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How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Nobody: 10:08am On Jun 12, 2015 |
PRAISE BE TO ALLAAH. One of the fitnahs (temptations) with which we are tested is the fitnah of women, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I have not left behind me any fitnah (temptation) more harmful to men than women.” There follow some of the methods by which we can avoid this temptation. We ask Allaah to set the affairs of the Muslims straight. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Nobody: 10:09am On Jun 12, 2015 |
1. Lowering the Gaze and Avoiding looking at haraam things The gaze can generate bad thoughts in the heart, which then lead to ideas and then to desires, then to will and resolve, and then inevitably to doing haraam things. Think about the meaning of this verse which makes a connection between the first steps towards haraam and the end result. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts). That is purer for them. Verily, Allaah is All-Aware of what they do” [al-Noor 24:30] 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Nobody: 10:11am On Jun 12, 2015 |
2. Warding off evil thoughts Bad thoughts pose a danger to the heart… If a person dwells on them and does not push them away, they will develop into an idea, then into will and resolve, then this will inevitably lead to haraam actions. Beware of dwelling on passing thoughts; rather what you must do is to ward them off and crowd them out with good thoughts. The treatment, then, is to ward off these passing thoughts and keep yourself busy with beneficial thoughts. 7 Likes |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Nobody: 10:12am On Jun 12, 2015 |
3. Keeping away from bad companions. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A man will follow the way of his close friends, so let each one of you look at who he takes as a close friend.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 8433; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood, 4046. 6 Likes |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Nobody: 11:35am On Jun 12, 2015 |
4. Keeping away from places of
temptation. It is obvious that we are living in a society that is filled with temptation – media of all types, magazines, flirting in the marketplaces, satellite TV, the internet, etc… So you have to flee from all of these in order to keep your religious commitment sound. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Nobody: 11:36am On Jun 12, 2015 |
5. Trying to make the most of your time
in worshipping and obeying Allaah. Time is one of the great blessings that Allaah has bestowed upon His slaves, but there are many who are not making the most of it. It was narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Two blessings which many people do not make the most of: good health and spare time.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6412. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Nobody: 11:38am On Jun 12, 2015 |
6. Faith in Allaah. Faith in Allaah and fear of Allaah provide a safety valve and protect a person against committing haraam actions and following his own whims and desires. If the believer becomes aware that Allaah is always watching and if he ponders the meanings of His names and attributes, such as the All-Knowing, the All-Hearing, the All-Seeing, the Watchful, the Reckoner, the Preserver, the All- Encompassing, that will generate fear of Him in secret and in public, and will put a stop to disobedience towards Allaah, and will reduce the strength of desire that leads many people to commit haraam actions. 8 Likes |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Nobody: 11:41am On Jun 12, 2015 |
May ALLAH accept our forthcoming Ramadan fast Amin. Salamalaekum. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by LAfricana(m): 11:53am On Jun 12, 2015 |
Just get busy, find a dream and pursue it... And there's nothing like sexual temptation, you are drawn by your own lust . The more you carry sexual sin in ur head like dada, the more you fall, and if u already did just move on my one kobo 7 Likes |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by lakecyd(m): 11:56am On Jun 12, 2015 |
May Allah accept all our prayers, nice post 5 Likes |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by aminho(m): 11:56am On Jun 12, 2015 |
in sha ALLAH |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by cutemorgan(m): 11:57am On Jun 12, 2015 |
Ameen thuma Ameen...Wa a'laykumu sallam warahmatullah wabarakatuhu 1 Like |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by olanov78(m): 11:58am On Jun 12, 2015 |
Amin. Wa alaykum salam warahmatullah |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Yapati: 12:00pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
May Allah see us true |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by omokoladele(m): 12:05pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
True Talk LAfricana: |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by PassingShot(m): 12:06pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
usqoh:Unfortunately we all think we have limitless amount of time and good health thus we more often than not waste plenty of both on frivolous things. May Allaah save us. Jazaka Allaah Khaeran. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by dantata4real: 12:08pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Jazakumullahu Bil Khairan! 1 Like |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Comanche(f): 12:19pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Jazakallahu khayran.may Allah accept all our prayers and grant us all our heart desires.Amin. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Abduletudaye(m): 12:25pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Nice one OP....May Allah reward you accordingly. Amin. Please when exactly is fasting starting?? |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by advocate007(m): 1:31pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Quite a beautiful reminder op. Temptations are all over the place. Just like you said, with faith in Allah, fear of Allah sets in for the better. May Allah In His infinite mercies forgive us of our sins and continue to guide us unto the straight path.... Ameen 1 Like |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Omotayor123(f): 1:53pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
usqoh:Aamiin... Wa alaykum Salam! |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Bimpe29: 3:21pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Ameena Yaa Allah. May Allah guide us aright, forgive us and shower His mercies on us always. It is indeed a strong and harmful temptation. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Jimwalex(m): 5:21pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
...and we should also endeavour to read the Quran frequently..it works in controlling temptation like magic..may almighty Allah make it easy for us 1 Like |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Yasirarafat: 8:20pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Morewaaa tinss gonna have trips of la'ada this month #inshaAllah |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by tetraman(m): 9:35pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Jazakallahu khayran. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Toeyean1507(f): 8:51pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Assalam aleikum waramotullah wabarakatu my question to the house goes thus................can a man have fun with his wife after iftaar? |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by onizsure: 11:03pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Toeyean1507: Wa alaikum salam warahmatullah wa barakatuh. Yes, a man can have as much fun as he likes with his wife after iftaar and just before sauhur during Ramadan. The month of Ramadan does not stop couples from enjoying themselves sexually as long as u did not break the fast because u want to have sexual intimacy with ur wife. In fact many couples are usually blessed with the fruits of the womb during the month of Ramadan. Ma salam |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Temptation In Ramadan by Toeyean1507(f): 11:42pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
onizsure:Alhamdulillah Jazakallah khairan |
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