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redgem:
I don't like him and don't communicate with him.

[color=navy]well, you do need evidence na[/color]

redgem:
Hmmm...I don't know if what she went for is very important to drag her back

Just tell her first or u wait till another time.

2goodbobo:
You owe your friend the duty of telling her the truth on this one. How will you feel if your
Man is playing away matches behind your back and your friend is aware and kept it away from you?

Les not encourage bad thing abeg. like play like play now the guy fit give her HIV (God forbid).

So, I should tell her and leave everything to her?

BUTCHCASSIDY:
I know you will tell her
The boy scout in you will see to it
Then when you do this is what will happen
1. She will cry
2. She will confront the guy
3. They will kiss kiss and make up ( most likely have a good fvck) after which she will tell him
You were the one that snitched, they will conclude you are a bad belle/enemy of progress
4. She will stop talking to you and they will always give you hateful stares

In spite of this Im sure you will still tell her

especially if the guy can Bleep well

redgem:
She told me it will save cost for the both of them...

Tell her before he gives her HIV. that is if you are sure she trust you.

keep to yourself

unless you're one of the girls ......then you can confess your sins to her.

Dheartless:
keep to yourself

unless you're one of the girls ......then you can confess your sins to her.

You are really heartless

redgem:
She told me it will save cost for the both of them...

Ok, but pls tell her, don't mind all those guys saying 'Wetin concern you' they are only saying that cause they are guys, if you turn the table and it's a guy asking this question, they will tell the guy to tell his friends

Finally, I've decided to tell her because, I wouldn't let same be done to me

redgem:
You are really heartless

sometimes you godda be,
so you don't end up being the loser
she should keep to herself before her friend calls her "bad belle"

I like the fact that I sound heartless by the way

thanks for the complement

IamOdin:
Bae,you're such a good cook!!.The way you cooked this story is quite impressive.Every ingredient is at it's right proportion or if not why will all these guys be enjoying the delicious lie...You'll surely make a good typical Nigerian journalist...Bravo to your concocted rubbish!!

It wasn't a cooked up story

redgem:
So, I should tell her and leave everything to her?

Yes tell her because you will be doing a great disservice to your friend if you don't tell her.
Make sure he's right in the house with the lady before you call your friend. also make sure
she does not announce her coming to her Boyfriend.

I think you should tell her but den, you can't tell her the dude is cheating on her because you don't have proof. Instead, why not find out if she knows he brings ladies to the house. At least, dat you know. And if she doesn't know, you tell her and tell her your suspicions too. Den let her catch him herself. Dats the best you can do buh tell her oo. Remember "SISTERS BEFORE MISTERS"

What happens in your neighbor's room; stays in your neighbor's room. It ain't your business, friend or not. If you get involved, and they finally settle; they'll mess you up.

redgem:
I don't like him and don't communicate with him.

. Ah, there's a problem. Because of your known dislike for him, you risk being accused of framing him up. The lady is in love. Let her find out herself. If you were friendly with him, your credibility would be better.

redgem:
I have a friend her boy friend stays with her and when ever she travels, her bf brings in different kinds of girls into her house. It has been going on for a year now and she has no clue. Recently, she travelled to her village and immediately she left, he brought in another female and its being 3days since she travelled and 3 different girls have been to her house. She loves her bf so much and I don't want to hurt her but, she's my friend and I feel what I'm doing is bad.
What should I do?
Should I tell her or just let her live in lies?

Most folks on Nl would want to insult me but na dem get their mouth...
Please, advice needed!!!

You love your friend so much and you should protect her all times . That's why you should let her know what's happening . It's better she hares you for telling her the truth than hating you if she find out herself that you've been hiding truth from her .... i have seen my friends gf twice with men and I told them . I don't give a flying fu*k what they choose to believe . All I kno is that I satisfied my conscience by speaking the truth. If my friend should see my gf somewhere and hide from me I will be pissed at him whenever I find out

I don't give a shitt

redgem:
I have a friend her boy friend stays with her and when ever she travels, her bf brings in different kinds of girls into her house. It has been going on for a year now and she has no clue. Recently, she travelled to her village and immediately she left, he brought in another female and its being 3days since she travelled and 3 different girls have been to her house. She loves her bf so much and I don't want to hurt her but, she's my friend and I feel what I'm doing is bad.
What should I do?
Should I tell her or just let her live in lies?

Most folks on Nl would want to insult me but na dem get their mouth...
Please, advice needed!!!

send an anonymous text warning her of what is happening but don't get directly involved

don't ask my why I say that except that women are very strange creatures

I understand you plea@op but I just got out of this kinda situation my advice to you is kind your business do not interfere cos @ the end trust me you will be tagged the enemy @justsayinfmymimd

joshuamoses101:
I understand you plea@op but I just got out of this kinda situation my advice to you is kind your business do not interfere cos @ the end trust me you will be tagged the enemy @justsayinfmymimd

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