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Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Nobody: 8:46am On Jul 07, 2015
ethene:
@ all something happened 2day so I want 2 hear 4rm my fellow nairalanders. Have u ever slept wit a guy or a girl u met on the first day? Let us be sincere(especially our ladies) it could hv happened by mistake also let us knw if u regretted it, u enjoyed it or u are still with the person(as in still dating the person). No insults pls
The bae i fucck on a first date fucck me pass the way my real gf dey do... I nearly die that day!
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by MostRanking(m): 9:07am On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:

grin mad man
Few re roamin grin
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Nobody: 9:09am On Jul 07, 2015
profojah:

The bae i fucck on a first date fucck me pass the way my real gf dey do... I nearly die that day!
Can u tel us more how she wan take kill u?
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Nobody: 9:35am On Jul 07, 2015
An Average guy who is into women must av done one or two sh1ts like dat. Honestly I did it with more than 6 gals I met during 2go era and wen Facebook newly came into the spot light in Nigeria and it's not something to be proud of cause it can ruin ur mentality about women in general.
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Handsome4real(m): 9:55am On Jul 07, 2015
grin grin lmao
profojah:

The bae i fucck on a first date fucck me pass the way my real gf they do... I nearly die that day!
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by skyfullofstars(f): 10:06am On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:


what! and where is that

In Latin America, I also have a Dutch friend that does the same, and she's from Europe... I've also been told that in France cheating while in marriage is normal, both for women and men. Some people would be surprised at your own culture...! That's how the world is.

As for my girlfriend, the one who has many partners, she's independent, and works to get her money, that's why she needs no sugar daddy, she only does it for the pleasure.
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by DJ2HOT(m): 10:25am On Jul 07, 2015
Well I don't know if it's my style or its just the ladies av met......90%of babe's am dated or bleeped are all on the first date......nd mostly I don't bleep them again till we breakup or go our separate ways if I don't bleep on the first date......let me know if I have someone like me out there!!!! ......it's either bleeping on the first day or never.....its been on like that since I know how to bleep
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Nobody: 10:29am On Jul 07, 2015
ahsekeena:
Haven't we all?
Never I.
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Gurgle(f): 11:09am On Jul 07, 2015
skyfullofstars:


In Latin America, I also have a Dutch friend that does the same, and she's from Europe... I've also been told that in France cheating while in marriage is normal, both for women and men. Some people would be surprised at your own culture...! That's how the world is.

As for my girlfriend, the one who has many partners, she's independent, and works to get her money, that's why she needs no sugar daddy, she only does it for the pleasure.

that's interesting

yeah I heard that in France its not a big deal if somebody cheats but I think the individuals involved can still feel bad about it even though its a cultural norm

but don't any of you feel bad?

and are you planning to marry a Nigerian? or are you a Nigerian living in Latin America

because that behavior doesn't go down well with us at all.

don't mind all our flexing and forming, we are actually one of the most conservative countries in Africa

not in a judgmental way, just asking
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by jerrymichaels(m): 11:18am On Jul 07, 2015
even if I was drunk, I wouldn't think of it

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Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Desric(m): 11:33am On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:
No

I dont think I would be able to live with myself if I did that

even if I really wanted to I dont think I could do it

not judging anybody who has though

but im sensitive to guilt and shame
My love it'll be an experience you'll never want to forget in s hurry trust me a trial will convince you and it might up been your dream man.
Disclaimer: I wish you're in phc.
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Gurgle(f): 11:40am On Jul 07, 2015
Desric:
My love it'll be an experience you'll never want to forget in s hurry trust me a trial will convince you and it might up been your dream man.
Disclaimer: I wish you're in phc.

the Bible said there are many wolves roaming around in sheep's clothing..smh brother whats the matter with you

why should you say such a thing

anyway they say PH guys like to outsmart people

this is my third such encounter with a guy from PH trying to mess me up

It will never work for any of you people, ive already sighted you all sad cool kiss
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Nobody: 11:49am On Jul 07, 2015
ikeepitreal:
Ibile I be warrior, pe emi el kanemi. Month gbona lowo bi maiduguri, nobody near me.
undecided is dis what op asked u? cheesy

