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Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Amankalizer(m): 12:09pm On Jul 18, 2015
In this case, the girls are ten steps ahead of the guys.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jul 18, 2015
buchisom1:
All of u guyz coming here to claim holy shuld shout da fuckup...bcoz u not opportunt to see a gal dat will love and wish to stay wit u dont me does gals are stupid...God created dis world and gave evrybdy d right to choose..so what are u pple cryin for...d gal livin wit d boi no dey complain...u dont knw wat both dey benefit una dey here dey talk rubbish...university is a world on it own go and learn everything ...
uncle, this your anger ehn...u sef dey do am? no vex o.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by uzolexis(f): 12:34pm On Jul 18, 2015
Treasuredlove:
okay, u r right about society blaming girls about a lot of things, like a girl gets pregnant and her bf is like "how did it happen? Its ur fault" as if he was asleep all through the process of getin her preg but the truth is, in this matter ehn...girls should know, dey have a choice. to say yes or to say no. Some girls, like I ve seen sef, have dis attitude of purposely leaving their stuff in a guy's place so they can always come back. Small small, they will move themselves in even without being asked to, all because the guy's room is more set up than theirs...longer throat.

Some even more foolish ones will use their money to cook for the guy, do his research assignments on her time and money, sleep with him anyhow, wash his clothes, clean and when she gets preg he will say "huh? U r not serious" and then after school she will hear " its not you, its me, I just dnt want to get my heart broken"

Ladies, you have a choice, please choose to say yes or no very wisely.
U still don't get my point. What stops the guy 4rm not allowing the girl to leave with him. Some guys also tell the girls that they want her to leave with him. My pnt is both parties should take responsibility cos they r both adults n should know what they want. If they leave together,they both allowed it happen so if we r going to point accusing fingers we should point to both of them.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jul 18, 2015
uzolexis:
U still don't get my point. What stops the guy 4rm not allowing the girl to leave with him. Some guys also tell the girls that they want her to leave with him. My pnt is both parties should take responsibility cos they r both adults n should know what they want. If they leave together,they both allowed it happen so if we r going to point accusing fingers we should point to both of them.
yeah, u r right
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Emaprince: 12:55pm On Jul 18, 2015
Both parties should be blamed. But then, a girl who lives with her boyfriend at school is the same thing with those who lives alone but still date and ffuck male students.

This is a case of kettle calling the pot black.

@chibuhealth
Are you telling us that you never dated a male student at school? If those girls who lives with their BFs were not sent to school to do such, were you,chibuhealth, sent to school to date or to study? You people should stop being hypocrites, abeg!

I don't criticize those who lives together with their lovers as far as I won't criticize those who date at school too.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by stan241(m): 1:04pm On Jul 18, 2015
uzolexis:
U still don't get my point. What stops the guy 4rm not allowing the girl to leave with him. Some guys also tell the girls that they want her to leave with him. My pnt is both parties should take responsibility cos they r both adults n should know what they want. If they leave together,they both allowed it happen so if we r going to point accusing fingers we should point to both of them.
I totally agree with you dear, in most cases its even the guys that invites the gf to come live with them now I'm not saying the ladies can't say no but then they are ladies

There was this guy back then, we both knew he wasn't rily financially there but yet he invited his girl to come live with him and she agreed, the girl kept getting fatter while he looked pale each day cus he spent more on her than him

The op sounds like a victim if you ask me because this thing goes both ways, in the end its both their lives but one thing I've noticed on this forum is that people are so quick to blame the ladies for everything even in circumstances where as a guy you should be able to stamp your authority and this co-habitation issue is one of those, i know how much energy,time and expenses went into keeping her happy when she visited during weekends back then talk more of if she lived with me....Its up to the guys on this one if you ask me
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by stan241(m): 1:09pm On Jul 18, 2015
Emaprince:
Both parties should be blamed. But then, a girl who lives with her boyfriend at school is the same thing with those who lives alone but still date and ffuck male students.

This is a case of kettle calling the pot black.

@chibuhealth
Are you telling us that you never dated a male student at school? If those girls who lives with their BFs were not sent to school to do such, were you,chibuhealth, sent to school to date or to study? You people should stop being hypocrites, abeg!

I don't criticize those who lives together with their lovers as far as I won't criticize those who date at school too.
Spot on here too and the funny thing is a lot of the guys abusing the ladies here will still be the ones to threaten to break up with the girls if they refuse to come stay with them under the illusion of "love" but you come on here and abuse them when they agree, its double speak and hypocrisy at its best
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Manaty2nice(m): 1:23pm On Jul 18, 2015
Bros......y u dai cast us nau.......... .u supose know say chics get chicken brain nau......
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by driand(m): 1:42pm On Jul 18, 2015
Which truth?
are u guilty of this?
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by no2fuks(m): 1:47pm On Jul 18, 2015
Les:
!RUBBISH ! RUBBISH!! RUBBISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Girls live with as much guys as you want, fork as much dick as you want. Flex as much as u want. It's ur life and only yours. One man's stupidity is another man's fun!!
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by iswallker(m): 1:56pm On Jul 18, 2015
Chibuhealth:
Married in School, Single at home.

