MsBliss:

Lol glad to see that we are in the same shoes and also cool to know that am not the only confused being about the topic.

naijainfogalery:


First of all you need someone to love you, care for you, adore you, and do anything for you these are some other reasons

1. to bring up children that will be your source of joy for the rest of your life
2. To actually take up the responsibility of leadership - it develops your leadership skills
3. It gives you a companion
4. You become Mrs
5. Its natural to get married cos thats the way God ordains it
6. You will have a family of your own
7. You will have a helper that assists you financially, sexually, materially, spiritually
8. Gives you a spirit of commitment
9. You know someones got your back anytime anyday
10. You have someone dedicated to you through out your life
11. Someone to talk to when you lonely, need advice or when you are down
12. Someone to tell you how beautiful you are and cant do without you


And please dont let anyone rub you of your happiness you are going to find someone that will love and adore you

freeage7:
Its a divine commandment from our creator. That we should go forth and multiply the earth.
...So shall a man leave his parent and cleave to his wife. No ten reasons might be good enough for you, just understand its a divine commandment.

Unfortunately, the human factors have so much destroy the idea and ideals of marriage.
Even with the many ups and downs, marriage remains a beautiful thing.

MsBliss:

Wow can I give you a medal for this ?
it sounds cool buh it didn't in anyway come close to convincing me.

misssclassy:


1. What if she doesn't want children? And what gives you the assurance that the children she would give birth to will be her source of joy? Are all children a source of joy to their parents?

2. One can harness his/her leadership skills through other means.

3. A friend can also be a companion, whether male or female. You don't have to marry the person.

4. How does becoming a Mrs add meaningfully to ones life?

5. Who told you it's natural to get married. You are only using the bible as your standpoint. How about other religions that don't believe in the bible or atheists and freethinkers that don't believe in God?

6) What if she doesn't want to have a family of her own?

7) For you to have a helper, it means you have needs. What if she doesn't have those needs you mentioned?
You should also know that you don't have to marry someone before the person serves as a helper.

8 ) You can also develop commitment in other areas and works of life

9)Does every husband have their wife's back anytime anyday. Are all men loyal to their wives? Of course not.

10) Like the point above. Are all men dedicated to their wives? No! That's why we have a lot of broken marriages here and there.

11)A friend can serve that purpose.

12)Why would someone need validation from people before she believes that she is beautiful? If she believes she is beautiful, she doesn't need someone to convince her that she is.

This days, telling someone you can't do without her means nothings. Words don't count in relationships anymore. Action does.

freeage7:
Its a divine commandment from our creator. That we should go forth and multiply the earth.
...So shall a man leave his parent and cleave to his wife. No ten reasons might be good enough for you, just understand its a divine commandment.

Unfortunately, the human factors have so much destroy the idea and ideals of marriage.
Even with the many ups and downs, marriage remains a beautiful thing.

misssclassy:


People like you are always so quick to quote the scriptures on issues like this. Okay let me engage you a bit.

You are picking this verse because It's in favor of what you are standing for, but if I ask you why you don't obey the strange commands of God in the book of leviticus, you will say that's in the old testament and we are living by grace.
Is this "law" you quoted not in the old testament?

Now tell me, in the new testament, the testament of grace, why did Jesus not obey the "instructions" of his father and multiply and replenish the earth?
Why did paul the greatest writer in the whole bible not marry? Why did he admonish christians that being single is a holy and righteous alternative but if you feel you can't control yourself, you should then marry?

Why?

misssclassy:


People like you are always so quick to quote the scriptures on issues like this. Okay let me engage you a bit.

You are picking this verse because It's in favor of what you are standing for, but if I ask you why you don't obey the strange commands of God in the book of leviticus, you will say that's in the old testament and we are living by grace.

Now tell me, in the new testament, the testament of grace, why did Jesus not obey the "instructions" of his father and multiply and replenish the earth?
Why did paul the greatest writer in the whole bible not marry? Why did he admonish christians that being single is a holy and righteous alternative but if you feel you can't control yourself, you should then marry?

Why?

yomi007k:

1- I'm a Monk. Hehe.
Religion has caused a lot of problems in this world. U still wanna use that as a yardstick?

2- if ur not existing, ur not existing. Existence is not defined by marriage, don't get it twisted.

3- true, its UR DECISION TO MARRY OR NOT.

yomi007k:


Babe, u harsh oo.

This guy nor fit answer ds questions, he's gona have a seizure.lol

Na pastors ds dudes go worship, dey don't "study" d bible.

misssclassy:


People like you are always so quick to quote the scriptures on issues like this. Okay let me engage you a bit.

