₦airaland Forum

jmoore:
Wise girl.

Mumu boy.
Was sex part of the terms and conditions?
Did she force you to take her to Dubai? Foolish boy!!

PhockPhockMan:
My love, I didn't see you at the normal joint last night, you no come market?

krazydave:
Lmao....... that girl shaa...
free trip to dubai and your saying no to sex
was she expecting a prayer counselling and deliverance session from the guy?

Yimu

Vision4God:
D guy wil surely regret ds

xp17:
I'd careless if this was coming from a guy.

@ over estimated her pussy Lol! You mean You get laid by every guy that invites you over.

Taking her to Dubai ain't yardstick or free access to her Virginia, she also has to consent to the sexual act. The guy paid for the trip at his own will and wasn't forced at a gun point to do so. Even if the lady had agreed to have sex with him prior to the journey, but in that day she says no, that no automatically stand and it erases every other existing agreement. Sex should be consent to the last minute.

As for the guy, he was just too high speed. You don't plan vacation with some random lady you just met, it should be with someone you having something serious with and doing so should be for a reason.


BTW, na Allen avenue you dey do your own hustle

kenwizi:
If you ask me, na poverty they worry the guy, whats 500k to get a girl... e mate dey spend millions yet no show and they keep on trying..the dude aint smart but dumb..

creamyzone:
So many rib cracking comments here. Can't stop laughing. Okay let's analyse the scenario.

The guy met the girl and they became friends. They probably went out on some couple of dates in nigeria and he made his intention of known to her. Then he told her to accompany him on a trip to dubai and she didn't object.


1. The girl doesn't have a boyfriend and has been nice to the guy(in the past) for him to take her to dubai(out of all the numerous girls in naija).


2. The girl is idle doing nothing and if she is schooling or working, for her to have the confidence to follow a guy(you haven't had sex with before) that far, she should know its a romantic trip.


3. Every normal single girl in her right frame of mind that doesn't want sex should not even be in a relationship with any guy(not to talk of following him abroad).


4. For the guy, I think he over valued her because why go on a trip to dubai when there are lots of nice spots here in naija.


5. The guy is also cruel and heartless to abandon her just because she refused to have sex. Am sure he would have tried to force himself on her and out of anger left her behind.


In my single days I had chains of girl friends and I discovered that girls refuse sex for a personal reason. Some girls want to be sure if you really love them. Some have a programmed mindset that after 3, 4, 5, 6 months or so I will let him in. Some want marriage so they tend not to want to rush things. Some will cuddle, kiss, caress you constantly but won't allow sex because they want you to fall in love with them gradually. Some will tell you they don't like using condoms because its painful and also can't allow you raw because of stds and hiv(LOL). Some will tell you to take a HIV test first before sex. Some will say no to sex but give you "hand action" till you cum then you will calm down(and hoping for that lucky day).LOL. All manner of reasons different girls give to reject sex.


One of the reasons I married my wife is because she is not a sex freak, not stingy and also not materialistic so please stop blaming the girl rather blame the guy for taking a girl you don't have any intimacy with to dubai. in a nutshell and to cut the long story short. Men should learn to make their woman feel like a queen. Treat her nice, give her basic things, find out from her close friends what she really loves(her weaknesses), go on a group date so she will see how other partners behave, don't ask her for sex, do this constantly for 3weeks and you will see her give in to you naturally.


The attached picture is what happened after the girl told the guy no sex till we get back to naija. LWKMD. But seriously and jokes apart, real women don't remember the sex, what they can never forget are the special moments you shared together. EOD...

onila:
love that girl

team virgin

Vision4God:
D guy wil surely regret ds

Evathyst:
'Any man who thinks his foolish behaviour pleases a wise woman is definitely suffering from the greatest poverty of sense... ' Andreas cappelanus.


The quote above succinctly answers your foolish post. Quote me again and get struck by amadioha.

whether you believe me or not, 90% of sexual act in Nigeria and all over sub saharan regions are not consensual. It really pathetic for a guy to come on public media, bragging how he forced himself into a ladies and the most annoying part of it is when he gets praises for his inhumane action.

I wonder how many times you've said no and still ended up getting laid by that animal you call your boyfriend.
You problem is lack of exposure, all you do is wrapping your shapeless waist with a wrapper and gossiping from one house to the other.



Lest I forget, who's amadioha?

xp17:
whether you believe me or not, 90% of sexual act in Nigeria and all over sub saharan regions are not consensual. It really pathetic for a guy to come on public media, bragging how he forced himself into a ladies and the most annoying part of it is when he gets praises for his inhumane action.

I wonder how many times you've said no and still ended up getting laid by that animal you call your boyfriend.
You problem is lack of exposure, all you do is wrapping your shapeless waist with a wrapper and gossiping from one house to the other.



Less I forget, who's amadioha?

CSTR2:
That girl is very stupidd.
500K on a trip and no show. Is he father christmas?
Do you know how many correct pusssyys that can get you in Nigeria?
The guy is supposed to arrest the girl for fraud.

jmoore:
Wise girl.

Mumu boy.
Was sex part of the terms and conditions?
Did she force you to take her to Dubai? Foolish boy!!

krazydave:
Lmao....... that girl shaa...
free trip to dubai and your saying no to sex
was she expecting a prayer counselling and deliverance session from the guy?

Yimu

xp17:
whether you believe me or not, 90% of sexual act in Nigeria and all over sub saharan regions are not consensual. It really pathetic for a guy to come on public media, bragging how he forced himself into a ladies and the most annoying part of it is when he gets praises for his inhumane action.

I wonder how many times you've said no and still ended up getting laid by that animal you call your boyfriend.
You problem is lack of exposure, all you do is wrapping your shapeless waist with a wrapper and gossiping from one house to the other.



Less I forget, who's amadioha?

Shut up!

Dreyl:
This was the same thing marieolae wanted to try with me, but I chop her cake clean mouth sha.

amokeme:
No but, I'm an advocate for woman independency financially

Slimzjoe:
Brah, she can't Decipher all what you Wrote there

marieolae:
Shut up!

marieolae:
Shut up!

Evathyst:
If I ever go to dubai with you, when I know u'r not my boyfriend, and I refuse to sleep with you, please rape me. Pleeeassee! Rape me!

vfactor:
Men! I am kind of surprise at the comments I have been reading. People now see sex as thank you, I am grateful. Getting intimate with anybody cos they rendered help, sometimes unsolicited. If someone change a tire for a girl, then na sex.

Except the guy told the girl they were going to have sex, he doesn't have any right to demand sex from her for a trip to Dubai. And if him come back without her, he should be arrested for human trafficking.

Girls should also know that guys of these days are selfish! Never accept help from someone u don't know. And if u must, state it clearly that u re not saying thank you with sex.

Evathyst:
Well, it seems u'r now in the mood to argue logically, lemme engage you. But mind you, no tantrum throwing.


Did you just say '90% of girls were forced into having s*X?' Lolz, I guess that ur skewed data was obtained from a beer parlour source abi na sauce nairaland people dey call am?



How on earth will a grown up lady travel abroad with a strange man and expect not to be laid? Haba! The guy might have been wrong, but the girl's action amounted to a bigger wrongdoing.


Lastly, did you also say my boyfriend had laid me without my consent? Well, I'll pretend I didn't see that!



Shalom!

jolly94:
you made a point of vindicating her action but you should also condemn her action because which girl in her right senses would follow a guy to dubai without fully contemplating her decisions and actions before embarking on such trip in the sense that she expect any thing from such fellow.

MisterLongman:
Shoroniyen