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ADVICE TO YOUNG GIRLS
The moment you agree to date a married
man,
you agree to be a second class woman
and every
second class person is classified as a
person of
lower values.
Now look at it this way.
If he is with you and his wife calls, he lies
that
he is still in the office or on an official
assignment. u dare not interrupt his
conversation
or quarry him but you can't call him when
he is
at home.
...... My sister you be toy?
He sneaks you from his car into his hotel
room
but gives his wife his entire home.
...... My sister grow up please
He visits you at home and you introduce
him to
friends and neighbors as your boyfriend
thereby
blocking your chances of getting a genuine
suitor
yet you don't even know the name of the
street
where he lives.
..... My sister how long will you continue
to
sacrifice your future?
He takes you out and buys you assorted
types of
alcoholic drinks yet he will never allow his
wife
taste even a bottle of alcoholic drink,
common
sense should tell you he is only doing that
to get
you drunk so he can truly destroy you in
bed.
.... My sister Na your body good pass for
experiment?
He gets you pregnant and gives you
money for
abortion but when his wife gets pregnant
he
celebrates and gives her money for
antenatal and
baby things.
....... My sister remember he is already
raising his
family oh
Just in case you don't know, he describes
your
reactions during sex when he is with his
friends
but will never mention whatever happens
between
him and his wife.
..... My sister na your matter dem take
dey drink
beer
He gives you a few cash and you're happy
not
knowing that whatever money he gives
you is
what he calls "Body no be firewood
allowance" (Crumbs from the wife's table)
You have his picture on you phone and
ADVICE TO YOUNG GIRLS
The moment you agree to date a married
man,
you agree to be a second class woman
and every
second class person is classified as a
person of
lower values.
Now look at it this way.
If he is with you and his wife calls, he lies
that
he is still in the office or on an official
assignment. u dare not interrupt his
conversation
or quarry him but you can't call him when
he is
at home.
...... My sister you be toy?
He sneaks you from his car into his hotel
room
but gives his wife his entire home.
...... My sister grow up please
He visits you at home and you introduce
him to
friends and neighbors as your boyfriend
thereby
blocking your chances of getting a genuine
suitor
yet you don't even know the name of the
street
where he lives.
..... My sister how long will you continue
to
sacrifice your future?
He takes you out and buys you assorted
types of
alcoholic drinks yet he will never allow his
wife
taste even a bottle of alcoholic drink,
common
sense should tell you he is only doing that
to get
you drunk so he can truly destroy you in
bed.
.... My sister Na your body good pass for
experiment?
He gets you pregnant and gives you
money for
abortion but when his wife gets pregnant
he
celebrates and gives her money for
antenatal and
baby things.
....... My sister remember he is already
raising his
family oh
Just in case you don't know, he describes
your
reactions during sex when he is with his
friends
but will never mention whatever happens
between
him and his wife.
..... My sister na your matter dem take
dey drink
beer
He gives you a few cash and you're happy
not
knowing that whatever money he gives
you is
what he calls "Body no be firewood
allowance" (Crumbs from the wife's table)
You have his picture on you phone and
saved his
number as "My Sweetheart" yet your
picture can
not be found on his phone and your
number is
saved on his phone as generator
mechanic or
refuse disposer.
....... My sister you be learner?
PLEASE give yourself a proper
reevaluation Today.
If you agree or support this update comment
Gud morning house.
.saved his
number as "My Sweetheart" yet your
picture can
not be found on his phone and your
number is
saved on his phone as generator
mechanic or
refuse disposer.
....... My sister you be learner?
PLEASE give yourself a proper
re evaluation Today.
If you agree or support this update comment

Phd holda.....

Babes who do married men are placing curse on their destiny

good one; but its like you have the best experience.

This advice not for me biko....i dnt do married men.

Midehi:
good one; but its like you have the best experience.

Knowledge rules bro, I don't have to experience it to know what is going on in the contemporary world we live in. We must continue to advice one another as ladies!

MaureenBest:
Knowledge rules bro, I don't have to experience it to know what is going on in the contemporary world we live in. We must continue to advice one another as ladies!

i doubt!

DuchessLily:
Babes who do married men are placing curse on their destiny

What of the men? What happens to them?

Midehi:
i doubt!

So u mean only people who have actually dated married men should know about what the o.p is saying? U must be a child.

ahsekeena:
What of the men? What happens to them?


So u mean only people who have actually dated married men should know about what the o.p is saying? U must be a child.

may i say yes to that! i can see you have experienced everything stated up there and that makes you a mature child..

