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For the guy who's smarter than the average guy and sees things differently may have some of these problems when relating with women romantically.

They are wrong but can't see nor admit

They're used to being right. A genius just assumes that his logic must be
good, so he just keeps thinking harder.
But when no success comes, it really starts to
become mentally difficult. Accepting that you're wrong is a VERY hard
thing for a "genius".

They're arrogant

In short, many smart guys/geniuses refuse to accept that
a good, solid, workable answer could come from
someone "dumber" than them, so they discount
any idea that comes from an "obviously less
intelligent person" before trying it.

They overthink

Because geniuses don't UNDERSTAND
women, and they have the "if you've thought something through and
come up with a good reason why it would fail,
it makes sense to not do it, right?" mentality towards relationships.

They're over informed

MORE INFORMATION is always the answer.
Information is the friend of a smart guy.
But if you have a problem that is EMOTIONAL
or PHYSICAL in nature, then reading five
million theories on it probably isn't going to
help you very much.

Geniuses often use "more information" to
distract them from TAKING ACTION.

They focus on Logic instead of emotion

Most women don't feel
ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK.
Women feel ATTRACTION for men who make
them FEEL.

Their "logical" conversations include talking
about work, family, school, and jobs...
discussing politics, religion, weather... and
anything that has to do with math, science, or
INTELLIGENCE.

On the other hand, if you start talking to a
woman and you say "OK, so tell me
something... Why is it that all women say that
they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date
sexy, selfish bad boys?" (and then make fun of
any answer she gives) you're having an
EMOTIONAL conversation.

Being nice in a smart way

A highly intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance, will
think he's being such the charmer by using an
"over thoughtful" approach and the woman he is chasing will interpret it
as just another Wussy who's trying to
MANIPULATE her.

www.sosuave.com/romance/david/art61.htm

K

This is only a problem for dumb women.

RobinHez, come and see this people o . . . they are insulting our tribe.

am I one of them?

lagmostkuit:
K

som1 will come here now and ask u wots k? u beta av an answer for dat.

It's not that we are too logical or that we over think or are too informed.
The thing is if we find and build relationships with ladies who can match our level of intelligence, we wouldn't seem arrogant. We would be able to complement each other and coexist without imposing our decisions and ideas on our partners.

Our decisions wouldn't all the time be the best decisions. We would want to listen to our partners because we know they are intelligent too and they can proffer solutions to some problems that we may struggle with.
We would respect their judgments because we know they were brewed from a logical mind.

But with the increasing rate of bimbos and dimwitted feminine folk around, we have no other choice but to be viewed this way.

You should change "intelligent" to "nerd".

I actually do think some ladies just don't want to stress their brains. So no topic which requires any sort of thinking would interest them.

Even as a guy of average (or probably less) intelligence, I find it difficult having 'emotional' conversations, as you termed it, with ladies. So I think I understand what the intelligent guys pass through. I feel for them

Niklausa:
It's not that we too logical or that we over think or too informed.
The thing is if we find and build relationships with ladies who can match our level of intelligence, we wouldn't seem arrogant. We would be able to complement each other and coexist without imposing our decisions and ideas on the our partners.

Our decisions wouldn't all the time be the best decisions. We would want to listen to our partners because we know they are intelligent too and they can proffer solutions to some problems that we may struggle with.
We would respect their judgments because we know they were brewed from a logical mind.

But with the increasing rate of bimbos and dimwitted feminine folk around, we have no other choice but to be viewed this way.

kpakam
U talk am well

What passes for "intelligence " again?

i think the intelligent one's should do it better than the opposite,probably the op is saying being intelligent is nt good or probably you have another meaning for intelligence

They must be A [size=20pt] _Fucking Learner [/size]

Boomboost:
[s] For the guy who's smarter than the average guy and sees things differently may have some of these problems when relating with women romantically.

They are wrong but can't see nor admit

They're used to being right. A genius just assumes that his logic must be
good, so he just keeps thinking harder.
But when no success comes, it really starts to
become mentally difficult. Accepting that you're wrong is a VERY hard
thing for a "genius".

They're arrogant

In short, many smart guys/geniuses refuse to accept that
a good, solid, workable answer could come from
someone "dumber" than them, so they discount
any idea that comes from an "obviously less
intelligent person" before trying it.

They overthink

Because geniuses don't UNDERSTAND
women, and they have the "if you've thought something through and
come up with a good reason why it would fail,
it makes sense to not do it, right?" mentality towards relationships.

They're over informed

MORE INFORMATION is always the answer.
Information is the friend of a smart guy.
But if you have a problem that is EMOTIONAL
or PHYSICAL in nature, then reading five
million theories on it probably isn't going to
help you very much.

Geniuses often use "more information" to
distract them from TAKING ACTION.

They focus on Logic instead of emotion

Most women don't feel
ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK.
Women feel ATTRACTION for men who make
them FEEL.

Their "logical" conversations include talking
about work, family, school, and jobs...
discussing politics, religion, weather... and
anything that has to do with math, science, or
INTELLIGENCE.

On the other hand, if you start talking to a
woman and you say "OK, so tell me
something... Why is it that all women say that
they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date
sexy, selfish bad boys?" (and then make fun of
any answer she gives) you're having an
EMOTIONAL conversation.

Being nice in a smart way

A highly intelligent guy, in his proud arrogance, will
think he's being such the charmer by using an
"over thoughtful" approach and the woman he is chasing will interpret it
as just another Wussy who's trying to
MANIPULATE her.

www.sosuave.com/romance/david/art61.htm[/s]

crap

valentee:
i think the intelligent one's should do it better than the opposite,probably the op is saying being intelligent is nt good or probably you have another meaning for intelligence

I believe your eyes can see "highly" attached to intelligent.

lagmostkuit:
K

U seem like a dumb woman, is the "k" for being FTC?