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lilmax:
nah she‘s just confused

Really, y u think dt?

I think 10 reasons is too small. Bros Nor marry its a free world. After all the world will be less populated. Dey find 10 good reasons.

MsBliss:
The former is obviously the answer .

then dont get married.

freeage7:
U people should stop looking for ten reasons to get married or not. Do as u pls jo

ok

Slimzjoe:
Lol... It wasn't a Competition anyway. You actually Sent me Back to My Bible to Clarify Stuffs . Been Long I Opened it. Especially The 'Letters' from Paul

Glad you confessed and said the truth.

Thoniameek:
Companionship is sweet, having someone to fall on when the whole world seems to be on top of you is ''Mr & Mrs Smith''.....

Well, that's not enough reason to consider any guy out there, but here are reasons that shouldn't make you not consider marriage

1. You're supper independent
2. You're afraid you'll not find someone to love you completely
3. You're are afraid when you do find ''the one'' you might not be good enough for them
4. Because of the stereotypical ideas held about marriage by some individuals who never even gave their best in it (marriage) or are not even married yet
5. Or maybe because your own parents never modelled what marriage should be like
6. Or maybe your just a control freak
7. Or being under some form of authority where you're expected to summit isn't your thing
8. Or maybe you think s.ex is overrated and you feel like it's the only reason why people get married in the first place


Babe, there can be more reasons you should not choose to not get married
I here was one time feminist, super independent, I-can-do-it-all-don't-need-a-man coz what a man can do a woman can do blah blah blah... But I only didn't want to get married for the wrong reasons

That being said, the only reason I think one shouldn't get married is if you have a calling that equals marriage I.e. Mission or you're career oriented coz you want to make some real good money to go save lives somewhere in the world or are into foundations or just doing something to help the society and help make the world a better place... Marriage is a calling and is not for everyone.

If you can't handle yourself, I don't see how you'll be able to handle someone else and make children to make the society. You're not gonna be married? You're not allowed to lead a usual lifestyle, take Mo Abudu for instance - help society, be a nun (I wanted to be one), take Jesus Christ and Paul the apostle for example.... Then you would have lived a fulfilled life coz marriages are meant to help the society(that's a topic for another season).

Nice words

yomi007k:
Must u marry before sperm touch a fertilized egg?

Ask him for me o

Mbkite:
1. You are stil a virgin
2. You have dated b4
3. You love a particular man
4. Am thinking
5. Keep waiting 4 reasons.
6. I need just one convincing reason y I should marry.
7. I don't even know what am saying
8. Pardon me
9. How can I locate Ojelegba from bode thomas?
10. Pls dnt quote me.

Lol you are not serious o

your no 1 tho :You are still a virgin

I can't remember discussing such with you so please watch what you say.

freeage7:
Its a divine commandment from our creator. That we should go forth and multiply the earth.
...So shall a man leave his parent and cleave to his wife. No ten reasons might be good enough for you, just understand its a divine commandment.

Unfortunately, the human factors have so much destroy the idea and ideals of marriage.
Even with the many ups and downs, marriage remains a beautiful thing.

Marriage remains a beautiful thing?
I see just the opposite everywhere .

lilmax:
you are not even sure about what you need smh

No you should give me some good reasons first before concluding .

MsBliss:
Lol you are not serious o

I have seen that two of us hv no reason to marry. Make we born 2 children, u take 1, i take 1. Am gona take care of d children till dey are 5years. Send me pm am really serious.

MsBliss:
Marriage remains a beautiful thing? I see just the opposite everywhere .

Thanks jo. I concur with that.

MsBliss:
ok

Atleast u are sensible. For the fact that u respect peoples opinion. Pls, continue in that direction. Marriage remains a divine law, with a caveat. If u can hold ursef good, if u cannot go get married. Shekina

This is what I call a ping-pong thread.

I give you reasons you asked for, you quote and counter, an then we go back and forth, back and forth.