Midehi:
may i say yes to that! i can see you have experienced everything stated up there and that makes you a mature child..

O.p should have written added "mature subject matter" in the topic.






Its time for siesta child.

ahsekeena:
What of the men? What happens to them?


So u mean only people who have actually dated married men should know about what the o.p is saying? U must be a child.

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D men destroy not just themselves but their families too

Hmmmmmm, ladies learn from this

DuchessLily:
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D men destroy not just themselves but their families too

Was just concerned that u mentioned only the women. Remember the men are the ones who made the VOWS before God,not the women.



P.s I'm not supporting any party.

ahsekeena:
Was just concerned that u mentioned only the women. Remember the men are the ones who made the VOWS before God,not the women.



P.s I'm not supporting any party.

Ofcos I Knw both parties get their wages from d sin.

And yes d men made d VOW and are supposed to keep it. But the ladies who Knw that these s!lly men r married and still agree to have affair with them, should remember that "what God has joined together, let no one put asunder"

Aii, ayaf heard

DuchessLily:
Ofcos I Knw both parties get their wages from d sin.

And yes d men made d VOW and are supposed to keep it. But the ladies who Knw that these s!lly men r married and still agree to have affair with them, should remember that "what God has joined together, let no one put asunder"

I was hoping u would say this.

I was wondering how does a woman put asunder when the man and wife still remain married. And in some cases the wife never finds out that the husband is cheating. And if a woman should decide to divorce her husband on the grounds of infidelity,would u say the mistress has put the marriage asunder? Cos I believe in a case like this,the woman herself has put her marriage asunder with her own hands.








My opinion is,the way society attacks the mistress is wrong,the men should be the ones under attack. It is the rat in the house that invites the rats outside. Men,oly ur wives should have a right to unzip ur pants.

U made the vows,u should keep it. U are the one with the wedding band,not the ladies out there.

ahsekeena:
I was hoping u would say this.

I was wondering how does a woman put asunder when the man and wife still remain married. And in some cases the wife never finds out that the husband is cheating. And if a woman should decide to divorce her husband on the grounds of infidelity,would u say the mistress has put the marriage asunder? Cos I believe in a case like this,the woman herself has put her marriage asunder with her own hands.








My opinion is,the way society attacks the mistress is wrong,the men should be the ones under attack. It is the rat in the house that invites the rats outside. Men,oly ur wives should have a right to unzip ur pants.

U made the vows,u should keep it. U are the one with the wedding band,not the ladies out there.

Even if they remain married... But the trust is broken... They remain married cos of the kids in most cases. Asunder has been put cos the marriage vow has been broken and the marriage/home can never be the same again no matter d forgiveness the wife tries to apply... Nothing will ever be d same again

It is in very very rear cases DAT the wives don't find out. They might not wanna say anything in some cases , but they Knw or at least sense it

[quote author=ahsekeena post=35896137]I was hoping u would say this.

I was wondering how does a woman put asunder when the man and wife still remain married. And in some cases the wife never finds out that the husband is cheating. And if a woman should decide to divorce her husband on the grounds of infidelity,would u say the mistress has put the marriage asunder? Cos I believe in a case like this,the woman herself has put her marriage asunder with her own hands.


You are really clear and right in what you said, I still believe that the ladies involve are the end lossers of the whole game. Therefore, they should consider their personal integrity, dignity, and self esteem. Nomatter what you do as a lady to seduce, entice, allure, or distract a married man he is married and there is nothing you can do about it. Look for your own. Whatever seed we sow, we shall reap!!! Don't give what you can't take. God is watching!!!!

[quote author=MaureenBest post=35896986][/quote]U may have a point sha.





Dignity,self respect,integrity ;these girls don't know what these words mean.

[quote author=MaureenBest post=35896986][/quote]U think the ladies are the end losers?



Lemme tell u what I know, these girls who go after married men 90% of the time go into such affairs for the monetary and materialistic gains,which they get most of the time.

Also they go into the affair knowing that thios man will never leave their wives,the men just want some fun and there after go back home to their mrs at home. And this is ok and cool for everybody,everybody goes home happy. The mistress will even go ahead to meet a wonderful young man and then settle down and live happily ever after.



KARMA is a b1tch,that's what everybody says. Karma doesn't really work,I mean we all know really terrible people who are still alive and doing well and enjoying life,where's karma when u expect it?




Ps...I'm not taking sides. Just saying what I think.