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Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by Doyin400l(op): 8:30pm On Jul 19, 2015
Hello NLders, I am 23 yrs old and a 400l student in one of the top federal universities in the country.As a promising & confident young guy ladies flock around me like honey especially with my gifted academic prowess .I have a good conversation with them & sometimes I do make a move of relationship but afterwards I feel repulsive of them too early; but my problem is am always afraid of commitments in a relationship especially with the opposite sex...kindly advice me,Am I normal on this or can this be a psychological,spiritual problem which needs adequate attention before it is late.



Critics ,judas,antagonist are also welcome by me.Thanks.
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jul 19, 2015
undecided
STOP THE LIES...

AND IT WILL ALL GO WELL.

GOD BLESS YOU.
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by Funom001: 8:32pm On Jul 19, 2015
Its very hard to be totally committed in a relationship
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by Doyin400l(op): 8:33pm On Jul 19, 2015
Freemanan:
undecided STOP THE LIES...
AND IT WILL ALL GO WELL.
GOD BLESS YOU.
But sir,I ain't lieing here just as it is.
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by saintneo(m): 8:34pm On Jul 19, 2015
You have not found the one. Or maybe you are gay!


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Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by rawpadgin(m): 8:36pm On Jul 19, 2015
@ 23 there is still time to work on urself

Cruz if u don't, omo in 7years time all ya friends go marry leave u
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by Doyin400l(op): 8:42pm On Jul 19, 2015
rawpadgin:
@ 23 there is still time to work on urself

Cruz if u don't, omo in 7years time all ya friends go marry leave u
Guy,that's my fear now because man is not getting younger anymore am afraid of commitments but love their honey pot.
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by rawpadgin(m): 8:49pm On Jul 19, 2015
Doyin400l:
Guy,that's my fear now because man is not getting younger anymore am afraid of commitments but love their honey pot.
guy, do something about it
cuz if u don't it will definitely affect u in future

wen i was that age i was picky wen it com to chicks

now all my friends are getting married, brother like me still dey select
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by 0luwatope(m): 8:49pm On Jul 19, 2015
Doyin400l:
...but my problem is am always afraid of commitments in a relationship especially with the opposite sex...
Why did the OP say especially with the opposite sex? Is he gay?
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by Doyin400l(op): 8:59pm On Jul 19, 2015
0luwatope:
Why did the OP say especially with the opposite sex? Is he gay?
Gay? not at all.
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by gj22(m): 10:21pm On Jul 19, 2015
0luwatope:
Why did the OP say especially with the opposite sex? Is he gay?
Only in Nigeria that "relationship" is for only male + female.

Don't you know friendship is a relationship too?
Re: Pls Help! The Fear Of Commitments Do Scared Me In A Relationship by Doyin400l(op): 10:26am On Jul 20, 2015
gj22:
Only in Nigeria that "relationship" is for only male + female.
Don't you know friendship is a relationship too?
Enlighten him pls little wonder they called us third world countries.
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