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Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by simdam500(m): 10:23am On Oct 09, 2012
It is not easy to maintain a long distance relationship. But if you have one, you must take care to keep it alive, for over a long period of time, a long distance relationship might not work. How would you know if your long distance online relationship is fading? There are certain signs you should look out for. The major

1. You communicate less
You have begun to communicate lesser and lesser. You do not find talking to him amazing anymore and the magic has reduced. Also, you do not look forward to talking to him again sooner. The initial excitement has faded and you now are looking towards moving on. It is a sign that the relationship is now fading.

2. He takes time to reply to your messages
You have sent him a message but he is taking ages to reply. If it is once in a while, the reason could be genuine. But if it becomes habitual, remember that he does not consider you crucial in his life anymore and it is a sure sign that your long distance relationship is now fading. You may also find that you do not want to be connected to him round the clock any longer.

3. He cannot find time for you readily anymore
Earlier, he was readily available to talk to you over the phone or have a video chat when you wanted. But it now seems that he is finding it more and more difficult to find time for you. The reason could be genuine, but if he really loves you, he will definitely find a way to be able to talk to you. But if it seems that he is putting no effort to be available for you, it could be a sign of a fading relationship.



4. He is acting aloof
If his behavior has become cold recently and he seems to be acting more like a stranger, it could be a sign that he is seeing someone else. If he is acting aloof, you might consider rethinking the relationship as it could be on the verge of breaking up.

5. Neither of you is ready to compromise
In case of a long distance relationship, it is essential that both visit each other sometimes. But if you have discovered that for the last few days, he does not find time to be able to visit and you and/or you do not want to spend a nice holiday or weekend to go and visit him, it is a sign that the relationship is not working anymore.

6. He talks to you only when he is alone
If you find that your long distance boyfriend talks to you only when he is alone, he could be hiding you from his friends and family and the reason behind it could be that he is no longer considering you as his future life partner. It is a sure sign that the relationship is fading.


http://www.magforwomen.com/6-signs-your-long-distance-relationship-is-fading/

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by gunners160(m): 10:34am On Oct 09, 2012
thanks man i love ur post.Ur points are well noted

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by Abujafood: 12:30pm On Oct 09, 2012
7. He picks up fights with you easily and more often than before.... Means he's becoming bored and irritated with you

8. Doesn't pick or returns your calls and gives only frivolous reasons for behaving that way ...... Same as above but in addition is not totally sure of what to do (leave or stay)

9. Doesn't play heartily like before ....... (you are less appealing to him now than ever before)

More to come as I recall!

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by dahdah: 12:32pm On Oct 09, 2012
He talks to you only when he is alone
If you find that your long distance boyfriend talks to you only when he is alone, he could be hiding you from his friends and family and the reason behind it could be that he is no longer considering you as his future life partner. It is a sure sign that the relationship is fading.



NICE POINT

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by seedord247(m): 12:32pm On Oct 09, 2012
why would you be in a long distance relationship in the first place?

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by adicious(m): 12:35pm On Oct 09, 2012
I've neva loved someone staying close, man of God pls pray for me....

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by nikkyshyne(f): 12:41pm On Oct 09, 2012
Nairaland frontpage likes distance relationships. tongue

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by bid4rich(m): 12:42pm On Oct 09, 2012
It depends on the person and how you meet each other. Im in a distance relationship and it has been so so so good. We talk at least 20, 30 minutes everyday at a stretch. Thank God for trust and mutual understanding anyway. Thats the way to go

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by tomakint: 12:48pm On Oct 09, 2012
simdam500: It is not easy to maintain a long distance relationship. But if you have one, you must take care to keep it alive, for over a long period of time, a long distance relationship might not work. How would you know if your long distance online relationship is fading? There are certain signs you should look out for. The major

1. You communicate less
You have begun to communicate lesser and lesser. You do not find talking to him amazing anymore and the magic has reduced. Also, you do not look forward to talking to him again sooner. The initial excitement has faded and you now are looking towards moving on. It is a sign that the relationship is now fading.

2. He takes time to reply to your messages
You have sent him a message but he is taking ages to reply. If it is once in a while, the reason could be genuine. But if it becomes habitual, remember that he does not consider you crucial in his life anymore and it is a sure sign that your long distance relationship is now fading. You may also find that you do not want to be connected to him round the clock any longer.

3. He cannot find time for you readily anymore
Earlier, he was readily available to talk to you over the phone or have a video chat when you wanted. But it now seems that he is finding it more and more difficult to find time for you. The reason could be genuine, but if he really loves you, he will definitely find a way to be able to talk to you. But if it seems that he is putting no effort to be available for you, it could be a sign of a fading relationship.



4. He is acting aloof
If his behavior has become cold recently and he seems to be acting more like a stranger, it could be a sign that he is seeing someone else. If he is acting aloof, you might consider rethinking the relationship as it could be on the verge of breaking up.

5. Neither of you is ready to compromise
In case of a long distance relationship, it is essential that both visit each other sometimes. But if you have discovered that for the last few days, he does not find time to be able to visit and you and/or you do not want to spend a nice holiday or weekend to go and visit him, it is a sign that the relationship is not working anymore.

