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Often are times that men have come under criticism, being accused of hurting the feelings of the opposit sex, the women/Ladies.

Nobody cares to consider the man's emotional state of mind, because such a man who shows strong emotions in the face of difficulties in any relationship's considered weak, but ultimately, men have these emotional feelings. Society has forced these feelings to be relegated to the back, paving the way for supposed strength, making the man assume a false identity on the outside, acting like a supper man, when deep inside, he craves the opportunity to weep, wail and share.

A man also needs to lay head on the laps/thigh of his woman, sharing with her, his own ''emotional problems'' while his hairs are being stroke by her warm palms, giving him some sort of comfort too.

The Lady can comfortably end things with the man without second thoughts, but when the man does same, the world will hear how much her emotions have been hurt. This very perception of ours has caused several men to take their own lives. Because, if he chooses to wail after being jolted, he will be considered weak by this peers, with such statements like; ''is she the only lady in the world?'' ''Why acting as if you're not a MAN? etc. But the truth is, MEN DO HAVE EMOTIONS, THEY NEED THE PLATFORM TO EXPRESS THESE EMOTIONS TOO.
<Stevedure

Mrs Phyno see wetin we dey yarn so

Really?

stevedure:
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A man also needs to lay head on the laps/thigh of his woman, sharing with her, his own ''emotional problems'' while his hairs are being stroke by her warm palms, giving him some sort of comfort too.

like Samson abi?

wrong example.

True talk jare
But we no wan join the wailing wailerz

Op dem don break ya heart?

Gurgle:
Mrs Phyno see wetin we dey yarn so

Eeeyaaaaah

I see them. Men are people too right they also have feelings.

Understood. They better go and look for someone who is gonna be Mommy 2.0 cause I can't do that o. I will comfort you, but only as a normal adult not all this babying stuffs.

This na counter thread ni?

Mehn...see speech

Mr. Op has made nice points.

Men gat no fûckin emotions! one just made me emotionless. I behave like a man now.

No time to express emotion and look weak.

Is only d whites dat display their emotions buh in 9ija men also display emotions bt nt in public they'll rada sulk on their pillow

tpiander:
like Samson abi?

wrong example.

that's just one negative example of that type of scenario out of ten thousand. Can you truly and sincerely say that there have never been a time when you long for that? Smh

donholy28:
Op dem don break ya heart?

funny you! Why don't you leave op out of this and tackle the matter @ hand? Thank you.

MrsPhyno:
Eeeyaaaaah

I see them. Men are people too right they also have feelings.

Understood. They better go and look for someone who is gonna be Mommy 2.0 cause I can't do that o. I will comfort you, but only as a normal adult not all this babying stuffs.

This na counter thread ni?

guess you'll also only like to be treated as a mature adult and nothing more! Cos where i come from, every mature adult fends for him/herself, pays all the bills alone. That's just a fraction of what it takes to be mature adult. Girls, smh.

.... in this generation, society doesnt care about what you as a guy feel......

and itz goin to remain like that for a long time.

Meanwhile,

we go continue to dey act like Second-rate James Bond's for the foreseeable future .

itz the harsh truth, but i was never the "Sharing" type any way......

Oyind17:
Men gat no fûckin emotions! one just made me emotionless. I behave like a man now.

No time to express emotion and look weak.

kilode?

IamLEGEND1:
.... in this generation, society doesnt care about what you as a guy feel......

and itz goin to remain like that for a long time.

Meanwhile,

we go continue to dey act like Second-rate James Bond's for the foreseeable future .

itz the harsh truth, but i was never the "Sharing" type any way......

lolx @ James Bond! Yes, when a house's on fire with a woman entrapped, the man's suppose to be the superman and rescue her. Reverse the scenario, the woman's expected to raise alarm, running round doing nothing in the name of seeking help.

IamLEGEND1:
kilode?

I don't know

Op what did dat girl do to you
Can feel the emotion coming out of dat topic.. Pele

Oyind17:
Men gat no fûckin emotions! one just made me emotionless. I behave like a man now.

No time to express emotion and look weak.

