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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Toks2008(m): 7:12pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Very weak and insecure... Many are dating whores_ and planning to wife them.

You can't blame such guys because they have lost hope in getting a chaste lady.

I am a man and without trying to blow my trumpet a dude at that but when i look back at my life even as a man i have managed to live a very decent sexual life. At 20 i had a sexless affair for 6 years and from age 26 till last two years i have been with just one lady so will it be out of place if i seek for a sexually decent lady?

Trust me friend,about 2years now that i have been trying to hook up i have come to realize that 98% of our ladies are worse than dogs and most have lost count of the number of men that have tasted thier goodybag and that makes me even respect my ex more who i hapen to make a woman.

These days, i alweays advice guys to just close their eyes and pick a lady not minding the men that have slept with them. I met a lady not quite long and a single mother at that. She wil always tell me that she does not have time for men and i was like good but after she realized that i was not into her,we became friends and then she started teelling me some stuffs and i was like wat da fck! all the while she was saying "i have no time for men" she was actually with a man who was bl**ping her regularly and i was like gosh!

Please if you are a man reading this abeg just close your eyes and pick one of these whores so that you can marry and have a child.And if you are a lady reeading this who is still a virgin please don't believe your friends who say it is out of fashion because it is not.

Real men still long to have a virgin but we have decided to settle for less because it seems they are nowhere to be found.FACT

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Spidermon: 7:15pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toto no get meter. If you really love her, bone. If your mind dey shake, send her number give me.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by sparkleRed(f): 7:16pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Fück off biitch... You couldn't make a single point.... Birds of a feather.
pained modafucka, lol think he got cheated on buhahaha
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by wearerelated: 7:16pm On Jun 30, 2015
What led to ds: You've gotten deeply into each other, and then u went MIA for 7months.

likelihood she ll do it again: high?

Probability u will hate her when it happens: Higher

Possibility of reducing the likelihood of a repeat: Talk, and reach an agreement (Aburi accord)

Advice: Give ur relationship some more watering and take a decision. Maybe go for a year away from her, but keep in touch o!

Finally: Let God be involved in your relationship, he always has d best idea.

All d best.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jun 30, 2015
Insidous:


She ia right. It was just sex.tongue


SO NOW IF I BE YOUR BODYFRIEND ( NA ONLY WHEN I DON MAD FINISH BEFORE I GO FIT BE YOUR BODY FRIEND ) I COME CHEAT ON YOU angry

YOU GO OPEN THAT YOUR MOUTH SAY "IT WAS JUST SEX ABI undecided

YOU GO EVEN KILL ME, I KNOW YOUR TYPE
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 7:24pm On Jun 30, 2015
Toks2008:


You can't blame such guys because they have lost hope in getting a chaste lady.

I am a man and without trying to blow my trumpet a dude at that but when i look back at my life even as a man i have managed to live a very decent sexual life. At 20 i had a sexless affair for 6 years and from age 26 till last two years i have been with just one lady so will it be out of place if i seek for a sexually decent lady?

Trust me friend,about 2years now that i have been trying to hook up i have come to realize that 98% of our ladies are worse than dogs and most have lost count of the number of men that have tasted thier goodybag and that makes me even respect my ex more who i hapen to make a woman.

These days, i alweays advice guys to just close their eyes and pick a lady not minding the men that have slept with them. I met a lady not quite long and a single mother at that. She wil always tell me that she does not have time for men and i was like good but after she realized that i was not into her,we became friends and then she started teelling me some stuffs and i was like wat da fck! all the while she was saying "i have no time for men" she was actually with a man who was bl**ping her regularly and i was like gosh!

Please if you are a man reading this abeg just close your eyes and pick one of these whores so that you can marry and have a child.And if you are a lady reeading this who is still a virgin please don't believe your friends who say it is out of fashion because it is not.

Real men still long to have a virgin but we have decided to settle for less because it seems they are nowhere to be found.FACT
Bro you really made a big point... I gave you a Like When still reading your comment at half, you really make sense and I hope guys can reason what you just posted here.

I am a guy of 25, but hasn't done it with a lady now, no homo and am not gay, but will indulge in it soon with my girl.

If men can keep their selves, what happened to a girl to go and have sex with another man in just seven, that's really shows how insecure she really is... The ladies here comments are really irritating, birds of of a feathers.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jun 30, 2015
Insidous:


Aproko angry Yes, I am shytongue


MY MOONLIGHT, DON'T BE SHY, YOU HAVE HIDE THAT BEAUTY FOR SO LONG, WHICH IS NOT GOOD HEALTH WISE,

GO AND PUT IT BACKangry
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by kalufelix(m): 7:25pm On Jun 30, 2015
Atlantian:
Its not the last time she will sleep with someone, and its not the last time you will sleep with someone. These things happen in marriages a lot but people simply refuse to talk about it. Marriage is human invention to claim ownership of women. Nature didnt invent marriage. Humans did. And anything created by humans, arent perfect, so is marriage. How many times do married women and even people's fiancee play karma sultra on my bed ? Uncountable!

words of a free thinker i guess...
Op s just giving himself high bp
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by carzola(m): 7:25pm On Jun 30, 2015
mzpetite:
smiley
i could keep you smiling thats for sure
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by ogaibe1(m): 7:26pm On Jun 30, 2015
lol some people self and there write up.

kilode100:
I no dey for her mind biko.

Forgive and wife her jare.. It's one of those things.

Or,
Can you swear you didn't yansh another babe for that seven months??
Some women can't stay that long without serious hammering, so she relieves her herself, what is the harm?

Some people sef.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by JayJustus(m): 7:27pm On Jun 30, 2015
love wins my brother...ask Mugabe and Obama or obasanjo and oshiomole
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 7:27pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:

pained modafucka, lol think he got cheated on buhahaha
Who got cheated on? I don't date biitches like you.

