In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me - Islam (8)

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Aminat508(f): 5:14pm On Jun 30, 2015

fellis:

This post made me laugh.
Aminat dey vex no be small.

mum

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by donholy28(m): 5:27pm On Jun 30, 2015

fellis:
Its even good. If he says he is going to get it elsewhere I go tell am make he dey go so that I can have breathing space.
Let the other woman carry his wahala on her head.

I pray for it to happen to u...then u will have a rethink

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by carinmom(f): 5:28pm On Jun 30, 2015

efilefun:
your first statement was uncalled for... Ramadan kareem

Sorry, wanted to say never knew u are such a scholar. Apologies pls.

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by maestroz: 5:29pm On Jun 30, 2015

ogahlouiskid18:
My wife and I fast during the whole
Ramadan, but at night, she doesn't want to
sleep with me. She doesn't even want to
touch me, and this makes me feel very
restless. Please advice.

dig a hole in the middle of the bed for this period

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by efilefun(m): 5:37pm On Jun 30, 2015

its aiight, may Almighty Allah accept our fasting and dua as an act of ibadah

carinmom:
Sorry, wanted to say never knew u are such a scholar. Apologies pls.

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by ademoladeji(m): 5:49pm On Jun 30, 2015

loomer:
How man go do na, na una footsteps I dey follow

My footsteps ke?
Make I juz kukuma dey looku you.

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Laashman(m): 6:27pm On Jun 30, 2015

My i believe it is not a sin to make love to your wife during ramadan especially in the night when you break your fast. But I'll like to understand with your since she is a wife to you, she is always there for you. Please just allow her, respect her wish may be she vowed to do that during this ramadan for a reason. Or she is into a special prayers and she decided to do it this way Tthank you

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Gurgle(f): 6:33pm On Jun 30, 2015

Aminat508:
mum

derailing but can I just ask:

what's with the "t"/"tu" on Arabic/Islamic names used in Africa?

I usually just hear "Aisha", Rukaya", Tahir

when I got here it became aishatu. rukayat, attahiru?

it literally took me around 3 weeks to decipher what "attahiru" was supposed to mean. I thought it was just some random ethnic Hausa name...

shed some light on this please? is it to do with grammar or vowel harmony or something?

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by loomer: 6:44pm On Jun 30, 2015

ademoladeji:
My footsteps ke?

Make I juz kukuma dey looku you.

Looku ke, show me road jare

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Gurgle(f): 7:23pm On Jun 30, 2015

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by hamzeiy: 7:54pm On Jun 30, 2015

fellis:
Abeg gerrout from here with your nonsense blackmail.
Is 30 days of abstinence too much to ask from the man?

.....
hmmm...i am forced to blive ure not a muslim...cuz if u are ..u wud knw its nt a blackmail bt a fact...this is nt to say the husband shouldnt be considerate

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jun 30, 2015

donholy28:
I pray for it to happen to u...then u will have a rethink

Whatever.
The other woman can carry his wahala on her head.

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by spiralwedge(m): 8:53pm On Jun 30, 2015

Shaadey:
If she doesn't want to sleep with you; sleep with her

If she doesn't want to touch you; touch her

If those ones no work; report her or get a second wife

chai... see comment. amma make u my 2nd wife then.

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by malkudi: 9:52pm On Jun 30, 2015

If she's worked all evening preparing Iftar for you, I'd imagine she'd be tired for any intimate activity at night. Sex needs a lot of energy, so allow her some space at this stressful period.

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by akeenalee(m): 9:59pm On Jun 30, 2015

ogahlouiskid18:
My wife and I fast during the whole
Ramadan, but at night, she doesn't want to
sleep with me. She doesn't even want to
touch me, and this makes me feel very
restless. Please advice.

Brother. It due to her understanding. Get hadith nd fiqihu that explains it allowed after breaking fast nd obly for your wife u married nd paid her dowry complete. Not a arrangy wedding. May Allah guide us aright.

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by onelife97: 6:43am On Jul 01, 2015*

donholy28:
Tell her ur going out to get it elsewhere... and she will r*pe u

This is the known best way to teach a woman that believe she can use sex as a weapon against a man.

My wife has bn starving me of sex after she delivered our 1st child abt 5yrs ago.In fact she wouldn't want to SLP with me at all.But ever since I was caught redhanded abt my affair with other lady,na she dey pursue me now with unending sex begging me every time not to leave her.Calling me every hour of the day asking abt me how many day is going and all.

My lesson,don't give any woman to lord over you abt when and where not to have sex.A woman should bear it in mind that she is getting married to a man and every duty inclusive.

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by larrymoore(m): 12:04pm On Jul 01, 2015

PAGAN9JA:
Its allowed. muhammad that prophet dude said that your wives are permissible to you after breaking fast.

I thought u are a pagan, Where is ur shrine?

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Ssthorm(f): 12:56pm On Jul 03, 2016

onelife97:
This is the known best way to teach a woman that believe she can use sex as a weapon against a man.

My wife has bn starving me of sex after she delivered our 1st child abt 5yrs ago.In fact she wouldn't want to SLP with me at all.But ever since I was caught redhanded abt my affair with other lady,na she dey pursue me now with unending sex begging me every time not to leave her.Calling me every hour of the day asking abt me how many day is going and all.

My lesson,don't give any woman to lord over you abt when and where not to have sex.A woman should bear it in mind that she is getting married to a man and every duty inclusive.

Salaam...to d best of my knwledge, it is tru that it is nt amongst d wife's obligation in islam to cook or do housechores generally.. It is only seen as ihsan(good deed out of d will of ha hrt) n in d sight of Allah if she dusnt do dem,ders no sin upon ha. Bt among ha obligations is to ansa ha husbnds cal.. So frankly,if she saves energy sparn housework,she shud ansa n if she has to work he shud b considerate

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Ghaphosure10: 4:49am On Apr 25, 2020

Aminat you are so funny

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Ghaphosure10: 4:50am On Apr 25, 2020

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Ghaphosure10:
Aminat you are so funny

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Ghaphosure10: 4:56am On Apr 25, 2020

maestroz:
dig a hole in the middle of the bed for this period

Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Ghaphosure10: 4:58am On Apr 25, 2020

My Bro just make a patience for a while during the Ramadan period

Ghaphosure10:

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