Kudos to you,Keep it up,

Oyind17:
I don't know

Heartlessness is for us na....
we can be "stone-cold" but all dem honeys go still dey gbadun our stiz.
But even u too wan turn amazon?
make i no come jam u for shiloh2019 dey beg for husband oh.
Pele u hear.

stevedure:
lolx @ James Bond! Yes, when a house's on fire with a woman entrapped, the man's suppose to be the superman and rescue her. Reverse the scenario, the woman's expected to raise alarm, running round doing nothing in the name of seeking help.

datz why wen i see all diz feminists dey spit their nonsensë i go just start dey laugh.....

we dey hear stories of men getting räped by women...
but how many convictions we don see?

endless stories of domestic abuse on women and the culprits always feel the full brunt of the law....
but when na woman dey do the abuse, people go dey laugh the guy (even the women dey follow join).

Q: woman says she isnt happy in her marriage?

A: you are not treating her right.

Q the man isnt happy in his marriage?

A: he should stop whining like bítch and fix his problems.


Even sex sef.....

Q: u cant get ur penís up?

A: u are impotent

Q: her vaginä doesnt get wet?

A: That's ur fault too.

#WeCantSeemToWin

IamLEGEND1:
datz why wen i see all diz feminists dey spit their nonsensë i go just start dey laugh.....

we dey hear stories of men getting räped by women...
but how many convictions we don see?

endless stories of domestic abuse on women and the culprits always feel the full brunt of the law....
but when na woman dey do the abuse, people go dey laugh the guy (even the women dey follow join).

Q: woman says she isnt happy in her marriage?

A: you are not treating her right.

Q the man isnt happy in his marriage?

A: he should stop whining like bítch and fix his problems.


Even sex sef.....

Q: u cant get ur penís up?

A: u are impotent

Q: her vaginä doesnt get wet?

A: That's ur fault too.

#WeCantSeemToWin

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IamLEGEND1:
Heartlessness is for us na....

we can be "stone-cold" but all dem honeys go still dey gbadun our stiz.

But even u too wan turn amazon?

make i no come jam u for shiloh2019 dey beg for husband oh.

Pele u hear.

Loll, I have to be stone hearted my dear sometimes I cry for love but I do that in secret. When you behave and act weak they take advantage of that. That's why I love with my brain and think with my heart. no body fit break am.

chigoizie7:
Kudos to you,Keep it up,

Yes o, I don't want men wahala

Oyind17:
Loll, I have to be stone hearted my dear sometimes I cry for love but I do that in secret. When you behave and act weak they take advantage of that. That's why I love with my brain and think with my heart. no body fit break am.

Datz da spirit!

just if women could stop being so melodramatic....

the world would be a happier place...

#TheForceIsStrongWithYou

Men by default prefer being hard than appearing fragile. That doesn't imply that we don't have emotions/pains.
Jeez! Only animals are emotionless.

stevedure:
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Stay sharp mah guy

stevedure:
guess you'll also only like to be treated as a mature adult and nothing more! Cos where i come from, every mature adult fends for him/herself, pays all the bills alone. That's just a fraction of what it takes to be mature adult. Girls, smh.

Yeah pretty much. When I'm ready to marry, I will. I don't believe in babying sir, not for women or for men. I just find it more irritating when done for men. But that's me personally. By all mean, get a wife that will be your second mother. Nothing do you.

Ok OP I understand what you mean but me and Mrs Phyno just think some guys take it too far lol, and when we come with our own problems they don't even listen or care

I would see it as a privilege to be able to comfort my man when he is hurting, especially if he doesn't usually open up much

But honestly some guys just complain and complain about nothing! Its so

Gurgle:
Ok OP I understand what you mean but me and Mrs Phyno just think some guys take it too far lol, and when we come with our own problems they don't even listen or care

I would see it as a privilege to be able to comfort my man when he is hurting, especially if he doesn't usually open up much

But honestly some guys just complain and complain about nothing! Its so

SEE THAT EXACTLY IS THE PROBLEM, WHEN WE COMPLAIN YOU THINK IT IS NOTHING MEAN WHILE WE ARE HURTING.

did you see what i did there with the rhymes. infact i am calling mavin records

sinestro24:
SEE THAT EXACTLY IS THE PROBLEM, WHEN WE COMPLAIN YOU THINK IT IS NOTHING MEAN WHILE WE ARE HURTING.

did you see what i did there with the rhymes. infact i am calling mavin records

Lol oya call them. but I get 50% of the proceeds for giving you inspiration

Have you experienced going to your bae with a serious problem and she just told you go and sleep??

If its a serious thing I understand but not when he starts acting like a baby, please