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For a girl child especially when your parents ask you if you are dating your first instinct tells you to deny deny deny! Black parents simply cannot accept that their daughter is dating. To them it is like telling them you are having unprotected sex with several men! It is almost as though they are being shamed in public and they have failed as parents. They act like back in the day the father never sat under a tree at the corner waiting for the mother to come out of the gate so they can walk each other to go buy bread at the furthest tuck-shop they could find just to be together for longer. It is a wonder I tell you that girls even get married considering how much of a top secret a girl dating is. If you stay at home especially dating is a mission, you learn to be sneaky and how to use time well just so you do not get caught. Obviously it does not always work out as with most things but that is how life is. I know tradition and culture tend to hold back openness between a girl child and her parents but at some point one has to point out how utterly ridiculous it is.
I would like to believe that if ever I have a child I will rather know where she s going, whom she is going with and when this person will bring my daughter back as opposed to being totally clueless about who is this person that makes my daughter smile so much.

Ladies, share the lies you told your parents when sneaking out for a date

Some parents will catch you b4 u plan am finish,

Spoil my charger.......then say I want to go and get a new charger

chai
mine is night shift
its either i tell my mum dat m on night shift or i ll tell her dat m goint to a frnd's house,
dat lie dey wrk wella for me

Thank God say i no dey sneak out

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I have a drama rehearsal.

Omotayor123:
Thank God say i no dey sneak out

Shebi you be Human so you can't lie now.