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My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated / Guy Shares Pics With Cousin & People Are Reacting With The Way He Is Holding Her / Is My Brother Lusting Over Me???? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Hmmm....marriage pkalava...so even men can also deny their wives sex too I used to think its a woman thing? I see the reason the bible is against sex b4 marriage Anyways, my advice 1) Don't ask him for sex any more 2) If he comes asking tell him u don't feel like or "do some yanga 1st" 3) Get urself busy, a busy mind won't have to always think of making love 4) Make sure u look neat, well shaved around ur pulpit region and make use of roll-on n some perfumes 5)Get some sexy night gowns and reduce d use of wrappers during bed or while @ home with him these habit irritate we men some times. 6) Treat him well like ur husband and love him more. Sex is not the reason u got married its just a compliment. 7) And stay away from his cousin, we humans tend to develop affections towards ppl we r continuously close to and relate with. Try get same sex as frnd rather than d opposite. When ever he cones to make love to u u guys should have it d way u ve never had it b4...set aside all ur taboos on bed with him...do all d crazy styles u ve neva imagine. Note: take dis a culture and not a way to seduce him else he will find out and keep losing interest Most importantly try find out if ur husband is not seeing someone else outside of ur marriage because I see no reason for the sudden change or total withdrawal from his own wife. Possibly a single lady is giving him the way he has never had it b4. Ur problem could b a sign he's having an extra marital afire. So dear keep watch and pray. 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by MrPresident1: 1:24pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
sukkot: When you get married, you get married to a human being, warts and all. To make the profound decision to get married to someone, to want to share a lifetime with a special person, is to accept the person with all apparent or inherent faults. We all will change physically, so only a fickle minded human being will start avoiding a spouse because he or she begins to show the inevitable signs of aging (or the permanent or transient changes that pregnanc(ies) will bring). At this point is where a marriage becomes more of a companionship and less of a sexual union, the wine getting better with age. Marriage is beyond the physical looks so if one has chosen well, when you have yanshed yourself to 'stuporous' satisfaction, you then begin to appreciate the finer details of your companion, details especially of the mind. To have sex every single second of a young marriage is not wrong, and for a woman to play hard to get for a man who has paid her bride price is the height of foolishness. Except she is ill or otherwise indisposed, the first few months of a marriage or a relationship for that matter is a period of wild sex. sex everywhere everytime, until the calming down to the real business of matrimony. They are no longer twain but one, your elvis presley example is a bad example to cite. 3 Likes |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by solotutu(m): 1:24pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Eeyah seriously some men need to stop giving their spouses reason to hate their newly born babies. Yeah. The poster above me reduced my typing time |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Udstar(m): 1:26pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
ezechima132: Sir please if this will be d excuse u are gonna give to God in d day of judgment for divorcing ur wife then prepare to burn in hell. PLEASE SIR DON'T DIVORCE UR WIFE, PRAY DAT D FIRST LOVE DAT MADE U TO MARRY HER SHOULD COME BACK. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
sukkot: Lol. If you had not included the bolded, I would have thought someone hacked your account. Nice advice BTW 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Bluetooth2: All pricks are the same;big or small. How the man is hitting it is what makes the difference. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by spencekat(m): 1:34pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
fem29:which one is rampant rabbit? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Luukasz(m): 1:36pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:You want to destroy your home because of Sex,come on dont let sex & lust demolish yur Marriage. As for your baby,is he/she your only child??..if he/she is yur only child,are you interested in giving birth again?? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by tochez24(m): 1:37pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
ma..check urslf,u hv stop doin d tins dat used to attract him.it cld b ur hair,nairs,odour,sexy cloths u knw sumtin u used 2do before!!!! meanwhile u stil got to talk wit ur hubby,wait for his happy moment den u cn raise d topic.finally beta stay away from his cousin if u stil want ur home' gudluck |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by ezenik: 1:37pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
God bless you my sister,am a marriage man,and all this happening to almost all men. Let me tell you what you will to trip your husband. Wear sexing,hot pant,half bra,if possible use a nice perfume anytime is around,think of any of his keypoint,try to change all those old exing style,shave your pubic and repackage yourself. Is a man he will back to you. Please don't lust after your cousin that might worsting the whole thing. And praying. All will be well with you in Jesus name. Amen |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Gurgle(f): 1:39pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
