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Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:16pm On Jul 17, 2015
Right from when i can remember, marriage don't seem bliss to me.I don't believe in premarital sex and I also don't believe in marriage .
I need just 10 good reasons why I need marriage in my life.











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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by delishpot: 7:18pm On Jul 17, 2015
Dont get married. If you dont feel the need to, no one can tell you why. You need to feel it in your bones.

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jul 17, 2015
If u like don't get married, u don't need to ask for reasons why you should. To each his own. If u like sef marry Goat or better still Cow

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by daimsy(f): 7:19pm On Jul 17, 2015
You need to have your own children just as you were gotten by mum and dad.







wait!


I dey come.

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by goodmorning40: 7:26pm On Jul 17, 2015
Never get married if u don't want to run mad

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by yomi007k(m): 7:26pm On Jul 17, 2015
daimsy:
You need to have your own children just as you were gotten by mum and dad.







wait!


I dey come.
This ur single reason aint gud enuf for me. grin

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:27pm On Jul 17, 2015
delishpot:
Dont get married. If you dont feel the need to, no one can tell you why. You need to feel it in your bones.
Everyone behaves like its the most important thing in this life and a woman is nothing without a husband

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by Nobody: 7:27pm On Jul 17, 2015
MsBliss:
Right from when i can remember, marriage don't seem bliss to me.I don't believe in premarital sex and I also don't believe in marriage .
I need just 10 good reasons why I need marriage in my life.

If you need people to give you reason to or not to marry, then you are actually making the mistake of allowing society/the public, to decide or dictate your choices.

This days marriage has become like a tradition. Everyone wants to marry because their parents married and older members of their family and a lot of their friends married and are marrying. So marriage has now become a must. As something that everyone has to engage in, if not, the persons life isn't complete or fulfilled.

Society has found a way to place a sort of stigma on someone who isn't married, especially ladies.
A lady who isn't married is perceived as cursed, as someone who hasn't achieved anything. And all this is utterly wrong

Msbliss, if you don't want to marry, and if you see marriage as something that you wouldn't gain from or enjoy, please don't let anybody force you into it.

It's your life and you are accountable for it. You are your life's own administrator and you have the choice and power to direct it in anyway you want.

Do what makes you happy and fulfilled. And if being single for the rest of your life is that thing, then do it.

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:28pm On Jul 17, 2015
daimsy:
You need to have your own children just as you were gotten by mum and dad.







wait!


I dey come.
There are so many men around who will jump at the thought of being a baby papa so that your reason is not good enough

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by daimsy(f): 7:29pm On Jul 17, 2015
yomi007k:

This ur single reason aint gud enuf for me. grin
ok.



don't marry!!!
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:32pm On Jul 17, 2015
misssclassy:


If you need people to give you reason to or not to marry, then you are actually making the mistake of allowing society/the public, to decide or dictate your choices.

This days marriage has become like a tradition. Everyone wants to marry because their parents married and older members of their family and a lot of their friends married and are marrying. So marriage has now become a must. As something that everyone has to engage in, if not, the persons life isn't complete or fulfilled.

Society has found a way to place a sort of stigma on someone who isn't married, especially ladies.
A lady who isn't married is perceived as cursed, as someone who hasn't achieved anything. And all this is utterly wrong

Msbliss, if you don't want to marry, and if you see marriage as something that you wouldn't gain from or enjoy, please don't let anybody force you into it.

It's your life and you are accountable for it. You are your life's own administrator and you have the choice and power to direct it in anyway you want.

Do what makes you happy and fulfilled and if being single for the rest of your life is that thing, then do it.

Hmm thanks

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:33pm On Jul 17, 2015
goodmorning40:
Never get married if u don't want to run mad
You mean getting married is synonymous to madness ?

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by yomi007k(m): 7:33pm On Jul 17, 2015
daimsy:
ok.



don't marry!!!
Now ur talking wink
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by daimsy(f): 7:34pm On Jul 17, 2015
yomi007k:

Now ur talking wink
hmmm.
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:34pm On Jul 17, 2015
delishpot:
Dont get married. If you dont feel the need to, no one can tell you why. You need to feel it in your bones.
I don't feel it .There are so many negatively in it than the positive sides .
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by hardeiluxie: 7:35pm On Jul 17, 2015
Get Married Or Not Itz Ur Choice......My Advice Grow Old Nd Die A Barren....Lyf Goes On

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by delishpot: 7:35pm On Jul 17, 2015
MsBliss:

Everyone behaves like its the most important thing in this life and a woman is nothing without a husband

I understand. Yes marriage is pushed at girls earlier than men but in the end, both sexes are expected to marry no mater what.
like I said, no one can say reasons against or for marriage to you cos we all have different expectations from our relationships. So while one man may say he likes marriage cos he is never alone, another will say he hates marriage cos he never has alone time. So its an individual thing. When you meet the one and you feel like your life styles compliment each other be it what ever you may feel the need to narry.... so 1 mans + may be another mans -
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by ChikezieU(m): 7:39pm On Jul 17, 2015
Believe it or not everyone needs a companion in this journey called earth, no man or woman can stand alone. But I may admit that marriage might have proven to be far worse than being single due to flaws in human nature(self inflicted) . But it's better to get married particularly women.

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by naijainfogalery: 7:40pm On Jul 17, 2015
MsBliss:
Right from when i can remember, marriage don't seem bliss to me.I don't believe in premarital sex and I also don't believe in marriage .
I need just 10 good reasons why I need marriage in my life.

