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Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jul 01, 2015

Few months ago, a cousin of mine wanted to marry (a lady) and the guy was not financially buoyant, they asked me for help which I rendered but they needed more. A day to the wedding she called me on the phone that I should borrow them certain amount of money which I did. I persuaded a friend of mine to lend them money as well.... The person i persuaded to lend them money is now on my neck shouting my name here and there "that he lend them money because of me oo, that i should pay his money Asap" I even told him that they are yet to pay the money i borrowed them also.
To the guys here, Can you borrow money for your wedding?

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by jimohibrahim(m): 3:25pm On Jul 01, 2015

Hell yeah

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jul 01, 2015

Heck No! cut ur clothe according to ur size.

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by powerfulsettingz: 3:27pm On Jul 01, 2015

If the situation worth or warrant it, y not?

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by funlord(m): 3:28pm On Jul 01, 2015

And then after the wedding what next? Suffering and smiling? Quarrelling with your friends and family over debts? Dodging? My friend it is better to pay your way through life and avoid embarrassment!

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Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jul 01, 2015

whoever does that needs deliverance angry

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by moment5(m): 3:29pm On Jul 01, 2015

Hell No!!It's almost suicidal and may yield an unintelligible result...

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Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by ronald4lif(m): 3:30pm On Jul 01, 2015*

Emphatic no. If I can't fund my wedding myself I'd stay off marriage. Anyone who can sponsor his wedding is likely to face difficulties financing the family. It's a no.

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Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jul 01, 2015

powerfulsettingz:
If the situation worth or warrant it, y not?

And after the wedding, what's next? undecided

Guy, are you for real huh

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by loomer: 3:34pm On Jul 01, 2015

For why? Wetin do court marriage?

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by kliq(m): 3:35pm On Jul 01, 2015

If you can then you can as well borrow some more to raise the family

This Fela's song comes to mind:

"Mr. Husband marry for church,
He make big party,
Then he start to spray,
Because him love him wife,
Mrs wife come run away
Bank manager run come,
He say, “Mister, pay me your debt”
Wetin he dey find, for Lagos e-o
PALAVER, HE DEY FIND
Palaver, he go get-e o
PALAVER, HE GO GET
Palaver"

cheesy

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Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jul 01, 2015

jimohibrahim:
Hell yeah

I won't advice anyone to borrow for wedding, with the insult I av received. I don't care about my own money let them pay others

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Tallesty1(m): 3:38pm On Jul 01, 2015

Yea.....

From my wife...................

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by jimohibrahim(m): 3:46pm On Jul 01, 2015

Oyind17:
I won't advice anyone to borrow for wedding, with the insult I av received. I don't care about my own money let them pay others

I will borrow if I know that I'll be able to pay back at the speculated time

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jul 01, 2015

jimohibrahim:
I will borrow if I know that I'll be able to pay back at the speculated time

Hmmm....I won't support my man to borrow money for our wedding.

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by agarawu23(m): 3:51pm On Jul 01, 2015

ronald4lif:
Emphatic no. If I can fund my wedding myself I'd stay off marriage. Anyone who can sponsor his wedding is likely to face difficulties financing the family. It's a no.

abi o.
he lend money for his wedding, he will also lend money to feed the new wedded wife? some guys don't think.

powerfulsettingz:
If the situation worth or warrant it, y not?

are you the one that typed this or someone else? you need a rethink

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jul 01, 2015

hell no..

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by jimohibrahim(m): 3:55pm On Jul 01, 2015

Oyind17:
Hmmm....I won't support my man to borrow money for our wedding.

I didn't mean borrow money for the whole wedding..
I'm just saying I'll borrow to sort some things out...
If i don't have money for my wedding, then why the hell would i fix a date?

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Aminat508(f): 3:59pm On Jul 01, 2015

No I a can't.....

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jul 01, 2015

No need to rush if the money isn't there wait till you have it or plan according to your budget ( if that is possible when planning for a wedding). Why would I want to add to an already challenging married life by complicating it with worries over unpaid wedding debts.

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jul 01, 2015

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jul 01, 2015

Aminat508:
No I a can't.....

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Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Kazrem(m): 4:33pm On Jul 01, 2015

Aminat508:
No I a can't.....

You never wed ni ma

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Aminat508(f): 4:45pm On Jul 01, 2015

Kazrem:
You never wed ni ma

no sir

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Ask4bigneyo(m): 5:23pm On Jul 01, 2015*

Borrow money ke! Taaar!!!
I can only solicit for assistance and it is nt by force....F.O.C

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by ademoladeji(m): 5:26pm On Jul 01, 2015

I can never borrow 10kobo for a wedding... Over to the gods of the land!!!

Instead make I borrow wed, I go kukuma impregnate the babe come form sey I go reject am...

By then, the parents go dey beg me to dey carry the girl dey go FoC

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Ubyj(f): 5:36pm On Jul 01, 2015

ronald4lif:
Emphatic no. If I can fund my wedding myself I'd stay off marriage. Anyone who can sponsor his wedding is likely to face difficulties financing the family. It's a no.

can or can't undecided

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Nobody: 5:39pm On Jul 01, 2015

Starting marriage with debt not a good sign
But if u cant wait then i guess its ok . Y dont both of u try n save towards it
U can have a small wedding

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by ronald4lif(m): 5:46pm On Jul 01, 2015

Ubyj:
can or can't

I can't. If I can't sponsor my wedding I have no business marrying but that's just my opinion.

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Ubyj(f): 5:50pm On Jul 01, 2015

ronald4lif:
I can't. If I can't sponsor my wedding I have no business marrying but that's just my opinion.

ok. Maybe u shud edit ur first post. U were using 'can' instead of 'can't'

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by ronald4lif(m): 5:51pm On Jul 01, 2015

Ubyj:
ok. Maybe u shud edit ur first post. U were using 'can' instead of 'can't'

Oh I see. Must have been an oversight. Thanks.

Re: Can U Borrow Money For Your Wedding...... by Ubyj(f): 5:54pm On Jul 01, 2015

ronald4lif:
Oh I see. Must have been an oversight. Thanks.

u are welcm

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