6. He talks to you only when he is alone
If you find that your long distance boyfriend talks to you only when he is alone, he could be hiding you from his friends and family and the reason behind it could be that he is no longer considering you as his future life partner. It is a sure sign that the relationship is fading.


http://www.magforwomen.com/6-signs-your-long-distance-relationship-is-fading/

To the unmarried, it's not worth an adventure plunging into, most times it leads to heartaches, even if your partner is within your reach, he or she can still play games how much more when he or she is miles away, please to the unmarried here don't give it a try. To the married, of course, after she has given you issues you can still muster the courage to forgive in case of 'misbehaviour' while to the woman she can still forgive as well but my advise is; being closer is the best that can happen in any relationships. Although in this modern world of rat race for survival, you must learn to adapt! My point!!

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by Nobody: 12:52pm On Oct 09, 2012
Why "HE"? Why not "She"? Are you meaning to tell everyone that men are the only one who cause long distant relationships to fail?. Women are more likely to stray in long distant relationship. Reason is, their little brain can't seem to understand what is right from what is wrong. Like a thread that made up a front page one time "why do women bleep wherever they go?"

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by mrperfect(m): 12:55pm On Oct 09, 2012
Thank for sharing the number 1 is on point.

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by greatgod2012(f): 12:55pm On Oct 09, 2012
personally, i dont fancy or advise long distance relationship, its usually prone to distraction and less communication/commitment, except with d special grace of God and a lot of maturity/trust.
Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by packman: 12:58pm On Oct 09, 2012
[size=20pt]God Knows Dis thread was meant 4 me i have bin suffering in silence GOSH 4 once i feel grateful 2 niaraland [/size]

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by tope3x(m): 12:59pm On Oct 09, 2012
long distance relationship works for me, i have been dating my girl for 9 years, before i traveled out of the country 2 years ago,and i go home every 6 months to see her, and we still keep intouch always.even did my introduction last april, and wedding is coming up soon...so it depends on how you take the relationship, and mutual understanding is needed.

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by charloski(m): 1:00pm On Oct 09, 2012
it actually depends on both parties..... there is what is called "TRUST" if it exist between them den its is possible... but there should be some visitation sha.... but for me, i cant have a long distance ish sha smiley smiley smiley
Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 09, 2012
Distance relationship does'nt work, even if the two involved are ready to compromise.

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by ibrash600: 1:00pm On Oct 09, 2012
I hate distance relationship, it never work for me, i have tried it twice but same noni undecided

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by Bunchersstab(m): 1:05pm On Oct 09, 2012
Virtually every single lady in naija have a fiancé abroad...
Pls they use dis 2 justify their own.
Else wen dey turn 35yrs dey shud get ready 2 marry Jesus

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by bid4rich(m): 1:05pm On Oct 09, 2012
ibrash600: I hate distance relationship, it never work for me, i have tried it twice but same noni undecided

everything that work is being made to work, until you work it nothing will ever work. I worked mine and its working like fire. Check yourself and ask yourself sincere and articulate question, then you can know where you get it all wrong

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by tomakint: 1:06pm On Oct 09, 2012
tope3x: long distance relationship works for me, i have been dating my girl for 9 years, before i traveled out of the country 2 years ago,and i go home every 6 months to see her, and we still keep intouch always.even did my introduction last april, and wedding is coming up soon...so it depends on how you take the relationship, and mutual understanding is needed.

It's not worth giving testimony on my friend, you are just one of the 'lucky 10 in 10million cases,' the truth of the matter is that, 'long distance relationship' encourages suspicions, lack of trusts, jealousies and unnecessary questions and answers times. Pack all these together and jam them into a 'relationship' trust me such union will explode! My penny worth!

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by jalay(m): 1:09pm On Oct 09, 2012
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin thats what they wanted.. fadein and fadeout..
honestly speaking relationships get bored when the opposite is no longer attractive as "usual". you only have to sit down and talk on the issues limiting the relationship.. grin grin grin grin
simdam500: It is not easy to maintain a long distance relationship. But if you have one, you must take care to keep it alive, for over a long period of time, a long distance relationship might not work. How would you know if your long distance online relationship is fading? There are certain signs you should look out for. The major

1. You communicate less
You have begun to communicate lesser and lesser. You do not find talking to him amazing anymore and the magic has reduced. Also, you do not look forward to talking to him again sooner. The initial excitement has faded and you now are looking towards moving on. It is a sign that the relationship is now fading.

2. He takes time to reply to your messages
You have sent him a message but he is taking ages to reply. If it is once in a while, the reason could be genuine. But if it becomes habitual, remember that he does not consider you crucial in his life anymore and it is a sure sign that your long distance relationship is now fading. You may also find that you do not want to be connected to him round the clock any longer.

3. He cannot find time for you readily anymore
Earlier, he was readily available to talk to you over the phone or have a video chat when you wanted. But it now seems that he is finding it more and more difficult to find time for you. The reason could be genuine, but if he really loves you, he will definitely find a way to be able to talk to you. But if it seems that he is putting no effort to be available for you, it could be a sign of a fading relationship.



