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I met my boyfriend's dad for the first time last week and he introduced me as a 'friend' to his dad. I later asked him why he introduced me as a friend just to clarify things and know if am just a 'friend' to him and he told me his dad understands what he meant even tho he referred to me as a friend, and I think he was right cos his dad was dotting on me after meeting me, he even told my boyfriend he likes me.

Should I still be worried or am just bothering myself for no reason.

U should not worry.

The dad understand and i think that's the best way to introduce you. To show some 'discipline' before his dad....

he told me his dad understands what he meant even tho he referred to me as a friend

don't be bothered, its just a sign of respect for his dad

Jelo4kul:
If i stone you eba from here you go dey happy by force. So you me

Abeg stone me the eba, I dey hungry

u dont need to be worried. the father knows his son & he understood wat his son mean. for the fact he introduce u to him, d father knows Xup

But that's what you are. Did you expect to be called girlfriend which sounds immoral to parents or fiancée when his dad hasn't given final approval? You should be happy that he took you home which is the beginning of things to come

How old is he? That's a very big factor

You should be happy you've gotten to the stage of meeting his Dad

You are worried already

When did i show you to my dad?

So him carry u meet dad, u no happy, u want mk him tell am say u be him wife abi...

My dear, no need to worry yourself. But don't be too sure that you've registered yourself in his life just because he introduced you to his dad. Believe me my dear, more packages are yet to be unwrapped. From experience

GeneralQuamdeen:
When did i show you to my dad?

missKiffy:
I met my boyfriend's dad for the first time last week and he introduced me as a 'friend' to his dad. I later asked him why he introduced me as a friend just to clarify things and know if am just a 'friend' to him and he told me his dad understands what he meant even tho he referred to me as a friend, and I think he was right cos his dad was dotting on me after meeting me, he even told my boyfriend he likes me.

Should I still be worried or am just bothering myself for no reason.

Be worried my sister.. for out of the abundance of d hrt d mouth speaketh..

But like seriously wil u rather have him introduce u as his babe/gf/wife? Ase otie gbon pupo

sneak3:
Be worried my sister.. for out of the abundance of d hrt d mouth speaketh..

But like seriously wil u rather have him introduce u as his babe/gf/wife? Ase otie gbon pupo

Iwo ni o ghon

missKiffy:
I met my boyfriend's dad for the first time last week and he introduced me as a 'friend' to his dad. I later asked him why he introduced me as a friend just to clarify things and know if am just a 'friend' to him and he told me his dad understands what he meant even tho he referred to me as a friend, and I think he was right cos his dad was dotting on me after meeting me, he even told my boyfriend he likes me.

Should I still be worried or am just bothering myself for no reason.

Are you just silly or plain stu.pid ?

Should he have introduced you as his WIFE ?

400billionman:
Are you just silly or plain stu.pid ?

Should he have have introduced you as his WIFE ?

So to make your point now, you must insult

missKiffy:
So to make your point now, you must insult

You have created a topic anyway.

Stop posing as a fornicator.

You need JESUS.

He is taking tins slowly..

Jelo4kul:
If i stone you eba from here you go dey happy by force. So you want make him describe you as girlfriend make him popsy disown am. If to say na fiancee i for understand.

smh... The eba wey neva belle full U.. Na im U wan stone person..

just take it slow. diff stroke for diff persons. na d end na matter

Should I still be worried or am just bothering myself for no reason.[/quote]YOU DON'T NEED TO BE WORRIED, JUST SIDON AND ENJOY FOR NO REASON.

better be worried

Eyah............ Sorry..

how old are both of U?U dnt expect somebody who's still spoon feed/living under the roof of his parent/a 20 yrs old undergraduate to introduced u to his(Soldier'if he's one/any')paPa as girlfriend.U want the old man to insult/embrass U(Ehn! so nah u nor allow my pikin to serious/kal u gold digger).Madam,listen up.Dnt get belle for him now ooo/play rough.if u dare get preggy now,U are OYO ooo cos the old man will say Shebi U are friend.Shine ur eyes make Papa and bomboy nor take U play ludo/squash(apology to late Yah Adua) game

Na u knw who u help

He was being diplomatic girl friend. He hasnt engaged you has he?

Some guys do so because they feel using the word "girl friend" when introducing their girl to their parents is a bit dis-respectful (dont ask me how using the word girlfriend could come across as being dis-respectful, because i cant even say).