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7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by falconey(m): 5:48am On Aug 03, 2015
There are certain ways to act like a lady even when you
have been rejected by a guy
The worst thing a woman can do is to react obsessively to
a guy who doesn’t like. There are certain ways to act like a
lady even when you have been rejected by a guy because
he doesn’t share the same feelings with you.


1. Ignore him:
The most important rule when it comes to. ways to react when he doesn’t like you is to make sure you forget he exists. The worst thing you can do is try and talk to him. I’m not talking about that 3 day rule of no texting or calling, I mean a good amount of weeks. Girls always get this itch to text a guy something funny we’ve thought of, or a simple question, anything just to seem like it was okay to contact him, when really he knows what your true motive is. When we see the guys

2. Don’t be a flirt:
If you are into a guy and he doesn’t like you back, the worst thing you can do is flirt with him. All you are doing is making yourself more available to him, when your solution is to always become harder to get. Keep the body language to a minimum. That includes arm touching, turning anything he says into something sexual, and purposely trying to be around him. Rule on how to react when he doesn’t like you, keep hands and
feet away from boys at all times! There is a way to
communicate with him in a monotone way just by
staying neutral. You’ll have no problem just by thinking of him as the creeper who is hitting on you when you go out.

3. Be cordial:
This relates above to the two ways to react when he doesn’t like you. There is a fine line between being a priss and being super sexual. The goal is you don’t want him to think your emotional actions have any correlation between his zero feelings for you. If he says hello, say hello back. Think of being cordial as looking in a mirror. Whatever he does, you reciprocate the same way. That doesn’t take away that ignoring him and not flirting are priorities. Just don’t make the guy think, “Wow, she’s so dramatic,” because you purposely scuff him. When men see a female angry at them they think
two things: crazy girl, and they don’t want to deal with you.


4. Throw your guy friends in his face:
Hard truth about men, ladies, is that the other views males have of you highly affect their opinion of you. The cycle of life with boys is that if one man finds a female attractive and tells another man, it creates an approval. The next thing you know the whole group of guys are talking about you. We all know men’s basic instinct is competition, so when two or more are on the same page with a girl, the automatic
“who will win” factor kicks in. When you first read this
way to react when he doesn’t like you, the assumption is to make your crush jealous. But really it is for him to see you are wanted and approved by other men. Even if your crush doesn’t know it, his natural caveman instincts react.


5. Make yourself feel good:
Girls, of course no one likes to feel rejected. Our first thought is to jump to “I am not enough.” Instead of putting all your attention into feeling sorry for yourself and changing who you are to be liked, focus on enjoying your womanhood. If a guy doesn’t like you it usually has to do with his own stuff, unless you are “that crazy girl” I mention often in my articles. Go for a massage, a manicure/pedicure, even a nice hike for some fresh air. If you feel like crying, throw on A Walk To Remember and grab a bowl a popcorn. Anything to take
your mind off that boy, and put it onto yourself in a
positive light.


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6. Stop trying and accept it
There comes a point in our lives where we feel we will never get over that certain person. From experience, you do finally move on. If you are dwelling over the same crush for months on end, just give it up. It’s a hard truth but sometimes you need to stop trying and accept the fact he doesn’t like you. Why spend all your time going after and obsessing about someone, who isn’t into you? All that energy can be focused on you, your friends, work, life, etc. The more you try and focus on something, the bigger it gets in a negative way. A lot of times letting go of the obsession creates a freedom, and a gift. The gift can come in different ways, like now that you are not fawning over this boy, you became more appealing to him. Or because you stopped spending your time focused on him, you opened your eyes up to see all the other men that are available to you. This is the toughest way to react when he doesn’t like you.


7. Go party it up:
Last but not least, go have fun! How are you suppose to have the opportunity for someone to come find you if you are stuck isolating and upset over a boy? Having a social life is the best way to react when he doesn’t like you. Your social media walls will be blowing up with hot pics, and fun stories of the great nights you have been having out. This could make that boy realize you are someone he wants to go hang with, or better yet you might have found a new guy that is actually interested in you! So go throw on some heels and call up your girlfriends to have a night of fun!


