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| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by cardinalmundez(m): 4:42am On Jun 28, 2015 |
andromida: That was the first thing I noted asides not being wanted to be pointed in the right direction. Mr man here is doing wrong to not only himself but his wife and children but doing more harm to himself. Are you still sleeping with other women asides Nina, or Nina is the sweetest of them all. Having more than one sexual partner after marry makes you compare styles, compare satisfaction, which is alot of psychological damage for you. Karma awaits if your mind does break first. |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by craleonic: 5:02am On Jun 28, 2015 |
OP don't listen to all the people saying you shouldn't leave your wife, please do. Because she deserves a better man than you. It might hurt her now, but in future she'll thank you. 6 Likes |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Ewuro4: 5:06am On Jun 28, 2015 |
mysweetnina: I'm positive that sex was hot with your wife before kids and busy career veered into your respective lives. You're mean and heartless. Have you lost your mind  1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by AminuRano87(m): 5:09am On Jun 28, 2015 |
just marry her as second wife. Polygamy is allowed in Nigeria ;Djust marry her as second wife. Polygamy is allowed in Nigeria 1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by tete7000(m): 5:11am On Jun 28, 2015 |
When kids get married, you read poo like this. 2 Likes |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by blakky97(m): 5:14am On Jun 28, 2015 |
MrsChima:im not igbo. I thought you are an Igbo muslim. theyre rare. |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by hhaa: 5:32am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Well done Mr lover man,by the time you realise what you are holding now is a mere stone;someone else has gone far with the precious diamond you've abandoned.Not an advice "think twice" Don't abandon your 'family' for a 'sex mate'. |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by yimkalove(m): 5:41am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Why do so my people just lie to dem self, bros we human are not perfect n d perfect one is d creator n for u not to or being forgive ur sin pls if u love d woman as u said, talk to ur wife about it n let her see reason u want to take second wife dan commit a adultery like other |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by littlemistress: 5:49am On Jun 28, 2015 |
I really pity your kids in all of this.. if u cant leave ur mistress, marry her & face the challenges of having to satisfy two women.. only then you'll realise the grass ain't greener on the other side. Is your 'sweet mistress' ready to be a second wife? or you want to divorce ur legal wife & marry her instead?? ..smh 1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by lawallawal86(m): 5:50am On Jun 28, 2015 |
When is it a crime to marry to two or more wife in nigeria, am verry suprise to read most comment er against polygamous marriage me am not in support of that, guy I will advice you to stop the intimate thing, having sex with someone you er not married with is one of the unforven sin try and desist from it. If your wife is not making you happy try and resolve it by informing her family to er new behaviour, that can set the whole familly apart. You no women er found of money becareful when ever u er deling with issue like that. If you no you definately love that you collegue of yours kindly do the right thing, stop that illegal intimacy and abortion. Go and see er parents, don't mind those who says she will destroy ur life or kill u, geeting married to more than two wifes will never be an illegal act all are western idiology 1 Like
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| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by oismail(m): 5:52am On Jun 28, 2015 |
I just wish both ladies are Nairalanders |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by ministerblessed: 6:05am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Believe me wen I say its d sex dts making u happy. Just try and stay off d sex for two months with her,get to know her and see of u truly love her as u claim........ |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 6:10am On Jun 28, 2015 |
You enjoy sex better with your girlfriend than with your wife abi? When we say test drive before you marry, you guys no dey listen. A beg, go back to your wife and deal with your fuk up! |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by xammy(m): 6:13am On Jun 28, 2015 |
I believe ur wife is cheating on you that's why she's not creating time. If theirs anyway you can confirm pls do. That's the excuse you need 1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 6:15am On Jun 28, 2015 |
vivypretty: So on point, none could've said it any better. 1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by deebrain(m): 6:18am On Jun 28, 2015 |
If there were no kids in the picture, i maybe would have been nice... But sir, you really need the mercy of God... You have already decided on your stance with the other woman, why are you calling for advice? Let gobe happen first, then you will want to hear. You are still stubborn for now. Mumu. |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by kingsleyarisa(m): 6:21am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Mark my words dude,the day you leave ur wife is that day you will loose your job. And by then you will learn the tru colour of ur so called office love. Be guided 1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by moshould(m): 6:27am On Jun 28, 2015 |
( In Fela's voice ) Palava u dey find, palava u go get oooooooo, |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by levos2007(m): 6:37am On Jun 28, 2015 |
