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My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated / Guy Shares Pics With Cousin & People Are Reacting With The Way He Is Holding Her / Is My Brother Lusting Over Me???? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Elvis506(m): 11:10am On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:Am sensing something fishy here...u guys play a lot but when it comes to sex he'll start dodging it....2me I think he's avoidin somthing, could be STD. 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by SmooshCHN: 11:12am On Jun 26, 2015 |
tearoses:Inasmuch as I can't go through all the comments, this is the best I've come across concerning "Marriage and Having a Home" If you wish to live happily as a woman who has a home, you should never listen to Single Ladies who thrive in Feminism who are bound to change when they are old eventually become desperate in seeking. Please do you best to work things out according to what this person as said. Transfer you begging to seeking permanent solution by spicing things up again. There is hope, there is Light and things can work out fine again I'm very sure 50% here are single and would think about freedom and might mislead you. Your home should be your 1st career after your job. Pray and keep applying wisdom and God will help you. I'm sure you will do. The best marriage always work towards solution at all times. And lastly Hell will let loose if you let loose if you do anything funny with that cousin. Start thinking on the long run what might happen. Don't be pleased with 5mins solution. Stay away from his cousin and quit communication with him. May God bless a precious Woman, Mother and Wife like you and your home to be Sweeter Than It Was. All the best. Don't start thinking of divorce. It only closes all hope to happiness. @biaka1994 |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 11:12am On Jun 26, 2015 |
cococandy:She didn't say she discussed it with his cousin did she? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 11:14am On Jun 26, 2015 |
My dear you started your relationship on the wrong platform. I would advice you to read my topic on romance section tittled what makes relationship stand the test of time. You wil discover that sex and money has noting to do with sustaining relationship only the driven force called love can. My dear i advice you to read it you can ask your questions iam willing to offer you free councelling service. 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by 9jauk: 11:14am On Jun 26, 2015 |
Inbox me ur address I've got d remedy...look_jhn@yahoo.co.uk Pls no 419 mails ,BIKO |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by vanguard07: 11:14am On Jun 26, 2015 |
My submissions are from experiences. The greatest gift in marriage(relationship) is unfettered communication. Talk to ur hubby like a friend, tell him about ur sexual needs. seek his opinion about what he thinks should be the sex calender per day/week/month. Both of u might need to adopt mutual sex routine. Several factors can affect the sexuality of a man ranging from stress at work, depression from unattained goals, nagging(note a normal lady talk can be a nag to a man), affairs, unfitness, boredom, dirtiness etc. All the needs of humans(sex, food etc) are liable to obssession, even sexual fantasies and affairs can become more pleasurable than marriage intimacies, the end is always destructive. You must stop everything that feeds ur lust. Your problem in a sentence is `intimacy gap`, I want more, he prefers less so why? When u know ur husbands sexual calender through talking explore it but don`t overdo it. Sometime a man might not be in the mood but u can set him in the mood by seductively dressing, fond talking with ur spouse is arousing in itself, learn to handle his joystick, encourage him to take a bath before sexual escapades, give room for missing each other...Sex(arguably) like sleep is not necesarily enjoyed by how long or how many times but by the satisfaction thats comes from it. Work at attaining orgasm in ur love making. But ultimately three things will help u, God by prayers, ur husband by talking openingly/cooperating, and/or a counsellor by counsels. I feel ur pain dear. Stay hopeful. Best 2 Likes |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Revolva(m): 11:27am On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994: Women r just entity for damage...banging....imagine i am sure this woman is a sex freak....haba u wan kill ur husband...sex everyday na wa oo..go be a xx star na.....now na him cousin u wan bang......shame on u, u r a a nymphomania i beg |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by click2stan(m): 11:28am On Jun 26, 2015 |
compare yourself then when he was making love with and now that he is avoiding you and try to see if there's any difference. women have a tendency to get blown up during pregnancy and after child birth. should in case you fall under this category try as much to work out. Do lots of exercise and go on diet... try as much as possible to stay fit, look good and sexy. I bet you he will come asking for it. Try as much as possible to stay away from his cousin before it ruins your home. Always pray because nothing is impossible before God. May God help you |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by alex1612: 11:28am On Jun 26, 2015 |
There is secret he is living with that he may find difficult to disclose to you. I am so sure he loves you so much and he is trying to protect you and your interest, but doing it in a negative way. Be more close with him, always make yourself happy and take your mind off sex when with him. He will notice your good modes and trying to find out what is your secret of happiness that will win him back to you and continue to plead for it and don't ever rush at it his offer again. So that can last and he will keep adoring you for the rest of his life. God will see you through Sis. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by nkemdi89(f): 11:28am On Jun 26, 2015 |