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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by segzyj(m): 5:49am On Aug 03, 2015
No 2,3 and 6 are well said

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Nobody: 5:51am On Aug 03, 2015
Very nice

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by BeeBeeOoh(m): 5:52am On Aug 03, 2015
Issorai.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by falconey(m): 5:55am On Aug 03, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
Issorai.
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by NifemiOlu(m): 6:05am On Aug 03, 2015
undecided
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by magabounce(m): 6:13am On Aug 03, 2015
Numbers 6,5,4 seem ok
angry
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Cutehector(m): 6:18am On Aug 03, 2015
7 tins to do when a girl doesn't like u

1: go and hammer

2: spend on her best friend

3; snob her

4; continue snobbing her

Add yours tongue

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by McEwen(m): 6:21am On Aug 03, 2015
Ok....but i'm off
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by wordbank(m): 6:24am On Aug 03, 2015
Any of these could work if she's good looking
Note: WORWOR GEHS DON'T TRY THESE!!!

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by falconey(m): 6:26am On Aug 03, 2015
wordbank:
Any of these could work if she's good looking
Note: WORWOR GEHS DON'T TRY THESE!!!

with make-up you can hardly detect worwor girl.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by eghos12(m): 6:29am On Aug 03, 2015
nice thought
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by wordbank(m): 6:34am On Aug 03, 2015
falconey:


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Any girl with karen igho kinda facial look is worwor, make up or light skin or dark skin ain't a saving grace.
Any geh with a before and after picture, guys don't even bother buying a toaster!

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by pTomz(m): 6:58am On Aug 03, 2015
undecided What if d nigga no still sen am?

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Nobody: 7:12am On Aug 03, 2015
Very true

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by falconey(m): 7:13am On Aug 03, 2015
wordbank:

Any girl with karen igho kinda facial look is worwor, make up or light skin or dark skin ain't a saving grace.
Any geh with a before and after picture, guys don't even bother buying a toaster!

agreed
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by sonnel: 7:17am On Aug 03, 2015
Cutehector:
7 tins to do when a girl doesn't like u

1: go and hammer

2: spend on her best friend

3; snob her

4; continue snobbing her

Add yours tongue
waste of time and money
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Nobody: 7:18am On Aug 03, 2015
wordbank:

Any girl with karen igho kinda facial look is worwor, make up or light skin or dark skin ain't a saving grace.
Any geh with a before and after picture, guys don't even bother buying a toaster!
Worwo as u said gat class too. Remember?
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Cutehector(m): 7:20am On Aug 03, 2015
sonnel:
waste of time and money
alryt..
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by wordbank(m): 7:25am On Aug 03, 2015
androidroot:

Worwo as u said gat class too. Remember?
If she get brain n the Benjamins she fit b second or third runner up after the audition

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Galacious1: 7:25am On Aug 03, 2015
pTomz:
undecided What if d nigga no still sen am?
No 6 applies
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by falconey(m): 7:44am On Aug 03, 2015
pTomz:
undecided What if d nigga no still sen am?

I know what you mean.........probably the nigga dey pray make she go self.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by IamLEGEND1: 7:54am On Aug 03, 2015
if u know say u no get fine face and Big,fine yash.....
no even begin try that ish.......
coz u go just fade further into oblivion....
#NoTime....
bt d o.p na girl abi guy?
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Nobody: 7:54am On Aug 03, 2015
wordbank:

If she get brain n the Benjamins she fit b second or third runner up after the audition
Yeah.. Now you understand my point
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by falconey(m): 8:16am On Aug 03, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
if u know say u no get fine face and Big,fine yash.....

no even begin try that ish.......

coz u go just fade further into oblivion....

#NoTime....

bt d o.p na girl abi guy?


yes a girl with a DICCK!!
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by IamLEGEND1: 8:18am On Aug 03, 2015
falconey:

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well that explains a lot.
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by falconey(m): 8:25am On Aug 03, 2015
IamLEGEND1:


well that explains a lot.


yes ........good you knew.
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by wordbank(m): 8:45am On Aug 03, 2015
R u seeing what I'm sawing? shocked
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Nobody: 8:51am On Aug 03, 2015
If I really don't like her, I'm sorry, she's only fueling everything, giving me an avenue to desert her.
I'm not interested in you and that's it. Nothing can change it.
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by Nobody: 9:20am On Aug 03, 2015
If only they'll listen
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by lonelydora: 10:00am On Aug 03, 2015
Only 25% Nigerian girls will do these things.

Where are all the #teamforeigngirls
Re: 7 Things To Do When A Guy Doesn’t Like You by passionate88: 10:00am On Aug 03, 2015
List again?

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