You are picking this verse because It's in favor of what you are standing for, but if I ask you why you don't obey the strange commands of God in the book of leviticus, you will say that's in the old testament and we are living by grace.
Is this "law" you quoted not in the old testament?

Now tell me, in the new testament, the testament of grace, why did Jesus not obey the "instructions" of his father and multiply and replenish the earth?
Why did paul the greatest writer in the whole bible not marry? Why did he admonish christians that being single is a holy and righteous alternative but if you feel you can't control yourself, you should then marry as was stated in the book of 1Corinthians 7?

Why?

freeage7:

Because the apostle paul fully understands humans, and the place of spirituality as regards connecting to God. That was why he says, if u can hold ursef cool, if u can't go get married and abstain from fornication ok. Go replenish the earth doesn't give one the ticket to have 12 kids. I do not know she, misssclassy belief and what she stand for ok.

That why Jesus did not get married? U can please help me with the answer.

And how manage did a married man emerged as the pope?

Slimzjoe:


Religion has not Caused any Problem in this world... Human Beings with there Complicated Lifestyles Made it seem so

And Yhu can't Exist if a Sperm didn't Touch any Fertilized Egg

Slimzjoe:


Because Paul and Jesus Where 'Missionaries'. They didn't stay in a Particular Place for a Long time.
Being Married, Replenishing the earth And Raising Kids The Right way as the 'Father' Admonishes, Takes A Lot of Work which Jesus and Paul couldn't Offer.

Yhu with me?

misssclassy:


There is never an excuse for breaking a law. Since the 'Father' gave a law, everyone should abide by it.

How can someone make a law and send his son to break it?

So going by what you just said, I could also decide not to obey some laws because I am too busy to obey them?

Slimzjoe:


When you're Too Busy 'Doing His Work' He can make a Reservation.

MsBliss:
Right from when i can remember, marriage don't seem bliss to me.I don't believe in premarital sex and I also don't believe in marriage .
I need just 10 good reasons why I need marriage in my life.











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misssclassy:


So you break a law to fulfill another?

So it's right for a pastor can to steal money to build the house of God?

What sort of law system doesn the bible use? Then if I am to go by what you illustrated, then it's safe to say that the biblical law system or the christian doctrine is completely flawed.

Slimzjoe:


I see where You're going Miss.
The Fact you've stolen Has made you a Sinner and there are various Punishments for Various sins which are in the Old Testaments. And Except yhu Serve God's Punishment, the Church you've Built is not For God.

misssclassy:


Doesn't the bible say that disobedience is as the sin of witchcraft and that it's a highly punishable offense?

Going by this, it means Jesus and Paul are also sinners because they "disobeyed" a law.

feran14:


dont get married. you obviously dont want it. or have not found someone you love enough to hey married to

Slimzjoe:

Read the Modified Miss

freeage7:


No respect. Can u speak about prophet mohammed in that manner? I mean misssclassy

Oh, you think I am muslim? No, I am not muslim.

By the way, I am only applying your logic and deducing conclusions from it.

kpolli:
It's not Nairalanders that will give you reasons to get married....

When you meet that guy that will give you those reasons.... Please make sure you come and update us

misssclassy:


1. What if she doesn't want children? And what gives you the assurance that the children she would give birth to will be her source of joy? Are all children a source of joy to their parents?

2. One can harness his/her leadership skills through other means.

3. A friend can also be a companion, whether male or female. You don't have to marry the person.

4. How does becoming a Mrs add meaningfully to ones life?

5. Who told you it's natural to get married. You are only using the bible as your standpoint. How about other religions that don't believe in the bible or atheists and freethinkers that don't believe in God?

6) What if she doesn't want to have a family of her own?

7) For you to have a helper, it means you have needs. What if she doesn't have those needs you mentioned?
You should also know that you don't have to marry someone before the person serves as a helper.

8 ) You can also develop commitment in other areas and works of life

9)Does every husband have their wife's back anytime anyday. Are all men loyal to their wives? Of course not.

10) Like the point above. Are all men dedicated to their wives? No! That's why we have a lot of broken marriages here and there.

11)A friend can serve that purpose.

12)Why would someone need validation from people before she believes that she is beautiful? If she believes she is beautiful, she doesn't need someone to convince her that she is.

This days, telling someone you can't do without her means nothings. Words don't count in relationships anymore. Action does.

Slimzjoe:




By the way you should understand that Getting Married was not Really Passed on as a Law

freeage7:
Its a divine commandment from our creator. That we should go forth and multiply the earth.
...So shall a man leave his parent and cleave to his wife. No ten reasons might be good enough for you, just understand its a divine commandment.

Both of you are confused set of people

misssclassy:




Oh, you think I am muslim? No, I am not, muslim.

By the way, I am only applying your logic and deducing conclusions from it.