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yes! he might be serious this time around. it isn't easy to forget someone you love and care for. the memories will still be there and I am sure he has searched around but couldn't find someone like you. we guys are like that

if I tell you how many time I do break up with my gf eh!, you go open mouth but the love is still there .

agarawu23:
yes! he might be serious this time around. it isn't easy to forget someone you love and care for. the memories will still be there and I am sure he has searched around but couldn't find someone like you. we guys are like that

if I tell you how many time I do break up with my gf eh!, you go open mouth but the love is still there .

So true...

He only enjoys hitting that G spot. You love him, fine. But why the series of break ups?

Perhaps you may still need to verify if he truly had an interactive section with his mum, if so, you and his mum also need to talk.

Dude most likely just wants to have an 'interactive session' with op's vagina.... that's what players call "refreshing the dicck memory", which involves dudes sweet-talking their way into their ex's vagina, and disappearing immediately thereafter, to possibly reappear again with another bogus tale at a future date leading to another fucck-and-disappear scene, repeating this process until the girl either gets some sense or he finally gets tired of her vagina

My advice..

Nothing makes a girl totally prone to emotional disaster as accepting back an ex who broke up with her for no just cause .. This gives the dude the impression that as far as she is concerned, He can get away with almost anything and still have unrestricted access to her heart and wet puna .... In this situation, whether op loves him or not is irrelevant... For the sake of avoiding future heartbreak and regrets, op should move on with her life and not 'give the children's meat to the dogs' .... He walked away from her while they were dating,so what assurance is there that he won't walk away from their marriage, most likely leaving her with kids to cater for and a mother's slack and depreciated body that no correct guy will want for keeps?

Summary. ... KEEP A THOUSAND MILES BETWEEN YOU AND THAT DUDE.... HE IS A GHASTLY ACCIDENT WAITING TO HAPPEN

MuhdG:

So true...

yes boss

xdream:
He only enjoys hitting that G spot. You love him, fine. But why the series of break ups?

Perhaps you may still need to verify if he truly had an interactive section with his mum, if so, you and his mum also need to talk.

He has anger issues, so any small fight or misunderstanding, the next thing is to break up.

If u still love him den do yourself a favor and accept him back

ok

Don't make urself like a doormat tat whenever he wants a break up & come back ul juz keep accepting him coz of "u love him"..
Besides u said u juz finished ur university, why not try to focus on finding a job and build ur empire while ur still young? Men will juz come & go buh if u have a better job it will make u stand out from d rest goodluck

What if he's only coming back because he Can't score another chick and he believes you'll always still accept him because of what you've shared together









I did it too

Am not sure if I have the right advise for u, but one thing am sure about is he will always end up coming to you, after 4yrs lady he must hav seen smtin he couldn't find smwhere else

Sapphire06:
He has anger issues, so any small fight or misunderstanding, the next thing is to break up.

Anger is a terrible spirit ..bind the demon behind that anger ...Pray for him always and you too pray for divine direction to make right choices ...Marital choices are crucial to destiny fulfillment

agarawu23:
yes! he might be serious this time around. it isn't easy to forget someone you love and care for. the memories will still be there and I am sure he has searched around but couldn't find someone like you. we guys are like that
if I tell you how many time I do break up with my gf eh!, you go open mouth but the love is still there .

This is your answer.

Follow the poster above me advice, He can even go for anger management class.

I was in similar situation sometimes back, what you guys really need to do is review somethings especially his anger problems and all other things that can be setbacks. Relationships are not devoid of problems but they make us better if we understand our partner. Also, ask questions where you are in doubt especially what transpired during the breakup.

Slimzjoe:
What if he's only coming back because he Can't score another chick and he believes you'll always still accept him because of what you've shared together









I did it too

Lol. We've all done it.....but, you know, there's always that one chick. The one every other girl pales in comparison to..

There is actually nothing to review. Forward ever.

Slimzjoe:
What if he's only coming back because he Can't score another chick and he believes you'll always still accept him because of what you've shared together









I did it too

wow. at least youre honest.

so did you leave after you got what you wanted

Sapphire06:
He has anger issues, so any small fight or misunderstanding, the next thing is to break up.

That's a turn off for me, I hate being threatened or blackmailed in a relationship. If you threaten me with break up after any small fight I will definitely be the first to break up with the person.

donholy28:
If u still love him den do yourself a favor and accept him back

Love is not always enough. How are we sure the guy genuinely wants to come back her.


Op just take your time.

ok wait, lets pray abt it

Sapphire06:
Hello nairalanders, I've been around for a while but this is my first topic here. My bf of over 4years broke up with me April though we just graduated recently from the same university. His reasons being we can't end up together in the long run, there will be distance between us during service year, he is a man and has to hustle and he's not ready to plan his future with anybody so our relationship is just limited to school. He started calling this month and day before yesterday he said he had an interactive session with his mom. He wants us to sit down and review things, he misses me and wants me back. I can't deny the fact that I still love and want him but I'm scared and worried that he will find an excuse and leave again. Though we had series of breakups during the relationship and he kept coming back. Females in the house that might have been in my shoe before, would it be wise of me to accept him back ?. Males in the house, is he being serious and sincere ?. Please Advice generally, I don't wanna make a mistake.

You unlocked that chain to soon, didn't you?

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Enegod, you expertise is needed right here.

softysparky:

Love is not always enough. How are we sure the guy genuinely wants to come back her.


Op just take your time.

Ma hommie prolly missed something.

Rebounds

Accept him back,try meet his mum n let her know your fears.If she assures you of no problem, then use your brain n play the game along

Davivah:
Accept him back,try meet his mum n let her know your fears.If she assures you of no problem, then use your brain n play the game along

Alright...Thanks.

softysparky:

Love is not always enough. How are we sure the guy genuinely wants to come back her.


Op just take your time.

I will..Thanks

Accept him joor,stop forming as if you don't want him back.
True love stays,no matter what.
I break up with fiance on weekly basis.

Yomieluv:
Accept him joor,stop forming as if you don't want him back.

True love stays,no matter what.

I break up with fiance on weekly basis.

Lol...If so,what kinda person are you??

in a nutshell, use ur head sista......to avoid story that...

Truckpusher:
Ma hommie prolly missed something.

Gbam! He entered town and realised nothing is free.

@op i'd really advice u Nt 2 go bk 2 him....u said it urself d@ he has anger issues....sooner or later he'll turn u 2 a punching bag nd definitely w@ broke u guys up would definitely break u up again....buh if u truly love him nd u r ready 2 endure jus give it time....