It's your life ,no one should tell you how to live your life.Your life first and everything follows. Just be 100% sure that's what you want to do. Do you love her or lusting after her? I won't say you should leave your wife,but you need to find a way of managing it. I was once in that situation you . Don't get carried away with the sex. I know that sex outside marriage can be sweeter;but your wife is your wife. quote author=mysweetnina post=35217949]Nairalanders, I need mature and real people opinion here. I am a banker, 32, married with two kids, boy and girl. My wife works with a MDA in abuja while I work out from Nassarawa. I rented a 2 bedroom flat for them in Lugbe, abuja while i visit every weekend. I love her and love the kids however I notice we dont agree on a lot of things, mostly financial matters. she prefer i spend all on her and her kids and whenevr i am broke, she will gladly lend me cash. I dont ve ish with that and i ve been enjoying it for years now. I cheat on her but i dont see it as cheating but rather caring for my emotional needs. I have talked her into coming to stay in lafia with me before but i noticed she is very comfortable with her job and i dont want to be the reason for career truncation/ dissatisfaction in her life. i decide to live my life in my own way; strategically sleeping with other ladies as need be. recently, i asked my colleague out. a lady banker, same level. for 3 months now, we have been hot and i can no longer touch or tolerate my wife. my colleague recently took in for me but we took care of it. i am scared as she is madly in love with me and she is available. I am also madly in love with her. i am choosing her over my wife right now. how can I solve this. Guys I love her, dont tell me to leave her. we enjoy sex together in a way I dont with my wife. Just give your honest opinion to help those that may find themselves in my place someday. Thank u.[/quote] |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by pbs4real(m): 6:42am On Jun 28, 2015 |
vivypretty:smart one. 1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by pbs4real(m): 6:46am On Jun 28, 2015 |
enoqueen:lyk ciriously?  |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by solid3(m): 6:48am On Jun 28, 2015 |
mysweetnina: Hey man, I feel ur pains. But ur case is like that of a man who sets out on a journey to lagos from Abuja but when he got to Abaji, he took a left turn into Nasarawa instead of maintaining straight to Kogi. Soon as he finds himself on the way to Sokoto, I noticed something was wrong, he decided to ask the people around, but he told them that first they should not advice him to turn back cos he won't. My broda, will that man get to lagos on that way after 19days? It may be hard, but u can talk with ur wife. Your family needs the man and woman for the good upkeep of ur children if u want them to be great in life. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Obynolee(f): 6:49am On Jun 28, 2015 |
mysweetnina: I don't think you need help since you have made up your mind not to leave her,continue with you adulterious life |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by danla44(m): 6:52am On Jun 28, 2015 |
My brother. Pls marry her as your second wife. Its better to go for polygamy than adultery. If America can legalise Gay Marriage when God says "NO"! Why not polygamy since the Bible did now frown at it. (Lamech Genesis 4:19) Am a Muslim and I have one wife, my intention is to go for second wife soon. 1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by fairygeh(f): 6:53am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Some people like wasting their time sha,advising someone who has already told you guys that no one should tell him to leave the new bae alone Apparently, he can't even think of leaving the new bae na so leave him he go soon clear from his eye. 2 Likes |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by 9jatatafo(m): 6:57am On Jun 28, 2015 |
I don't support cheating but as young man that you are, why bleep skin to skin when know you are married with kids? Use condom. Also flee from that banker chick of yours and bear the konji with your wife. 2 Likes |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by otokx(m): 6:58am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Failure of the family system in Nigeria needs to be corrected. Why will a married woman refuse to stay in the same town as the husband? Career is not every thing, now children are involved. |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Gen2jaynee: 6:59am On Jun 28, 2015 |
The lady banker is a witch... She go say she no knw say d guy na married Man?.. May God give her a Man dat will bring other women onto her Home before her very eyes! 1 Like |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 7:01am On Jun 28, 2015 |
unphilaz: Thnx |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 7:06am On Jun 28, 2015 |
Atk1nson: Wait......Ashewo and virgin get difference oooo...Bt u sis Jane and Janet both disvirgined oga no difference oooo...and d op didn't say his wife punina is a well....   |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sweatlana: 7:08am On Jun 28, 2015 |
For the plethora of comments you can see that the people have spoken and the voice of the people is the voice of GOD! Your problem is that you don't own up to your mistakes First u convinced your self that cheating is not wrong Now you are trying to convince yourself that abandoning your family for another woman is also not wrong  You need to start thinking with your head not ur dick! |
| Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by stepo707: 7:09am On Jun 28, 2015 |
I don't tink its about the sex alone.he and his wife are not one.Guess the wife is not helping out financially which is bad.For me I can't marry a stingy girl.We have so many now who don't like supporting their husband financially.Its so so wrong |
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