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Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jul 17, 2015

Aitee1:
What if he doesn't love the mum or you think that's not possible? Remember there are wicked mom around the globe, forget all those "I love my mom" lyrics you read online daily it an online show that some people put up.

Have you asked yourself all those mean women we come across in the workplace, at school and the likes who are their offspring

that was just a jibe. cheesy

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 8:06pm On Jul 17, 2015

DaisyII:
To me,maturity is nt about the age.It's something more than that...sumtin more than increasing figures.

There are ladies who fall below that age range who are very much matured.

I havnt met any...

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by DaisyII: 8:07pm On Jul 17, 2015

Cutehector:
wow...I am realy astonished... I knw its very weird to get to knw d person behind dis moniker.... So I rather keep it like dis..

Very thoughtful of you

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by finesthaykay(m): 8:08pm On Jul 17, 2015

starlingslimnet:
Guys.....I am probably one of few who falls into this category... No emotions, no feelings, don't get hurt by breakups,don't get offended ....you know. So have Been wondering if it's natural..or what you think?

Op am havin dis pro as well,i mostly run out of most relatnship wen its gettin too serious,Ma mum now complains

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by DaisyII: 8:09pm On Jul 17, 2015

Cutehector:
I havnt met any...

I'll still be very much around to read your epistle on NL wen u do.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by DaisyII: 8:09pm On Jul 17, 2015

Cutehector:
I havnt met any...

I'll still be very much around to read your epistle on NL wen u do.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by herald9: 8:10pm On Jul 17, 2015

Teempakguy:
hey . . . being emotionless would make you unable to do anything or make any choice. You wouldn't have a sense of humor, or ever be sad or happy. You wouldn't prefer anything, nobody would be special to you. Even your mom. You wouldn't ever be scared nor would you aspire to be successful.
You wouldn't believe in anything. Even God. You wouldn't care about anything.

So what are you saying right now?

Chai! Too much science, you need to dabble a little reality.
Isn't emotion subjective again?

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 8:13pm On Jul 17, 2015

DaisyII:
I'll still be very much around to read your epistle on NL wen u do.

lol my epistle... Am neva eva gona post my personal life eva in nairaland.... Its of no use writing stuff abt ur personal life to a bunch of faceless forum who would rather bash, dan gv a sensible advice.. I hardly even come in nairaland these days... A very good nl female frnd realy advised me on dat..

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 17, 2015

herald9:
Chai! Too much science, you need to dabble a little reality.
Isn't emotion subjective again?

trust me here. Emotions span far wider than heart breaks or annoyances. They are the very things that enable us to function as humans.
Besides, science is how I understand reality.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 8:14pm On Jul 17, 2015

DaisyII:
I'll still be very much around to read your epistle on NL wen u do.

lol... Even if I get privileged to meet one, I"d not say it here in nl...

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Emodeee: 8:16pm On Jul 17, 2015

Oyind17:
What's the meaning of that? do I look like I give a flying fvck about your doubt? pls don't get me angry this peaceful evening. I say whatever I like here and I'm not looking for bf here so get that into your small brain. Take your small penisssssss and large balls off my mention!!

upload ur picture. It's nt ma fault, jez dat Sometimes u write lyk a male.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by sirthisthickkal: 8:18pm On Jul 17, 2015

herald9:

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Darkseid(m): 8:19pm On Jul 17, 2015

And I thought I was alone in this.Even though I have lots of female friends,I have not had up to 5% feelings for any girl in the past 3 years.It sometimes pains me as I don't bother myself to chase any girl.It just sucks.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jul 17, 2015

Emodeee:
upload ur picture. It's nt ma fault, jez dat Sometimes u write lyk a male.

How na? tell me you want to see my pix

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by DaisyII: 8:26pm On Jul 17, 2015

Cutehector:
lol... Even if I get privileged to meet one, I"d not say it here in nl...

mayb u'll share the testimony with me. cheesy

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by DaisyII: 8:28pm On Jul 17, 2015

Cutehector:
lol my epistle... Am neva eva gona post my personal life eva in nairaland.... Its of no use writing stuff abt ur personal life to a bunch of faceless forum who would rather bash, dan gv a sensible advice.. I hardly even come in nairaland these days... A very good nl female frnd realy advised me on dat..

it's the norm here on NL...Gud a lady's got dat common sense.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Emodeee: 8:37pm On Jul 17, 2015

Oyind17:
How na? tell me you want to see my pix

i desire to see it.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by herald9: 8:42pm On Jul 17, 2015

Teempakguy:
trust me here. Emotions span far wider than heart breaks or annoyances. They are the very things that enable us to function as humans.