Girls when wil you guys stop this thrash? The rate at which some girls live with their boyfriend(student) in their various off camp hostels is very disgusting and irritating. Sometimes, it pain me seeing a beautiful, promising young girl living with a boy who is also her fellow student in school as a room mate. The worst part of it is that, if you ask her, she will open her roten mouth to tell you that the small boy is her fiance. Girls wise up! .its very painful because their parents are not aware and they keep collecting house rent from them. Before you think of living with a boy as your room mate, ask yourself this questions; why am i in school? Is this boy upto marriageable age? What advice will i give to my children in future? Where will this friendship take me to? Some girls, after spending 4/5 good years in school, instead of them to go home or better still squat with their fellow girls while doing their clearance and also waiting for their call up later, they will go to their boyfriend's house. *i weep for my fellow girls* you call it school life, but i call it stupidity of the highest order. You guys should desist from this ugly behaviour. Its bad!!!!

#truthisbitter
ure really pained.. grin

ure the type of gal i wana marry.. grin
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Nobody:
Acidosis:
Thank God my girl graduated from a strict private school.



God bless me with money and I'll never send my children to any of these public schools.

Public campuses are the easiest platforms to get free s e x. I personally know a guy who counted over 40 girls he slept with in school. 2yrs after service, he became born again and got married to a beautiful virgin (deeper life girl).
Girls wise up. That guy you're living with on campus will never marry you. Stop washing clothes, plates: stop making that st u pid breakfast, lunch & dinner; it will take you nowhere. You're only punishing yourself and your future husband.

That time you spent cooking for a boy who depend on pocket money, if channeled appropriately in a biz, book (or both), will elevate you after graduation.
What exactly did u mean at the bolded?
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by wirinet(m): 2:12pm On Jul 18, 2015
Chibuhealth:
Married in School, Single at home.

Girls when wil you guys stop this thrash? The rate at which some girls live with their boyfriend(student) in their various off camp hostels is very disgusting and irritating. Sometimes, it pain me seeing a beautiful, promising young girl living with a boy who is also her fellow student in school as a room mate. The worst part of it is that, if you ask her, she will open her roten mouth to tell you that the small boy is her fiance. Girls wise up! .its very painful because their parents are not aware and they keep collecting house rent from them. Before you think of living with a boy as your room mate, ask yourself this questions; why am i in school? Is this boy upto marriageable age? What advice will i give to my children in future? Where will this friendship take me to? Some girls, after spending 4/5 good years in school, instead of them to go home or better still squat with their fellow girls while doing their clearance and also waiting for their call up later, they will go to their boyfriend's house. *i weep for my fellow girls* you call it school life, but i call it stupidity of the highest order. You guys should desist from this ugly behaviour. Its bad!!!!

#truthisbitter
Whish one consign you? Why will it pain you if a promising young girl and a boy decide to live together as room mates?

Please face your life and allow others live their lives. Do you think you are better than those that married in school or you would be more successful than them in life?

OP face your front.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Acidosis(m): 2:19pm On Jul 18, 2015
Joavid:
Meaninghuh


Plus, co-habitation happens off campus mostly. In apartments and lodges.
Meaning, she didn't live with any man. A girl who spent her uni (public) days with a guy can still deny, given that some live in university hostels.

Co-habitation is very bad. How can one live with a toddler for 1, 2, 3 years?? I don't have an empirical evidence on this but I can authoritatively tell you that women who co-habitated before marriage have had at least 1 or 2 abortions. Those who escaped abortions spent their days taking all kinds of drugs.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by NifemiOlu(m): 2:23pm On Jul 18, 2015
Acidosis:
Meaning, she didn't co-habit with any man. A girl who spent her uni (public) days with a guy can still deny, given that some live in university hostels.

Co-habitation is very bad. How can one live with a toddler for 1, 2, 3 years?? I don't have an empirical evidence on this but I can authoritatively tell you that women who co-habited before marriage have had at least 1 or 2 abortions. Those who escaped abortions spent their days taking all kinds of drugs.
There's no escaping abortions.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Acidosis(m): 2:24pm On Jul 18, 2015
NifemiOlu:
There's no escaping abortions.
LOL
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Moana(f): 2:29pm On Jul 18, 2015
Chibuhealth:
Married in School, Single at home.

Girls when wil you guys stop this thrash? The rate at which some girls live with their boyfriend(student) in their various off camp hostels is very disgusting and irritating. Sometimes, it pain me seeing a beautiful, promising young girl living with a boy who is also her fellow student in school as a room mate. The worst part of it is that, if you ask her, she will open her roten mouth to tell you that the small boy is her fiance. Girls wise up! .its very painful because their parents are not aware and they keep collecting house rent from them. Before you think of living with a boy as your room mate, ask yourself this questions; why am i in school? Is this boy upto marriageable age? What advice will i give to my children in future? Where will this friendship take me to? Some girls, after spending 4/5 good years in school, instead of them to go home or better still squat with their fellow girls while doing their clearance and also waiting for their call up later, they will go to their boyfriend's house. *i weep for my fellow girls* you call it school life, but i call it stupidity of the highest order. You guys should desist from this ugly behaviour. Its bad!!!!