fellis:The LCM of the whole issue is for her to take sex out of her mind and work towards making herself a better woman, getting busy and being a little selfish will work cos the man gets irritated when you reminds him of his mistake also she is not going to do it in order to please her spouse but to make herself happy and also to build her self esteem or worth. 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by dondo83(m): 11:29am On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:many reasons trigger a man from not wanting sex from his wife, only the married people will understand. i will list a few 1. Do you nag? 2. Are you a reasonable wife that supports the husband financially ? 3. Do you carry out your responsibilities at home (cook clean , take good care of your baby) 4. what is your relationship with his family ? is it cordial? unless a man is possessed if you do all this including keeping yourself sexy for him. you wont have any problem . unlike women that speaks from their tongue when angry , a man tries to reduce collateral damage and as such keeps things in his mind. After a while it turns to hate or resentment and that can kill the sex life. retrace yourself and pray . Things can get better again |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Swaggzkid: 11:31am On Jun 26, 2015 |
Maybe Your husband doesn't want more kids.. Iguess 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by jonbat(m): 11:32am On Jun 26, 2015 |
get a |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by zeyney(f): 11:34am On Jun 26, 2015 |
Since U Noticed Dat U Hv Started Having Lustful Feelings Towards His Cousin Den Limit Ur Relation Wit Him Nd Set Boundaries B4 U Commit Adultery Nd Start Regretting |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 11:35am On Jun 26, 2015 |
My dear go ahead and kiss the guy. U won't b the first nd the last. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by nkemdi89(f): 11:37am On Jun 26, 2015 |
blesoh:A married woman should be modest about her dressing, put on a sexy attire all the can turn off your man. He wants to see the woman in you and not the girl. A man that has dissected your body what do you think your sexy wears will do to him. Instead you start looking trashy in his eyes. 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by donkross1(m): 11:37am On Jun 26, 2015 |
It's simple. Just make him jealous. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by HRich(m): 11:37am On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:The other woman said the husband demands for too much of sex from her. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 11:38am On Jun 26, 2015 |
ArchEnemy:....that almighty line, again Do you think she hasn't done it even if she never wrote it? Op, please...everybody doesn't do/feel silly as you connoted in your post. Thank you. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by blakky97(m): 11:39am On Jun 26, 2015 |
nairalandprince:GNLD A L E R T! |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by 9jauk: 11:41am On Jun 26, 2015 |
Bridgetown: Terrible,misleading, distasteful, unacceptable...fornication. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by postmann: 11:42am On Jun 26, 2015 |
You better stay away from your husband's cousin or else you want to bring curses on yourself. Outside of your husband's cousin, adultery is not an option for you. so try and get your husband talking to know what his problem is. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by blakky97(m): 11:43am On Jun 26, 2015 |
nkemdi89:Abeg watin dis ppikin dey yarn? Take sex OFF her mind just like that! Is she a tree? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by sniper77(m): 11:43am On Jun 26, 2015 |
Aye fe lowo si oro re. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by MartialArt2(m): 11:45am On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:From what I observed from ur statement, as a cognitive psychologist, I sensed that he does that to protect u from contacting any of the STDs, which he must have contacted elsewhere. So advice u better be very careful. Before any intimacy, Do not miss to do lab test with him. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by EbonyCy(f): 11:49am On Jun 26, 2015 |
lilmax:HAHAHA.....LMAO....RED PANT INDEED...LOL |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by kinibigdeal(m): 11:55am On Jun 26, 2015 |
You know my candid advice, consult your pastor. Friends or relations will only add to the problem cuz the person you are refering to might be facing similar problem but masking a perfume under a casket. Another critical points is that some ladies after giving birth, they CHOSE to start looking old, dressing awkwardly, no care about their physical look again because they are nurturing a child. Please change that perspective if applicable to you, your giving birth doesn't mean you won't be attractive any longer. Omotola ve'got 4 kids and NL dudes are still after her digit(just kidding). Points Try to start dressing the way you were before he was attracted to you. Try to keep fit, protect your physical look and dress attractive. I can bet you, that will naturally attracts or call his attention to you. Beauty don't fade in marriage, marriage only fade in beauty. I aint judging though but some ladies chose to look old after giving birth, to take care of their hair is even a national assembly debate. Follow the law's of attraction and everything will be fine again. As for your husband cousin abeg ASAP try to avoid fleshy lost because it can ruin your young marriage. Control your flesh before your flesh controls you |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by blesoh(f): 11:55am On Jun 26, 2015 |
nkemdi89:meaning i cant be sexy @ home? My husband likes it dat way @ home,blv me i ve been in ds situation b4,i search till i got d answer. 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by KOLZY(m): 11:57am On Jun 26, 2015 |
tssaah |
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