Can't remember the last time I had time for that.

If we have to profer reasons to you though, then perhaps it would be better you stayed unmarried; too many brothers are struggling with women who shouldn't have said 'Yes' to start with.

No one ever died from being unmarried; so I'm sure you wouldn't.

MsBliss:
Everyone behaves like its the most important thing in this life and a woman is nothing without a husband

how i hate that like a woman cant breath without getting married to a man.you know...just fvck and live free.

troy20:
how i hate that like a woman cant breath without getting married to a man.you know...just fvck and live free.

Lol

freeage7:
Atleast u are sensible. For the fact that u respect peoples opinion. Pls, continue in that direction. Marriage remains a divine law, with a caveat. If u can hold ursef good, if u cannot go get married. Shekina

Thanks

Mbkite:
I have seen that two of us hv no reason to marry. Make we born 2 children, u take 1, i take 1. Am gona take care of d children till dey are 5years. Send me pm am really serious.

I have no reason that's why I am asking the question on this forum hoping to get some reasonable answers.

MsBliss:
I have no reason that's why I am asking the question on this forum hoping to get some reasonable answers.

stop looking out 4 reasons, there are no reasons. Just reason what I said.

Mbkite:
stop looking out 4 reasons, there are no reasons. Just reason what I said.

Hmmm what is it you said again ?

MsBliss:
Hmmm what is it you said again ?

make we just born 2 children, u take 1, I take 1. No marriage! Case closed!

Mbkite:
make we just born 2 children, u take 1, I take 1. No marriage! Case closed!

like I said before ,I still have a lil faith in marriage .all my hopes are not entirely lost.I just need to know if its worth all the stress .

MsBliss:
like I said before ,I still have a lil faith in marriage .all my hopes are not entirely lost.I just need to know if its worth all the stress .

Marriage is good my dear sister.

Mbkite:
Marriage is good my dear sister.

U married sir?

yomi007k:
U married sir?

No ma.
But my mum and dad have been married for over 40yrs and I have witnessed their marriage for over 25yrs, so I have experience.
Thank you ma.

Mbkite:
No ma.
But my mum and dad have been married for over 40yrs and I have witnessed their marriage for over 25yrs, so I have experience.
Thank you ma.

Ok ma.

We will use ur 1 couple as a standard for the rest 100million.

Thank u ma.

yomi007k:
Ok ma.

We will use ur 1 couple as a standard for the rest 100million.

Thank u ma.

am sir

You can always be in a relationship till your dying day. You don't have to tie the knot. It's the same thing either way.

MsBliss:
Right from when i can remember, marriage don't seem bliss to me.I don't believe in premarital sex and I also don't believe in marriage .
I need just 10 good reasons why I need marriage in my life.











Cc:
Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Seun

You don't want to marry or there is no one to marry you?
Ladies always confuse these two.

Gaborone:
If we have to profer reasons to you though, then perhaps it would be better you stayed unmarried; too many brothers are struggling with women who shouldn't have said 'Yes' to start with.

Madam,thanks for this.

The op can't offer anything to a man hence the reason she feels that way.

There are too many women for few guys already.

I get you, don't let what you see around define what you want, my dear because I see so many girls sleeping around doesn't mean I would generalise all women as whores . you don't need to bother yourself with what's happening around you. I bet you i have seen a far more uglier picture than u have and guess what anytime I see that it gives me this thouht of never to be like that. Every time I see the bad side of marriage it just encourages me to be a better man.

Though it's not a must to get married but my dear look beyond 20 years from now then u will realise that some things in life are important . never let what u see around you shape your future, the power to be successful lies in your hands and you have the power to determine what ever u wanna be

MsBliss:
You are wise and most of the things you wrote up there are true.

when it is being described (marriage) like you did,it sounds great buh the very opposite is what I see around me.

iykedare:
You don't want to marry or there is no one to marry you? Ladies always confuse these two.

None of the above ^^^.I just don't see the need to get married.