ezechima132: GOSH why don't you ask her to do some exercises, or raise money for her to undergo a surgical procedure to tighten it wowu |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by GoodJ: 1:46pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Remove yout thought from sex. Take up whatever that makes you happy like Psalms, Bible study, or any other extra curricular activity. Going for your husband's cousin would ruin your marriage at last. Who will you blame? fem29: |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by MrPresident1: 1:47pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994: You know your husband, you are a woman, you are the closest person to him. I believe you know what the problem is, you cannot tell us otherwise. You don't need to bring the issue here, tackle it headlong, as your mother for help, or look for an older mother figure that you can confide in who can advise you on what to do. What pleases men is small small things, we are not so difficult to control once you find the appropriate point of entry (the so-called weak point). 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by shozillo(m): 1:52pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Zi: lol,if truly u are studying abroad I.e assuming it's Europe or USA..... then its a shame ow u fink!!!! 1.Using age to determine the #Rush into marriage not her level of preparedness..A 20 year old woman for that matter! 2.Telling her in d next 10-20 yrs her husband may not like having sex with he due to a wide vagina means u lack knowledge on vagina tightening exercises and routine.... Cheers! |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by victorazy(m): 1:56pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994: So women like fvck too? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Joavid: How did you know ? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by apolonius(m): 1:59pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
The months of doing it 'every minute' were great,just constructively bear this season of sexual famine.Be sure that the 'every minute' bang is not sustainable;yet he is obliged to keep you pleasure-full.Yes,talk to him about how bad you feel about him dodging this marital duty,and ask him if there are things you BOTH can do to make your sex life richer and more active. I must say though that it is very bad to even conceive romance in all its shades with his cousin.Infidelity should never be a thought in a marriage.If you ever see the need to cheat on him,just quit the marriage first. Goodluck! |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Leshyne(m): 2:05pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
donholy28: An oracle in our mist |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by malachee: 2:07pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:he is seeing someone else out there dat is giving him what he wants probably a small girl. Start watching sex films make urself a pro. And run away from his cousin 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Skills10: 2:11pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Marriage is not a bed of roses. It's full of ups and downs. But you have to be patient and strike such evil thoughts off mind. Communicate more with your husband. bloggingforrealcash.com |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Elvis506(m): 2:19pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Revolva:Nairaland supposed screen some people well...who be dis mad fellow? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by stonecoldcafe: 2:19pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
fem29: Will you tell a man sex is not food too? I don't like the double standards we have - honestly. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by DonaldGenes(m): 2:21pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Joavid: Hmmmmmph |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by zeusdgrt(m): 2:23pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:well if U do f***k outside or f***k d cousin den U are d guilty one cz den U ll be chased out n disgraced as well as nt taken care of!stay der find i like it real.Agbaya! |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by olumidazz: 2:30pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Bingo |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by zeusdgrt(m): 2:33pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Joavid:oghenebikor! Inairalandi.see d way gurl dey call prick and f**k for mouth like say na MTN recharge card she dey price! Joavid vwakobirooooooooo |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by ezechima132(m): 2:37pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Udstar: who is talking of divorce here am not dicorcing anybody. Am making them two, how many wives had abraam ,isaac, jacob etc |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by uch21(f): 2:48pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
fem29: fem29: My dear, my mantra is don't let anything anyone does stake away my joy. I TRY to live my life by this motto God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, The courage to change the things I can, And the wisdom to know the difference. Hun sex is not food. Fact is you can live without it. Also try to lose weight and stop begging him. prob if he sees you looking all sexy and you are no longer begging him for sex, he may come round. Develop an air of mystique. I also suggest you get a rampant rabbit for times when you are really turned on. Sometimes we need to stop expecting our spouse to make us happy when they have shown they cannot and find our happiness outside of them. Empower yourself. fem29:u are jus on point,,, aunty make yourself happy |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Elgaxton(m): 2:55pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994: Hi, please love your husband's cousin, kiss him, sex him up but ooops! Your husband will catch him and kill him, so who next to lust after? Please sit down and talk things with your hubby jor, its possible you there's a reason he isn't giving you sex. Start with your hygiene and other related matters. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Edumolokwu(m): 3:03pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
lofty900:seconded. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by blesoh(f): 3:04pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
nkemdi89:so ur 'dressing sexy' means we do not use our senses or wat,nd hw can u do dat wen smone else is around,wether u contribute or not its our right to look beautiful for him,can he tk care of d house chores? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Yea Luukasz: |
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