This is true. The problem here is contextual. synonyms for emotions are affection and feeling. Dude says he has feelings/affection for girls but this feeling/affection can't lead him to or sustain him in a relationship. It breaks off at some point. It doesn't mean he is emotionless, as he loves other things in life. This particular emotion is based on male to female relationship and doesn't extend further. So you went extreme in your analysis.

Besides, science is how I understand reality.

Not everything in reality can undergo the stringent rule of science. Reality is subjective, it depends on an individual observations. Its based on your senses, feelings and touch. Trying to use science to explain everything in reality makes you a scientific robot, instead of helping people you'll end up being alienated to them.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 17, 2015

herald9:
This is true. The problem here is contextual. synonyms for emotions are affection and feeling. Dude says he has feelings/affection for girls but this feeling/affection can't lead him to or sustain him in a relationship. It breaks off at some point. It doesn't mean he is emotionless, as he loves other things in life. This particular emotion is based on male to female relationship and doesn't extend further. So you went extreme in your analysis.

then he would have made things a lot easier by simply using "romantic feelings"

Not everything in reality can undergo the stringent rule of science. Reality is subjective, it depends on an individual observations. Its based on your senses, feelings and touch. Trying to use science to explain everything in reality makes you a scientific robot, instead of helping people you'll end up being alienated to them.

I cannot help it. sad

I am used to viewing things as consequences of laws and principles. I constantly seek to be objective.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by devonpaul(m): 9:02pm On Jul 17, 2015

Oyind17:
What's the meaning of that? do I look like I give a flying fvck about your doubt? pls don't get me angry this peaceful evening. I say whatever I like here and I'm not looking for bf here so get that into your small brain. Take your small penisssssss and large balls off my mention!!

oyin and all his sweet poraroes tho.. lmaoo

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Gurgle(f): 9:04pm On Jul 17, 2015

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jul 17, 2015

devonpaul:
oyin and all his sweet poraroes tho.. lmaoo

Paul! you dey find trouble, who be *his

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Cutehector(m): 9:42pm On Jul 17, 2015

DaisyII:
mayb u'll share the testimony with me.

lol.. Would only do dat outside nairaland..... cool

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by DaisyII: 10:38pm On Jul 17, 2015

Cutehector:
lol.. Would only do dat outside nairaland.....

waiting for ur testimony anyways.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 17, 2015

starlingslimnet:
hmmm...... but I love Ladies..

even Jesus told u dat a seed cannot grow on rocky ground. Yeah u love ladies(ur not gay) but how do u xpect to sow the seed of love on that rocky surface of ur heart and expect a blossoming relationship?

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by NnamdiN: 11:29pm On Jul 17, 2015

sirthisthickkal:
Sup bro

I'm good

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by tpiadotcom: 11:45pm On Jul 17, 2015

what you're describing is ahedonia, not so? Inability to feel pleasure. This can be a symptom of mental illness.

People should beware of what they agree with on this forum, some threads are designed simply for a bandwagon effect. and entrapment.

Lord have mercy.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by tpiadotcom: 11:49pm On Jul 17, 2015

nigerianium:

All sentient beings feel.♦

how do you think someone who doesn't feel, can develop normal feelings and emotions?

just curious.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by tpiadotcom: 11:52pm On Jul 17, 2015

starlingslimnet:
You are going by the book am going by reality.... That's what science told you right? but That's not what nature says.....Let me tell you something confusing... I love people with no emotion attached... I aspire to be successful more than anyone can imagine... Still no emotions..

what things or topics do you have feelings for?

no matter how minimal.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by MrsChima(f): 11:54pm On Jul 17, 2015

starlingslimnet:
Guys.....I am probably one of few who falls into this category... No emotions, no feelings, don't get hurt by breakups,don't get offended ....you know. So have Been wondering if it's natural..or what you think?

You are guarded so therefore you are untouchable.