4. He is acting aloof
If his behavior has become cold recently and he seems to be acting more like a stranger, it could be a sign that he is seeing someone else. If he is acting aloof, you might consider rethinking the relationship as it could be on the verge of breaking up.

5. Neither of you is ready to compromise
In case of a long distance relationship, it is essential that both visit each other sometimes. But if you have discovered that for the last few days, he does not find time to be able to visit and you and/or you do not want to spend a nice holiday or weekend to go and visit him, it is a sign that the relationship is not working anymore.

6. He talks to you only when he is alone
If you find that your long distance boyfriend talks to you only when he is alone, he could be hiding you from his friends and family and the reason behind it could be that he is no longer considering you as his future life partner. It is a sure sign that the relationship is fading.


http://www.magforwomen.com/6-signs-your-long-distance-relationship-is-fading/
Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by tomakint: 1:11pm On Oct 09, 2012
bid4rich:

everything that work is being made to work, until you work it nothing will ever work. I worked mine and its working like fire. Check yourself and ask yourself sincere and articulate question, then you can know where you get it all wrong

Nobody is arguing its not 'working for you' just be sincere with yourself on this noble truth that, it only works in an infinitesimally ratio not meant for someone who 'really LOVE' his or her partner. Remember, broken hearts take time to heal and most cases never heals. Advice: Folks in the house, be careful! If you are playing games no wahala, but if its a serious relationship, just box that idea and get your partner 'closer'.

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by bid4rich(m): 1:17pm On Oct 09, 2012
tomakint:

Nobody is arguing its not 'working for you' just be sincere with yourself on this noble truth that, it only works in an infinitesimally ratio not meant for someone who 'really LOVE' his or her partner. Remember, broken hearts take time to heal and most cases never heals. Advice: Folks in the house, be careful! If you are playing games no wahala, but if its a serious relationship, just box that idea and get your partner 'closer'.

thats exactly what im talking about. Whether it work or not, it depends on how the lovers sees it and how committed they are to each other. If it turns other way, it still follow the same logic. Thats just it
Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by Yuzarsif(m): 1:20pm On Oct 09, 2012
Daz very gud nice post
Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by oloriebi2(m): 1:21pm On Oct 09, 2012
Either long or close distance relationship,its still all d same. D most important tin in a relationship is hw u both percieve each other,hw u feel towards each other.distance or no distance,d emotional arouseness @ each others tots n feeliling is wot keeps a relationship. Nt d regular physical presence bt d psycologica awarenes in each others cognitive. Thou we differ in nature,bnt we still hv 1 tin in common n dat is passion n emotion.bt d way we express n experience it differ.

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by obiyor2000: 1:22pm On Oct 09, 2012
tope3x: long distance relationship works for me, i have been dating my girl for 9 years, before i traveled out of the country 2 years ago,and i go home every 6 months to see her, and we still keep intouch always.even did my introduction last april, and wedding is coming up soon...so it depends on how you take the relationship, and mutual understanding is needed.
my brother jst tnk God 4 ur own, but u never can tell what has happend b/4 d introduction, i ve seen a lady who is 2 some 1 outside, but b/4 den many guys has crossed d red sea, so will u tell me dat d were not commicating then? I dont like d idea of distant relationship

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by tomakint: 1:29pm On Oct 09, 2012
obiyor2000: my brother jst tnk God 4 ur own, but u never can tell what has happend b/4 d introduction, i ve seen a lady who is 2 some 1 outside, but b/4 den many guys has crossed d red sea, so will u tell me dat d were not commicating then? I dont like d idea of distant relationship

Obiyor God Bless you 1 billion times, exactly my stance on this 'very sensitive and volatile issue'. I don't want the message "it's working for me" to be encouraged here! For the young ones here, who might be too naive to fall for the bait (trust me it's a bait) they may not forgive those preaching the message of 'its working for me'! The world lives on pretense, to those involved in distance relationship why not ask your distant partner some sensitive questions about how he or she is coping, then add 1+ 2 together, you will see it's not the best of relationship ways.

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by ayojango(m): 1:32pm On Oct 09, 2012
Why commit urself to someone you hardly see or run into @ will that's just punishment.
Communication,companionship and d persons presence enhances a relationship.

What makes yu think a partner won't b screwin smone else even while talkin to yu on phone

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by charloski(m): 1:33pm On Oct 09, 2012
grin grin grin Ah !! this is d kind of topic ladies like very well, but the fact is that we guys are the ones who get hurt the most in a distance relationship

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Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by uzoexcel(m): 1:33pm On Oct 09, 2012
seedord247: why would you be in a long distance relationship in the first place?
no difference between u and the 'mr how-does-this-affect-price-of-garri'....u both don't think b4 blabbn
Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by dabrake(m): 1:38pm On Oct 09, 2012
Judging based on my kind of person, i need not act #6 neither any of abujafood's .
Re: Signs That Your Long Distance Relationship Is Fading by blackmale(m): 1:45pm On Oct 09, 2012
@ op,, why re you directing the post on only ;MEN; women behave like that in a relationship as well...

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