First of all you need someone to love you, care for you, adore you, and do anything for you these are some other reasons

1. to bring up children that will be your source of joy for the rest of your life
2. To actually take up the responsibility of leadership - it develops your leadership skills
3. It gives you a companion
4. You become Mrs
5. Its natural to get married cos thats the way God ordains it
6. You will have a family of your own
7. You will have a helper that assists you financially, sexually, materially, spiritually
8. Gives you a spirit of commitment
9. You know someones got your back anytime anyday
10. You have someone dedicated to you through out your life
11. Someone to talk to when you lonely, need advice or when you are down
12. Someone to tell you how beautiful you are and cant do without you


And please dont let anyone rub you of your happiness you are going to find someone that will love and adore you

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by Slimzjoe(m): 7:40pm On Jul 17, 2015
Well, First of all, Your Religion says You should. Except you're a Nun or a Priest..
Secondly, if Two People never Got married, you won't be Existing.
Third, Its Actually your Decision To Make.... To Marry or not...

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by yomi007k(m): 7:44pm On Jul 17, 2015
hardeiluxie:
Get Married Or Not Itz Ur Choice......My Advice Grow Old Nd Die A Barren....Lyf Goes On
Story story

Dying a Happy Barren is better than a dying an unhappy married spouse jare. cheesy

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by yomi007k(m): 7:50pm On Jul 17, 2015
Slimzjoe:
Well, First of all, Your Religion says You should. Except you're a Nun or a Priest..
Secondly, if Two People never Got married, you won't be Existing.
Third, Its Actually your Decision To Make.... To Marry or not...
1- I'm a Monk. Hehe.
Religion has caused a lot of problems in this world. U still wanna use that as a yardstick?

2- if ur not existing, ur not existing. Existence is not defined by marriage, don't get it twisted.

3- true, its UR DECISION TO MARRY OR NOT.

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by lilmax(m): 7:51pm On Jul 17, 2015
Dont get married,you will know the reason in ten years time

And when guys ask you out make sure you tell them from the onset its sex mate game not marriage

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 7:58pm On Jul 17, 2015
yomi007k:

1- I'm a Monk. Hehe.
Religion has caused a lot of problems in this world. U still wanna use that as a yardstick?

2- if ur not existing, ur not existing. Existence is not defined by marriage, don't get it twisted.

3- true, its UR DECISION TO MARRY OR NOT.
Yomi007 seems like you are in the same situation as I am cos you seem to be answering the questions targeted at me.
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 8:01pm On Jul 17, 2015
lilmax:
Dont get married,you will know the reason in ten years time

And when guys ask you out make sure you tell them from the onset its sex mate game not marriage
Read my post again and you will notice where I stated that am not a fan of premarital sex.

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 8:06pm On Jul 17, 2015
Slimzjoe:
Well, First of all, Your Religion says You should. Except you're a Nun or a Priest..
Secondly, if Two People never Got married, you won't be Existing.
Third, Its Actually your Decision To Make.... To Marry or not...
keep religion out of this afterall the Bible also asked us to married if we wish and can't keep away from fornication .
These days parents make it seem like its the most important thing and the best thing after cabin biscuit .

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 8:08pm On Jul 17, 2015
naijainfogalery:


First of all you need someone to love you, care for you, adore you, and do anything for you these are some other reasons

1. to bring up children that will be your source of joy for the rest of your life
2. To actually take up the responsibility of leadership - it develops your leadership skills
3. It gives you a companion
4. You become Mrs
5. Its natural to get married cos thats the way God ordains it
6. You will have a family of your own
7. You will have a helper that assists you financially, sexually, materially, spiritually
8. Gives you a spirit of commitment
9. You know someones got your back anytime anyday
10. You have someone dedicated to you through out your life
11. Someone to talk to when you lonely, need advice or when you are down
12. Someone to tell you how beautiful you are and cant do without you


And please dont let anyone rub you of your happiness you are going to find someone that will love and adore you
Wow can I give you a medal for this ?
it sounds cool buh it didn't in anyway come close to convincing me.
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by orogodoganyin(m): 8:15pm On Jul 17, 2015
make nuns ur role models pls
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by yomi007k(m): 8:15pm On Jul 17, 2015
MsBliss:

Yomi007 seems like you are in the same situation as I am cos you seem to be answering the questions targeted at me.

Ur not wrong.

U want 10 reasons, I need 21 reasons. grin

Reasons that r logical, not emotional.

So, leave me for them. I seek to be enlightened. grin

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Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by lilmax(m): 8:18pm On Jul 17, 2015
MsBliss:

Read my post again and you will notice where I stated that am not a fan of premarital sex.
i got that,the “sex mate thing“ came from that “you are not a fan of premarital sex“

now the question is what kind of relationship do you wish to have? Or you just want a lonely life without relationships?
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by yomi007k(m): 8:22pm On Jul 17, 2015
orogodoganyin:
make nuns ur role models pls

Funky Nuns baa. grin
Re: Can Someone Give Me At Least 10 Reasons Why I Should Get Married by MsBliss(f): 8:31pm On Jul 17, 2015
yomi007k:


Ur not wrong.

U want 10 reasons, I need 21 reasons. grin

Reasons that r logical, not emotional.

So, leave me for them. I seek to be enlightened. grin
Lol glad to see that we are in the same shoes and also cool to know that am not the only confused being about the topic.

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