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Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 10:06am On Mar 11, 2015
Am presently listening to a discussion on radio.
Just want to sample people's opinion on this.

Is there anything wrong with either a girl or guy not been in any love relationship but have friends of the opposite sex and ones in a while they have sex.
This does not happen with a particular person.

What could be the consequence of this habit in the long run for this individual.
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by Nobody: 10:19am On Mar 11, 2015
Let me ask you a question to help u reason on the matter. How do you think your so called male friends would view u after having sex with you casually? Do you think you will have more esteem before them or will you just appear like one friend who offers free sex when needed, especially when they know that they have all had you.

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Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 4:25pm On Mar 11, 2015
vfactor:
Let me ask you a question to help u reason on the matter. How do you think your so called male friends would view u after having sex with you casually? Do you think you will have more esteem before them or will you just appear like one friend who offers free sex when needed, especially when they know that they have all had you.
yea I get your point from a girl's perspective. What of from a guys perspective?
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 4:25pm On Mar 11, 2015
Still waiting for your views
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 11, 2015
donephi:
yea I get your point from a girl's perspective. What of from a guys perspective?

The same applies for guys, though girls usually don't mind. But I believe if a guy's female friends all know that he sleeps with all of them, they brand him a player. And chances are that he'll cheat when in a real relationship
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by princeogbeide1(m): 6:13pm On Mar 11, 2015
there is no consiquences here... its just being all fun

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Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 7:51pm On Mar 11, 2015
princeogbeide1:
there is no consiquences here... its just being all fun
then what cld be the advantages?
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by ITbomb(m): 8:47pm On Mar 11, 2015
That is always my secret prayer especially with nairaland girls. #teamfwb

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Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 10:04pm On Mar 11, 2015
ITbomb:
That is always my secret prayer especially with nairaland girls. #teamfwb
smiley
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by sinizia: 11:42pm On Mar 11, 2015
Religious angle aside, nothing wrong. lipsrsealed
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 7:43am On Mar 12, 2015
sinizia:
Religious angle aside, nothing wrong. lipsrsealed
so what happens to morals?
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by sinizia: 7:44am On Mar 12, 2015
donephi:
so what happens to morals?

People have varying morals.
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 7:53am On Mar 12, 2015
sinizia:


People have varying morals.
kindly throw more light on varying morals as regards this
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by MizMyColi(f): 7:38pm On Jun 22, 2015
For people with an amplified conscience and with something akin to a deeply ingrained christian religious upbringing, there's everything wrong with it.


Personally?
I think it's wrong.
Yes, I dropped religion, I've picked up and now do some things which I erstwhile considered wrong.
And I feel no sense of guilt.

(Did someone just say I've lost my soul?grin)

But guess what?
Religion aside, bible aside (I can't remember when last I read a bible)....maybe it's my strict christian upbringing at play here...

I actually have a very big issue with casual sex.
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jun 22, 2015
Most of the people on this thread are still on the giving side of karma. Karma is waiting and don't you worry, lives will be bleeped up at the appointed time when your seeds start to germinate. Nor be earth we dey?
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by ebamma(m): 7:50pm On Jun 22, 2015
That's the life man, Many naija guys are now playing it that way, Love is too stressful, Friends with benefits na im dey reign

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Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by ebamma(m): 7:55pm On Jun 22, 2015
blogexpert:
Most of the people on this thread are still on the giving side of karma. Karma is waiting and don't you worry, lives will be bleeped up at the appointed time when your seeds start to germinate. Nor be earth we dey?
what karma,?, karma doesn't work on everybody
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by ebamma(m): 7:56pm On Jun 22, 2015
donephi:
so what happens to morals?
one man's moral is another man's vice
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 7:57pm On Jun 22, 2015
MizMyColi:
For people with an amplified conscience and with something akin to a deeply ingrained christian religious upbringing, there's everything wrong with it.
Personally?
I think it's wrong.
Yes, I dropped religion, I've picked up and now do some things which I erstwhile considered wrong.
And I feel no sense of guilt.
(Did someone just say I've lost my soul?grin)
But guess what?
Religion aside, bible aside (I can't remember when last I read a bible)....maybe it's my strict christian upbringing at play here...
I actually have a very big issue with casual sex.
I find this comment interestingly questionable.
Even though I'll lik to know from what perception u re speaking from.

Do u know there is a culture in Nigeria that permits this way of life, as a matter of fact, if u do not indulge in it, u will be questioned.
Is seen as a xtics or a way of life for humans in that culture.
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jun 22, 2015
donephi:
Am presently listening to a discussion on radio.
Just want to sample people's opinion on this.

Is there anything wrong with either a girl or guy not been in any love relationship but have friends of the opposite sex and ones in a while they have sex.
This does not happen with a particular person.

What could be the consequence of this habit in the long run for this individual.


There is no consequence. I am a beneficiary of such honestly the only consequence is peace and rest of mind not worrying about the person.

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Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jun 22, 2015
blogexpert:
Most of the people on this thread are still on the giving side of karma. Karma is waiting and don't you worry, lives will be bleeped up at the appointed time when your seeds start to germinate. Nor be earth we dey?

Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 8:27pm On Jun 22, 2015
BUTCHCASSIDY:


There is no consequence. I am a beneficiary of such honestly the only consequence is peace and rest of mind not worrying about the person.
Hmm!
Have ever thought of what happen to your perception(mentality) at the long run as regards the opposite sex n honest relationship with them
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 8:29pm On Jun 22, 2015
ebamma:
what karma,?, karma doesn't work on everybody
Really! How sure are you about this?
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 8:31pm On Jun 22, 2015
ebamma:
That's the life man,
Many naija guys are now playing it that way,
Love is too stressful,
Friends with benefits na im dey reign
Stressful?
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by czarr(m): 8:35pm On Jun 22, 2015
......nothing wrong bro.
its all good,in fact its best cos there'll be no emotional feelings associated with heartbreak, just plain sex till you are ready to settle down!
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jun 22, 2015
Here to read comments wink

#TEAM SCENT
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 8:55pm On Jun 22, 2015
czarr:
......nothing wrong bro.
its all good,in fact its best cos there'll be no emotional feelings associated with heartbreak, just plain sex till you are ready to settle down!
Wow! Wld u like to settle down with some1 who lived her life this way?
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 8:57pm On Jun 22, 2015
adeh39:
Here to read comments wink


#TEAM SCENT
What's your perception
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by czarr(m): 8:58pm On Jun 22, 2015
donephi:

Wow! Wld u like to settle down with some1 who lived her life this way?
......NO
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by donephi(m): 9:01pm On Jun 22, 2015
shocked
czarr:
......NO
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jun 22, 2015
donephi:
What's your perception
I don't really know much about this issue, So I'm here to learn too...... cool

#TEAM SCENT
Re: Anything Wrong With This Way Of Life by ebamma(m): 9:04pm On Jun 22, 2015
donephi:
Really! How sure are you about this?
karma Is like the lottery , It only pays back the 1%

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