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Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Nobody: 11:50am On Jul 07, 2015
profojah:

The bae i fucck on a first date fucck me pass the way my real gf dey do... I nearly die that day!
cheesy cheesy
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by 400billionman: 12:03pm On Jul 07, 2015
ethene:
@ all something happened 2day so I want 2 hear 4rm my fellow nairalanders. Have u ever slept wit a guy or a girl u met on the first day? Let us be sincere(especially our ladies) it could hv happened by mistake also let us knw if u regretted it, u enjoyed it or u are still with the person(as in still dating the person). No insults pls

Hahaha.

No response..
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by 400billionman: 12:05pm On Jul 07, 2015
skyfullofstars:
Yes I did, and I truly regret it, the man didn't care about me at all.

Care how ?
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jul 07, 2015
ethene:

Can u tel us more how she wan take kill u?
Bro.. I don't wanna remember that day again.. No gal has ever fucck me like the way she did, so tey na only one drop of _sperm dey comot from my body after 3rounds
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by skyfullofstars(f): 2:00pm On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:


that's interesting

yeah I heard that in France its not a big deal if somebody cheats but I think the individuals involved can still feel bad about it even though its a cultural norm

but don't any of you feel bad?

and are you planning to marry a Nigerian? or are you a Nigerian living in Latin America

because that behavior doesn't go down well with us at all.

don't mind all our flexing and forming, we are actually one of the most conservative countries in Africa

not in a judgmental way, just asking

I hate cheating,and I would never do it myself. I'm not Nigerian, but I have Nigerian friends.
I particularly think that marriage is sacred, but I know that Nigerian men keep lots of girlfiriends aside, so I don't understand what you mean by conservative...

My friends who sleep with many men are not married, they are still single.
In fact, my Dutch friends has gotten married a couple of years ago, and she's completely faithful. She was simply "having fun" while she was single
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by juddexy2(m): 2:28pm On Jul 07, 2015
sinaj:


sssshhhh!!! iz dat why u r shouting? u want evribdy to know
No naaa, am nor shouting, only reminding u of that awesome encounter,m too legit to quit dopin cool
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Gurgle(f): 2:31pm On Jul 07, 2015
skyfullofstars:


I hate cheating,and I would never do it myself. I'm not Nigerian, but I have Nigerian friends.
I particularly think that marriage is sacred, but I know that Nigerian men keep lots of girlfiriends aside, so I don't understand what you mean by conservative...

My friends who sleep with many men are not married, they are still single.
In fact, my Dutch friends has gotten married a couple of years ago, and she's completely faithful. She was simply "having fun" while she was single

Lol but you know the word "conservative" can only be used where women are concerned. Cant speak for the men's own

The girlfriends they keep on the side aren't serious because when they get married they will be upset when their own husband starts to take girlfriends. not like what youre saying in France where it would be normal and the woman wouldn't worry about it too much

by conservative I guess I partly mean "judgmental". Have you seen the sheer number of threads and posts about female virginity, promiscuity and other things?

A lot of the time women cant do anything right in our country.

We're too loose, we're too frigid, we nag, we're know-it-alls, we don't know enough, we don't allow our men to rest, we don't advise our men well enough, we're too timid, we're too argumentative, we're too accommodating, we're not accommodating enough, and blah blah blah
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Desric(m): 3:46pm On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:


the Bible said there are many wolves roaming around in sheep's clothing..smh brother whats the matter with you

why should you say such a thing

anyway they say PH guys like to outsmart people

this is my third such encounter with a guy from PH trying to mess me up

It will never work for any of you people, ive already sighted you all sad cool kiss
You can't generalize my dear, who knows it might work out after all and you'll see that no one is trying to outsmart you especially now that I've a special interest.
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by skyfullofstars(f): 5:05pm On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:


Lol but you know the word "conservative" can only be used where women are concerned. Cant speak for the men's own

The girlfriends they keep on the side aren't serious because when they get married they will be upset when their own husband starts to take girlfriends. not like what youre saying in France where it would be normal and the woman wouldn't worry about it too much

by conservative I guess I partly mean "judgmental". Have you seen the sheer number of threads and posts about female virginity, promiscuity and other things?