#truthisbitter
i have never cohabitated because personally i love my space and i always make sure i enjoy it for as long as i can (just a personal choice not to form holier than thou because i chose not to) but i must have to say that sometimes you might need to learn to stop being so judgemental and simply mind your own business.

Some relationships work out and some don't. Its not everyone will work-out simply because they didn't cohabit or they didn't have sex before marriage.

A close relative of mine had 2children with her husband before he took her down the alter. They were both still in college when she got pregnant and they are happily married now (only wedded 5yrs after their first son).

Try a little bit of minding your own business and you will miraculously find yourself not taking panado for someone else's headache.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by kelzgie44: 2:33pm On Jul 18, 2015
Which truth?
......naWaUoo.....u re involved abi...take to dis timely advice..
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jul 18, 2015
Kizmarty:
what is thishuh
both m nd f are guilty of this..why throw stones at the ladies alonehuh?
i believe everyone in uni is an adult..so its their life and their decisions to make...
strongly disagree, not everybody in uni is an adult, there are plenty kids for uni.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Apsssal(m): 2:53pm On Jul 18, 2015
Chibuhealth:
i am not and will never be
Plz better don't be, cos out of the hrt the mouth speaketh
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by UnimkeAk(m):
Kizmarty:
what is thishuh
both m nd f are guilty of this..why throw stones at the ladies alonehuh?
i believe everyone in uni is an adult..so its their life and their decisions to make...
Trust me, no guy ever ; wants his gf to move in with him.

But this isn't a problem. Everybody has the Godgiven and constitutional ryt to live the way the like.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jul 18, 2015
UnimkeAk:
. Everybody has the Godgiven and constitutional to live the way the like.
exactly my point
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jul 18, 2015
Acidosis:
Meaning, she didn't live with any man. A girl who spent her uni (public) days with a guy can still deny, given that some live in university hostels.

Co-habitation is very bad. How can one live with a toddler for 1, 2, 3 years?? I don't have an empirical evidence on this but I can authoritatively tell you that women who co-habitated before marriage have had at least 1 or 2 abortions. Those who escaped abortions spent their days taking all kinds of drugs.
I did not deny that co-habitation does not happen in higher institutions o.

I only said it happens on offcampus lodges and apartments not in school hostels.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Ultimate001: 3:12pm On Jul 18, 2015
Treasuredlove:
Poor things, they really are very ignorant.
quite an age! How art thou?
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Lokooneone(m): 3:29pm On Jul 18, 2015
A dog that will get lost will not listen to the whistle of the hunter. I pity those girls who have made themselves free for all.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by nightmile: 3:30pm On Jul 18, 2015
It's not overly a bad thing if mates are matured. They could also help each other academically by reading together , prepare for exams together etc. like every other parent, my dad frowned at it when he visited and saw ladies things in my room , the next thing I noticed was him cutting the content of the envelope he brought for me by half but thank God I was in my final year already. Popsy was patiently waiting for me to have spill over or let my people go grade so that he can fry my balls but Godwin.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jul 18, 2015
Les:
!RUBBISH ! RUBBISH!! RUBBISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Girls live with as much guys as you want, fork as much dick as you want. Flex as much as u want. It's ur life and only yours. One man's stupidity is another man's fun!!
grin
Les:
!RUBBISH ! RUBBISH!! RUBBISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Girls live with as much guys as you want, fork as much dick as you want. Flex as much as u want. It's ur life and only yours. One man's stupidity is another man's fun!!
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by reallinks: 3:42pm On Jul 18, 2015
Chibuhealth:
Married in School, Single at home.

Girls when wil you guys stop this thrash? The rate at which some girls live with their boyfriend(student) in their various off camp hostels is very disgusting and irritating. Sometimes, it pain me seeing a beautiful, promising young girl living with a boy who is also her fellow student in school as a room mate. The worst part of it is that, if you ask her, she will open her roten mouth to tell you that the small boy is her fiance. Girls wise up! .its very painful because their parents are not aware and they keep collecting house rent from them. Before you think of living with a boy as your room mate, ask yourself this questions; why am i in school? Is this boy upto marriageable age? What advice will i give to my children in future? Where will this friendship take me to? Some girls, after spending 4/5 good years in school, instead of them to go home or better still squat with their fellow girls while doing their clearance and also waiting for their call up later, they will go to their boyfriend's house. *i weep for my fellow girls* you call it school life, but i call it stupidity of the highest order. You guys should desist from this ugly behaviour. Its bad!!!!

#truthisbitter
my fellow girls "A word is enough for the wise
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by reallinks: 3:45pm On Jul 18, 2015
my fellow ladies "A word is enough for the wise
Re: Married In School, Single At Home In Nigeria Universities. by Acidosis(m): 3:45pm On Jul 18, 2015
Joavid:
I did not deny that co-habitation does not happen in higher institutions o.

I only said it happens on offcampus lodges and apartments not in school hostels.
Noted smiley
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