Was just trying to deliver you from your stupidity!

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by steppin: 7:27pm On Jun 30, 2015
TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.
Even though she said the truth, it might be out of guilt.
Truth told with a bad intent is worse than any lie you can invent.
I won't be surprised if she cheated on you several times, but she had to say once, cos it'd be easier to forgive her if she cheated once.
If you still love her and can get over it(I doubt if it'll ever happen), then go ahead and marry her.
But if you can't, just let her go.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Youngpo413: 7:28pm On Jun 30, 2015
Erukumakanaki:
my candid advice - Don't go ahead with the Marriage plans if u know u cant live with that feeling of not trusting her angry
GBAM
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by sparkleRed(f): 7:29pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Who got cheated on? I don't date biitches like you.

Was just trying to deliver you from your stupidity!

cry me a river fickle fool tongue

he's so aggrieved lol, sorry smallie lol
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by lucky032(m): 7:29pm On Jun 30, 2015
TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.

A biitch is a biitch

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Youngpo413: 7:30pm On Jun 30, 2015
kilode100:
I no dey for her mind biko.

Forgive and wife her jare.. It's one of those things.

Or,
Can you swear you didn't yansh another babe for that seven months??
Some women can't stay that long without serious hammering, so she relieves her herself, what is the harm?

Some people sef.
the reason why every sane man should marry a virgin.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 7:32pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:

cry me a river fickle fool tongue
he's so aggrieved lol, sorry smallie lol
Must you chat with me idiot_?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by gbagyiza: 7:32pm On Jun 30, 2015
Atlantian:
Its not the last time she will sleep with someone, and its not the last time you will sleep with someone. These things happen in marriages a lot but people simply refuse to talk about it. Marriage is human invention to claim ownership of women. Nature didnt invent marriage. Humans did. And anything created by humans, arent perfect, so is marriage. How many times do married women and even people's fiancee play karma sultra on my bed ? Uncountable!

d truth be tuld,if u hv slept with someone's wife, u better seek 4 deliverance in other 2 be free frm curse cos such curse will limit ur progress n make u live in bondage.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by kalufelix(m): 7:34pm On Jun 30, 2015
you no chop one toto and you no wan share toto...na amadioha go judge you...

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by lucky032(m): 7:34pm On Jun 30, 2015
kilode100:
I no dey for her mind biko.

Forgive and wife her jare.. It's one of those things.

Or,
Can you swear you didn't yansh another babe for that seven months??
Some women can't stay that long without serious hammering, so she relieves her herself, what is the harm?

Some people sef.

how long can you endure not having sex?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Youngpo413: 7:35pm On Jun 30, 2015
andromida:
Heart breaking. I would lose trust for my partner too except we were broken or something. So what will you do with this information?
he should fucccck her to his satisfaction and then dump her,no one wants to marry a b!tch.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by sparkleRed(f): 7:35pm On Jun 30, 2015
MrBasketball:
Must you chat with me idiot_?

lOl eyah smallie u just cant resist replying buheeheh take a chill pill dude, its a faceless forum nitwit wink
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by YEM101: 7:36pm On Jun 30, 2015
So what So u haven't slept with someone else ever since ur relationship wt her?
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by kalufelix(m): 7:36pm On Jun 30, 2015
lucky032:

A biitch is a biitch
some niggas fail to comprehend...
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Youngpo413: 7:37pm On Jun 30, 2015
kendrick9:
senseless post.
don't mind the b!tches,all of them are always cheating on their partners,I pity the foolish guys who will take any naija lady serious.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by Gurgle(f): 7:38pm On Jun 30, 2015
Honestly I want to advise this guy but for once in my life I don't have words to say

Just booking space...smh

may Konji never affect me this badly...Amen...

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by lucky032(m): 7:38pm On Jun 30, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Guys self,it nt like u didn"t sleep with anoda gurl during those months. See beyond her flaws and let go. But if u knw u cn"t forget it, just end the affair becos u may neva trust her again. What is love without trust!

can you cheat on some1 you love
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by mzpetite(f): 7:39pm On Jun 30, 2015
carzola:
i could keep you smiling thats for sure
hmmmmmmmmmm cool
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by PLEXPLEX(m): 7:41pm On Jun 30, 2015
Atlantian:
Its not the last time she will sleep with someone, and its not the last time you will sleep with someone. These things happen in marriages a lot but people simply refuse to talk about it. Marriage is human invention to claim ownership of women. Nature didnt invent marriage. Humans did. And anything created by humans, arent perfect, so is marriage. How many times do married women and even people's fiancee play karma sultra on my bed ? Uncountable!

God instituted marriage not man...Well, unless u r not a Christian but if u re one n still believe man created marriage i shall advice u read some more of the Bible.
Thanx
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by lucky032(m): 7:41pm On Jun 30, 2015
Bigcake:
Although I can't tolerate cheating either from the man or the woman.... I advice you to do what your mind tells you. But on the other side, if you know you love her so well and can handle that distrust with ease then you can go ahead. You can't have a hundred percent perfect lady... have in mind that over a thousand people are also seeing her and are heads over hill to sleep with her. women generally loves patronage not minding the consequences. this doesn't mean she is not in love with you. if you break up now you both will regret. Take things easy and explore better avenues in building trust once again in her. Don't fail to invite me to the wedding proper.

Bullshit
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man. by MrBasketball: 7:43pm On Jun 30, 2015
sparkleRed:


[S] lOl eyah smallie u just cant resist replying buheeheh take a chill pill dude, its a faceless forum nitwit wink [/s]
Seems to you like a joke, if i insult you, you won't like yourself... You are now free to go ride a donkey dick_ that's what you are good at.

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