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by stanboy28(m): 1:10am On Jul 18, 2015

Yes there people dat cant feel emotions. They are know as sociopaths, or psychopaths. They lack receptors in the brain that cause empathy. Basically, they're a human shell with no human soul. Most of the murderers, dictators and rapists in the world are sociopaths or psychopaths.
There is no therapy or medication to treat these people, unfortunately.
Exodus - Autistic people do have an emotional system. They just have a hard time learning how to express it, and understanding social cues that most people do.
J.P. - You're wrong. I've studied psychopathy at length, and observed them. Teaching them how to hide their lack of moral reasoning and emotion is not the same as treating them.
Treating them would be making them understand morality and emotion, and thus they feel drawn to behave ethically. This is not possible with any know therapy or medication at this time.
It is impossible to treat them. Think about it - in order for therapy to work, the person in therapy must recognize that they need help, and they must desire to improve themselves.
But a sociopath is incapable of feeling bad about anything they do. They do not feel love or guilt or shame or any of the things that would drive someone to seek help. So, how do you help someone who is not driven to improve themselves?
The answer is: You can't.
All you can do is teach them to hide it. But because they do not have any reason not to act out (since they feel no guilt), it will not stop them from doing harmful things. All it will do is help them fool people temporarily.
Alexithymia is not a lack of emotion. It's a processing problem, where the link between felt emotion and comprehension of emotion is broken. But you do FEEL emotion, even if you don't understand it or know how to describe it.
Sociopaths and psychopaths do not feel any emotion. And the reason they often hurt or kill others is because an adrenaline rush is the only rush they can feel.
J.P. Now we're just talking about degrees. Only a small percentage of people with sociopathic tendencies are true sociopaths. A true sociopath does not feel emotion. They do not react in any way to images which are happy, sad, or any other emotional description. They ONLY react to violent or spectacular images, which cause adrenaline spikes. This is the extent of their understanding of emotion.
Don't condescend. You're conflated 2 unrelated disorders which are fundamentally different in how they effect people. Maybe you're the one who needs to go back to the drawing board.
I'm not bickering on this anymore. I was a profiler - I've met more sociopaths in a few years than most people would meet if they lived to be 200 years old
i copied it from somwere

Re: Is It Natural To Have No Feelings? by stanboy28(m): 1:22am On Jul 18, 2015

starlingslimnet:
Guys.....I am probably one of few who falls into this category... No emotions, no feelings, don't get hurt by breakups,don't get offended ....you know. So have Been wondering if it's natural..or what you think?

Yes. They are know as sociopaths, or psychopaths. They lack receptors in the brain that cause empathy. Basically, they're a human shell with no human soul. Most of the murderers, dictators and rapists in the world are sociopaths or psychopaths.
There is no therapy or medication to treat these people, unfortunately.
Exodus - Autistic people do have an emotional system. They just have a hard time learning how to express it, and understanding social cues that most people do.
J.P. - You're wrong. I've studied psychopathy at length, and observed them. Teaching them how to hide their lack of moral reasoning and emotion is not the same as treating them.
Treating them would be making them understand morality and emotion, and thus they feel drawn to behave ethically. This is not possible with any know therapy or medication at this time.
It is impossible to treat them. Think about it - in order for therapy to work, the person in therapy must recognize that they need help, and they must desire to improve themselves.
But a sociopath is incapable of feeling bad about anything they do. They do not feel love or guilt or shame or any of the things that would drive someone to seek help. So, how do you help someone who is not driven to improve themselves?
The answer is: You can't.
All you can do is teach them to hide it. But because they do not have any reason not to act out (since they feel no guilt), it will not stop them from doing harmful things. All it will do is help them fool people temporarily.
Alexithymia is not a lack of emotion. It's a processing problem, where the link between felt emotion and comprehension of emotion is broken. But you do FEEL emotion, even if you don't understand it or know how to describe it.
Sociopaths and psychopaths do not feel any emotion. And the reason they often hurt or kill others is because an adrenaline rush is the only rush they can feel.
J.P. Now we're just talking about degrees. Only a small percentage of people with sociopathic tendencies are true sociopaths. A true sociopath does not feel emotion. They do not react in any way to images which are happy, sad, or any other emotional description. They ONLY react to violent or spectacular images, which cause adrenaline spikes. This is the extent of their understanding of emotion.
Don't condescend. You're conflated 2 unrelated disorders which are fundamentally different in how they effect people. Maybe you're the one who needs to go back to the drawing board.
I'm not bickering on this anymore. I was a profiler - I've met more sociopaths in a few years than most people would meet if they lived to be 200 years old

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