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Okaaay. So this is like a current dilemma in someone's life right now but enough about him.

This is open to all ye matured minds out there. Friends with benefit, two questions :

1) When is the right time to end it considering the fact that one person is going to get hurt. Obviously

and

2) If the lady in question is in a relationship but wants you to stay single, when is the right time to draw the line on this OR to continue playing along till the inevitable happens.

Its a really weird debacle and i just thought to put it out there. I would especially love to hear from a ladies POV.

If she has a serious relationship going on, no point keeping any other relationship. FWB usually has no strings attached. There shouldn't be a case of a heartbreak.

manikal:
1) When is the right time to end it considering the fact that one person is going to get hurt. Obviously

The likelihood of anyone getting hurt IF expectations were mutually agreed from onset is pretty slim. You don't go into such arrangement with the expectation to fall in love in the process. It's strictly what it says on the Tin FWB

manikal:
2) If the lady in question is in a relationship but wants you to stay single, when is the right time to draw the line on this OR to continue playing along till the inevitable happens.

Its a really weird debacle and i just thought to put it out there. I would especially love to hear from a ladies POV.

She can't be making demands when the arrangement should normally satisfy both parties. It seems the expectation weren't clear from the start and it's obvious it simply won't work.

well

jaybee3:
The likelihood of anyone getting hurt IF expectations were mutually agreed from onset is pretty slim. You don't go into such arrangement with the expectation to fall in love in the process. It's strictly what it says on the Tin FWB



She can't be making demands when the arrangement should normally satisfy both parties. It seems the expectation weren't clear from the start and it's obvious it simply won't work.

Well there was no predetermined set of rules. It just started happening

Creamish:
If she has a serious relationship going on, no point keeping any other relationship. FWB usually has no strings attached. There shouldn't be a case of a heartbreak.

That's the problem. There are hearts on the line. Both hearts.

manikal:
That's the problem. There are hearts on the line. Both hearts.

Then the FWB status is just pretense. They need to come out clean with each other.