Hello people, I'm really in a hell of a situation right now. I've been dating this girl for about 2 years and we're both in our 20's. Truth be told I love her, I really do, but over time its getting intimate and by the day she's getting more n more attached to me and although I love her I'm not a long term reltnshp kinda guy as this is d first reltnshp I've had that lasted this long. Recently I tried breaking up and it was catastrophic she was broken n cried on me n all stuff cos she was "over attached", I felt really bad n tried to make up things. She asked me "where I saw myself wt her in d future?" But the truth is I don't even know what d future holds for me nt to talk of planning for two. I feel stuck between breaking up and damning all to be with her tho I know if after being with her for a number of years and something happens its gonna break her completely and be a set-back. Pls I need mature and honest advices. Cc tosyne2much EroticAngelina farano Ishilove

So you want to break up with her because "you are not a long distance relationship kind of person" ? is that how you will continue to change wife if you eventually get married? My brother, just leave that girl alone you don't DESERVE her.

Don't joke with a woman that loves u. You may nt get her type again.

if at 20 you have already used and dump a lot of ladies, I wonder how your future will look like.

BTW you already said you don't have a plan for your future abi? keep fuckinng them and you will see the result one day.

you are talking about love when you don't know what it takes to be on love

free that girl now now

Op yes listen to mbkite.. Don't joke wit a woman dat loves u.. U won't get her typ anymore.... I"m speakin frm experience...

Cuz am yet to find someone like my ex....

you only know your lover when you let her go

its your life, better break up with her now so that she will go and find a deserving man. she's wasting her time with you. na wa o, after all the fuuucking and kissing

you b bad nigga.

Y d hell r u gonna leave her wen she's done notin wrong cuz if u nt a long relationship kinda guy den it means u cnt get married
If she kips asking u wat d future holds 4 u both u tell her dat u both will eventually get dere bt nt in a rush

Stick with the the lady that loves u,they will go extra lengths to make u happy.

Bro. . . Never let a good girl go


Dem scarce this days mehn

Cutehector:
Op yes listen to mbkite.. Don't joke wit a woman dat loves u.. U won't get her typ anymore.... I"m speakin frm experience...

Cuz am yet to find someone like my ex....

Am still begging mine to return self. Babe was ready to spend her last cash on me. Am yet to see someone like her. Two days ago, I was asking her to come back after 4 years. Still in tears

OP, I know say you don bite the babe. That's what you wanted, sex. Know you have gotten it, you want to run.
Don't. Cultivate love for her. I'd you leave that babe, you will regret it and I will surely date her

Incorruptible:

Am still begging mine to return self. Babe was ready to spend her last cash on me. Am yet to see someone like her. Two days ago, I was asking her to come back after 4 years. Still in tears

lol we all hav sinned and fallen short of our exes glory lol...


Nw its time to move on. U can't continue livin in d past.. Better days to come..

U re nt a long term relationship kind of guy, oya clap for urself. Since the two yrs u ve bin wit her, and u didnt see any fault in her, den what stops u from being with her. Oh i see, u still want to f***k other girls, u cant be stock to one all in d name of relationship. Well d ball is in ur court, but never u joke with a heart that loves u. Gracias.

Feeling like a boss abi...


My girl is so good... And she loves me, can't let her go, she wants to know wat the future holds also ... Can't promise her anything

Cutehector:
Op yes listen to mbkite.. Don't joke wit a woman dat loves u.. U won't get her typ anymore.... I"m speakin frm experience...

Cuz am yet to find someone like my ex....

you fail to see my point, my point is after years of dating and God knows sumn happens, its gonna be terrible, that's why I dunno I just feel like it shud end while d hrtbrk can still be bearable.

Soon she would be singing "I bet" by Ciara for you if you leave her.

Humanbeing1st:
pls can someone rent dis mggot some sense 4 d main time?

pls if you can't comment without being stupid fvck off this thread, I asked for advice not to be abused thanks!

dammyjay93:
pls if you can't comment without being stupid fvck off this thread, I asked for advice not to be abused thanks!

yes dats why i said dey should rent u a sense 4 d main time cus 4rm ur write up i can knw dat u are senseless, and i dont like giving a senseless being my advice.

A bird at hand is the only bird, the bush is empty

humanbeingist respect your self idiot like you.anyway my dummy I left my gf of 2 years due to the same reason a long distance relationship is not what I bargained.i loved her but I love myself ist.tho we broke up several times and I kept coming back to beg her I had to face reality and tell her I need to to be certain about the future on my own ist.the country is turning to another thing.

ps-to those monkeys that are saying we bleeped and left our babes my ex slept with 4 of my guys and with 5 of some guys on facebook But yet I was with her its the distance I can't cope with for I don't give her my full trust even tho she has repented and all that

rawtouch:
A bird at hand is the only bird, the bush is empty

but have you searched the bush with your other hand?

From the look of things, that lady will get over you more easily than you thought, and That's where it will hurt you the most

I think OP is just scared to take the relationship to the next level
The girl is really in love with him, and he said he loves her too. But he is perhaps scared of what the future holds for him
You have a good girl, don't loose her.don't worry too much about the future, prepare for it today, and everyday and the future wil turn out just fine.

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mikeywise:
So you want to break up with her because "you are not a long distance relationship kind of person" ? is that how you will continue to change wife if you eventually get married? My brother, just leave that girl alone you don't DESERVE her.

She is not his wife. They are not married. And even so it is better to be honest with your partner than tell lies and cheat. If he is not ready for long term then its best to let her know immediately. Instead of dragging the relationship and knowing full well that she is not the one for u.

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