Yeah but then how would you feel when you two run into the guy?

Very awkward
And your mutual friends would be split between those who support it and those who would think it's wrong
Too many issues in my opinion.
Re: M by Pheals(f): 10:56am On Jun 15, 2015
elantraceey:
This is the dumbest post I've read all day sorry to say .

Does being someone's ex make you a dump refuse or you've never been dumped? undecided undecided






Op talk to your friend first and know his reaction but hope you didn't have a hand in their break up and for how long have they being separated?
well am not against his wish but u should know that his friend could laugh at him
Re: M by Nobody: 11:11am On Jun 15, 2015
sexylogan:
Yeah but then how would you feel when you two run into the guy?

Very awkward
And your mutual friends would be split between those who support it and those who would think it's wrong
Too many issues in my opinion.
Yeah but there shouldn't be any issues. It's completely unfair. He could have only been with her for ulterior motives. But you might genuinely love her and she, you. They're not real friends imo if they're not happy seeing you happy.
Re: M by sexylogan(m): 11:14am On Jun 15, 2015
YourMain:
Yeah but there shouldn't be any issues. It's completely unfair. He could have only been with her for ulterior motives. But you might genuinely love her and she, you. They're not real friends imo if they're not happy seeing you happy.
I came so close to dating my friend's ex so I know exactly what the OP is saying.

My friend was always treating her like trash and she and I always got along.
They eventually broke up and even though she and I still call to say hello, it has never gone beyond that.

My friend is getting married to another girl this October.
You do have a valid point.
Sometimes you truly and genuinely love someone but you feel you can't date that person cuz she's your friend's ex.
It really unfair.
Re: M by lanicky(f): 11:24am On Jun 15, 2015
It's absolutely wrong.


Your friend would feel bad...
#take your eyes off her# I'm sure there are so many beautiful girls out there. smiley
Re: M by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jun 15, 2015
sexylogan:
I came so close to dating my friend's ex so I know exactly what the OP is saying.

My friend was always treating her like trash and she and I always got along.
They eventually broke up and even though she and I still call to say hello, it has never gone beyond that.

My friend is getting married to another girl this October.
You do have a valid point.
Sometimes you truly and genuinely love someone but you feel you can't date that person cuz she's your friend's ex.
It really unfair.
Yeah it's ridiculous. He doesn't want her so why should it bother him that you do ?
Re: M by godoluwa(m): 1:08pm On Jun 15, 2015
Deepur:
Help!!!! M in love with my frnd's ex as a guy is that wrong...

Their relationship didn't last a month and she seems very happy now....even the friend in question doesn't care

The primary cos of the break up is infidelity on the part of the guy....
neva think of dating ur friend ex. there r thousands ladies out there.
Re: M by cooljoe(m): 2:14pm On Jun 15, 2015
YourMain:
Yeah but it's a stupid and unfair law. What if you actually love this girl like. If he was your friend he wouldn't deny you of love
hmmm, u know ts nt always lyk dat. Qstns wee arise, wen did u start eyeing/luvn d ex/frnd, ur nt suppose to lyk frnds boo remba... Bt den again, notn is cast in stone, to every general rule, an xception
Re: M by babs01(m): 2:29pm On Jun 15, 2015
izyrach:
...**i believe it's wrong...u knw it is aswell.. So,,same way u got into it,,get out of it..
notin wrong
Re: M by babs01(m): 2:34pm On Jun 15, 2015
lanicky:
It's absolutely wrong.


Your friend would feel bad...
#take your eyes off her# I'm sure there are so many beautiful girls out there. smiley
I knq dis gal
Re: M by wenson(m): 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2015
Go 4 who u love
Re: M by lanicky(f): 6:44pm On Jun 15, 2015
babs01:
I knq dis gal
undecided
Re: M by babs01(m): 10:55am On Jun 16, 2015
lanicky:
undecided
yes, i knw u
Re: M by lanicky(f): 12:02pm On Jun 16, 2015
babs01:
yes, i knw u
I don't know you....
Re: M by loomer: 12:14pm On Jun 16, 2015
NO.

As long as u no just love her cos u been de see her with ur friend before
Re: M by babs01(m): 12:19pm On Jun 16, 2015
lanicky:
I don't know you....
I mean I lyk u
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