A lot of the time women cant do anything right in our country.

We're too loose, we're too frigid, we nag, we're know-it-alls, we don't know enough, we don't allow our men to rest, we don't advise our men well enough, we're too timid, we're too argumentative, we're too accommodating, we're not accommodating enough, and blah blah blah

Yes, I've read so. That's why when I answer in a thread, I always encourage women to be strong and independent. It should be mutual and equal, if the woman is to respect and be faithful to the man, then the man has to do the same. In order to make that happen, the women should open their mouths as in voice their opinion, and run away and divorce if something is going wrong. Men are not God, why should I give everything to my man when he's not giving it back? Only God is worth of such attention.

Here in my continent, even though women are much more independent and "respected" than in many African cultures, we still suffer from sexism, and everyday you can hear men criticize women's driving, saying that women don't know how to drive, etc. As if only men could drive... Does a (man's intimate part) make a human being superior, or more skilled to drive a car? Please... That's only one example i'm giving yo you, out of countless sexist comments I hear everyday both at home from my brothers and father, or on the streets from strangers. And I do not keep my mouth shut, I argue with those men that say such a thing, I am a woman and I have to defend my gender, myself. Perhaps those men when saying such comments expect me to remain silent, but I will never do so.

That's why, I always tell women to watch Chimamanda's Adichie talk on feminism in YouTube. I've been criticized by both men and women in Nairaland for saying that, I'm not praising women superiority, I'm asking for EQUALITY.
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by ikeepitreal(m): 6:29am On Jul 08, 2015
prettythicksme:
undecided is dis what op asked u? cheesy
Ehn na.
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Obidikejr(m): 3:58pm On Jul 29, 2016
skyfullofstars:


Yes, where I come from women are as free as men sexually talking. As much as men keep many girlfriends, girls also keep many partners. I personally don't like doing so, cause I would feel used, but I have some girlfriends that sleep with different men, only for pleasure, not money.
this is new, you are definately not nigerian
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by nuelzz04(m): 4:43pm On Jul 29, 2016
Lisaflex:
Nope...No be only "by mistake", na by motor accident... Sex never happens by mistake/accident,its either rape or u gave ur consent..Its irritating wen sm1's excuse for having sex is dt it happened by accident
it happens by accident sumtyms o....like wen a trailer falls on d guy n d guy falls on d lady n bros sumtin falls on sis sumtin


























#runs outta thread grin
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by songzDaniel01(m): 6:11pm On Jul 29, 2016
skyfullofstars:
Yes I did, and I truly regret it, the man didn't care about me at all.
tht man fuckd up.. ur a rare gem nd a star
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by captainking(m): 6:49pm On Jul 29, 2016
If I tell una my own ehh... Una go run...
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Lisaflex(f): 7:15pm On Jul 29, 2016
nuelzz04:
it happens by accident sumtyms o....like wen a trailer falls on d guy n d guy falls on d lady n bros sumtin falls on sis sumtin
#runs outta thread grin


shocked Speaking from experience?
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jul 29, 2016

Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by sinaj(f): 7:29pm On Jul 29, 2016
iLegend:
As a virgin I only came to read. Ask Sinaj.
am also a V[size=8pt][/size] Am also a vergin *rolls eyes*
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by nuelzz04(m): 8:25pm On Jul 29, 2016
Lisaflex:



shocked Speaking from experience?
yea


















A friend's experience grin
Re: Have U Ever Slept With A Guy Or A Girl U Met On The First Day? by vchykp(m): 8:53pm On Jul 29, 2016
lolx.. i have done this countless number of times,as at that time, i dey port pass Harry porter, all thanks to God and my bae who changed me from that worthless way of life.

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